Dear WDers,
I hope you're all fine doing your tasks forwards many WDs. To simplify things, I have invented something that I can call a "personal project" or a "game" ... call it whatever you like to, its purpose is to make AB life easier.
What you need is just a couple of tokens like poker players use them.
Keep them in their suitcase (or whatever they were delivered in) and empty one of your desk's drawers.
Your aim is to collect as many tokens as possible, preferably those with higher values.
Before you start, set yourself two goals: 1. An intermediate goal; something you buy seldom, but really want to have, for example a new video game; 2. a final goal, something really chic, for example an iPad.
The rules: Collect as many days as possible with no unallowed ejaculation, especially MB, and get a token for each; and collect even more tokens as a reward for WDs.
Allowed is any kind of ejaculation that you do not endorse actively; i. e. WDs and SEs, the latter one as long as you simply "let it happen" and don't do anything to "accelerate" things. Unallowed is MB and any other form of intentional orgasm, including HF and edgeing! Also unallowed is watching porn.
Now start off:
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On the first day of AB, start counting. Every morning, after you're sure you're sure you didn't MB during the 24 prior hours, put one (1) black token into your drawer.
O means: one day without MB (or other unallowed ejaculation).
BUT: Any form of misbehaviour results in all your black tokens being lost!
Example: You abstained on Monday thru Friday and thus collected 5 black tokens.
OOOOO
On Saturday, you either MB or watch porn (or both). This results in a complete emptying of your drawer. Start from the starting point!
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As soon as you have collected 10 black tokens, you can convert these 10 blacks to 1 blue.
OOOOOOOOOO = O
The pro: Blue tokens cannot get lost! Example:
You abstained for 10 days. Five days later, you watch porn. This results in the five black tokens being lost, but at least you keep your blue one.
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Now the rewards for WDs:
Every WD you experience earns you one (1) blue token immediately!
So, let's say you abstained for three weeks (21 days). On the 22nd day, you get a WD. Now your account balance is:
OO OO + Extra-O
It is a common phenomenon that temptation is often biggest directly after a WD, since you wish to repeat this feeling. If you did that in above example, you lost 2 blacks, but kept 3 blues.
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Doing fine so far? Great! Now let's get sophisticated!
Six blues make one red. This means, about two months are neeed to reach the highest status. To reward yourself also if you're on an advanced level, here's a special rule:
Two WDs in consecutive nights lead to one red immediately! (This means the blue token for the first WD of both is void.)
If you experience two WDs in one night, you automatically get: One red and three blue.
Everything clear?
Now let's make an example.
1. You give in after 17 days. This means you have one blue, no blacks. 2. On day 27, you "upgrade" to two blues. 3. On day 29, you experience your first WD. This means you have 3 blues and 2 blacks. 4. The journey goes on, with you watching not to lose to many blacks before you can turn them into blues. Say, you have five blues after a couple of weeks. Then you experience a WD. Congrats! Your first red token!
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Now for your rewards:
Two reds can be turned into your intermediate reward (i. e. the video game) Four reds can be turned into your final reward (i. e. the iPad).
Questions? Comments? I hope you can all have a very successful AB with these hints!
_________________ Join my No-MB Game: Collect Tokens for Every Day of Abstainance and Get Rewards! http://www.wetdreamforum.com/viewtopic.php?f=2&t=7243 Black: 2 | Blue: 3 | Red: 0
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