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Dear WDers (current and future),

There are many reasons not to do MB; but to really make it work, you need to be aware of all of them at once.

What I mean is the fact that after you feel bad by having done MB, you realise what else you could have done in order to avoid this situation.

See what I mean? Now take a look at these hints: "brain cinema", "helpful thoughts"; memorize them all, and be sure to remember them as soon as temptation comes.

1
Good things come to those who wait.

2
See how far you've got? Never give up, never surrender!

3
Remember last time you did that? You know as well as I do: It makes you feel really, really bad!

4
Abstaining doesn't start now. It started yesterday! So when, if not now?

5
Keep busy! If you're in bed and start getting aroused, think about your plans for tomorrow. Think about all the good things you will do tomorrow with the power you save for now.

6
If point 5 doesn't work: Get up now, drink a glass of milk, brush your teeth, and after a few minutes the world will look totally different!

7
The misdemeanours of now will have impact on many other days.

8
View arousal as something that comes and goes like waves in the ocean; it increases and decreases within moments. Get over this point in honour, and you will be happy for many more hours! Otherwise, you know very well how bad you'll feel.

And if you're religious:

9
You know as well as I do: Both MB and watching porn are severe sins!

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Addition:

What I found to be vital in the never-ending struggle to quit MB is that you have to want it with all of your will.

If temptation comes, simply tell yourself:

I do not want that.

This is something I do not consider an option.

Think that, and keep your hands off; and you're on a good way.

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You paint a picture of AB (abstaining from masturbation) as being some kind of 'burden', and tie it to 'being good' and religion.

Yet there are guys who prefer WDs to MB, and guys who have separated their horniness from a desire to MB and prefer to enjoy the controlled horniness and energy of AB over the constant 'letdowns' and loss of energy and motivation that comes with MB.

Some guys start out by discovering that they like the 'challenge' of going longer and longer without MB, or just want to experience a WD. Some of them discover that they enjoy the effects of AB, and eventually reach the point where they become total 'converts' and no longer MB.

A lot of guys into working out, increasing muscle, and losing body fat don't MB in order to keep up their motivation. If they slip up and MB, they'll probably just sit around watching TV and eating fatty foods instead of heading to the gym. And they'll feel bad and disappointed about their loss of energy and enthusiasm.

And there are guys who think that MB is childish and only want to have sex, even if they have it rarely or never. They may have sex mostly or completely in their WDs, yet still don't see MB as a substitute.

Guys who fit into most or all of the above simply prefer not to MB. They like AB more than MB.

I knew a guy in high school who bragged that he didn't MB, and would tease other guys at times for being MBers. He would make sexually tinged jokes with his well developed sense of humor, was one of those 'nudity maximizers' in the school gym during PE class (showers were mandatory), and never wore a shirt to PE. As one of his 'group of friends' for a while, I learned that he slept nude and was quite pleased and excited when he had yet another one of his WDs.

Back then, I didn't understand why he didn't just MB. Now I understand that he simply preferred to express and enjoy himself as a non-MBer. He preferred the controlled horniness of AB to MB. And in all likelihood his orgasms in his WDs were also better and more intense than ours were as MBers.

The point of all of this is that if you want to get away from MB, you have to get beyond seeing MB as some kind of 'forbidden fruit', and learn to actually prefer and enjoy the feelings and effects of AB over MB, which hopefully includes WDs. There are plenty of guys in this world who wake up happy and pleased after a WD, and look forward to the next one with no desire to MB whatsoever. That's arguably more natural, normal, and pleasurable than being stuck in an MB habit with all its negative effects.

If you are inclined, you can use religion to help you get away from MB. But you also have to learn to enjoy AB and its effects in order to really succeed.

Thank you Texanguy! This text is worth reading way more than just once! Perfect motivation!!!

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2018 Releases:
Jan: MB 3

Last MB: 1/8
Last Sex: 12/29

2017: MB 35 / HF 3 / Sex 12
Sept 2000-2016: lots of MB to internet porn (almost daily)
Mar 1993-Aug 2000: unregular MB + WDs

Longest AB run: 105 days

Dear Texanguy!
I'm afraid you got me totally wrong there.
I didn't want to consider AB a "burden." The only burden one can have is being addicted to MB. AB is somehow enjoyable, and leads to the even more enjoyable WDs; one causes the other, and in the end the journey is the reward.
Even if I wasn't having WDs, I would AB. Just for the "fun" of it.

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