Wet Dream Forum

Yes I woke up to my 13th wet dream this year & I am 43 years old.
It's exciting to get so many at this age

Congratulations!

How long have you been abstaining?

Any chance to share a picture of your WD? (stained underwear if not sleeping nude)

I looked back through your log. You left the WD Forum in April 2014 as an MB addict trying to have a second WD by abstaining, sometimes hoping to stimulate yourself with tight underwear.

You came back here last month being a frequent wet dreamer who apparently (like many other full time wet dreamers) sleeps nude. You stated in the "Who here like the constant horniness that comes with AB?" topic that you "love the horny feeling and not masturbating."

Can you tell us about your transition? Did you completely stop masturbating at some point? How easy was it to start getting WDs after stopping MB? How long did you have to wait for them start to become pretty frequent?

If you have indeed quit masturbating a while back, how do you feel about MB now? Do you have to fight am urge to MB now, or are you pretty much 'done' with MB and have no interest in it?

I think a lot of guys here would like to hear the details of your successful 'transition' to frequent wet dreamer, since that is indeed their goal as well.

Thanks. Unfortunately no pictures. I sleep with my underwear on.
I have been abstaining for most of this year. The last time I masturbated was on July 30, 2016 and see the below sequence of wet dreams after that date.

Sequence as follows
WD - 12 February
WD - 27 April
WD - 1 July
WD - 19 August
WD - 24 August
WD - 27 August
WD - 31 August
WD - 15 September
WD - 27 September
WD - 30 September
WD - 5 October
WD - 31 October
WD - 8 November

Thank you for the detailed comment and that is some research on me :-)

In fact, I have deliberately reduced the number of times I masturbate this year and the results are wet dreams. I sleep with my underwear and the force of the ejaculation is so much at times that it stains my underwear as well as my shorts. If I wake up in time which I usually do then I rush to the bathroom, lower my underwear and see the fresh cum load in my underwear.

This year I have even had wet dreams in the afternoon while sleeping. See the below sequence.

Sequence as follows
WD - 12 February
WD - 27 April
WD - 1 July
WD - 19 August
WD - 24 August
WD - 27 August
WD - 31 August
WD - 15 September
WD - 27 September
WD - 30 September
WD - 5 October
WD - 31 October
WD - 8 November

The more you abstain the hornier you feel and once you get a wet dream continue to abstain from masturbating because that then kicks in a cycle of wet dreams as you will observe from the above sequence. I last masturbated on July 30, 2016 and post that you can see the number of wet dreams I have had and the frequency too.

I have not really given up on masturbation but next year I plan not to masturbate at all. I want to see how many WD's I have in the calendar year 2017 without masturbating at all.

Yes I continue to wear underwear and I watch porn daily too for hours plus I am always horny thinking about girls arses and boobs. However, I do not masturbate, I have allowed my body to take over and release the pent up lust through wet dreams. Wet Dreams are enjoyable because it is involuntary and that is such a horny feeling to ejaculate without physical stimulation.
When I watch porn or see sexy girls arses and boobs I do feel the need to masturbate but I refrain. I tell myself that the reward is a wet dream.


I now want to experience a SE, do you know how best to get one? I mean imagine just staring at girls arse as it sways while she walks in the street and you start ejaculating in your underwear just from the visual stimulation and excitement. This now is my ultimate goal. If some one can help me with tips on how to get a SE I would be grateful and the day I achieve it I will be thrilled.

Congrats

Thank you

I truly admire your ability to refrain from masturbation while watching porn daily for hours.

Wow! That's amazing, Kevin!! Congrats on making the switch!

Let me see if I am understanding this correctly. With your wd list there, the first three listed you had while you were still masturbating occasionally. Then, July 30th was the last time you have mb'd since then, and the bolded wds are the ones you've had since, which is why they picked up in frequency. Is that right? About how often would you say you mb'd before then, during the period when you got the first 3? Had you cut back on MB some during that time from before the wd list?

How did you stop masturbating initially? That's the hardest part for me. Any tips are appreciated!!

Maybe you should try not watching porn for a time, or at least reducing it, and see how that affects your wd frequency. It always seemed to shorten the time that I would get one if I avoided lustful thoughts.

Thanks Buddy for your message.

Yes, you have understood it perfectly.

In the initial phase January to July I had fewer wet dreams & I would also masturbate during that phase but infrequently. However, I would wait for a wet dream & then once I got a wet dream I would masturbate a few times. Then again I would go off masturbation to experience another wet dream.

Then came the "dream phase" when I stopped masturbating on July 30 & haven't masturbated since then. During this phase there was a huge increase in the number of wet dreams & also in the frequency.

The key therefore is to stop masturbating. Like someone wrote in this forum that when you stop masturbating the mind and body becomes used to the fact that you are not masturbating & so finds another way of getting rid of the sperms and that is through wet dreams.

Also during this phase I was abroad in Australia for 3 months where the weather was cold. I guess that plays a part because perhaps more sperms are produced in colder weather rather than warmer climates like India.

During this phase of 3 months I was also completely off porn so perhaps that contributed to more wet dreams. Although I must clarify that even when I watch porn for hours I don't masturbate but I guess since I leak precum it reduces the chances of a wet dream. When you are off porn I guess the imagination & mind gets fired up & takes over because you start fantasizing more and this triggers or increases the chances of a wet dream as the body must relive the built up sexual tension. Porn is an artificial & induced stimulant while imagination & fantasizing are natural stimulants. Much like people say when you watch lots of porn it affects your real sex life, I think it also reduces chances of a wet dream though in my case I watch it without masturbating. Fantasy using the mind is more natural & Healthy.

Also I used to eat curds every day during this phase & lots of fruits so not sure that helps in producing more sperms.

Also perhaps I was more relaxed being on a holiday away from home & the normal stress and routine.

I was a chronic masturbator but decided to stop so I could get wet dreams. I am also hooked onto porn but still I stopped masturbating plus I am most of the time horny thinking about girls arses (& boobs) or staring at it in the streets / malls. Yet I just decided not to masturbate & I managed. It's some will power I guess.

Hope I have answered your queries. Feel free to write back.