Wet Dream Forum

Never had a wd, and it's not from a lack of trying. I've gone weeks even months,
My record was around 83 days I think. I've tried edging, not edging, porn, no porn and so on.
So when is enough, enough, and you just give up trying? I'm on day 40 or so. I've told myself in the past I would never give up, but this is just getting to that point. I'm not sure if I should keep trying or not. I'm constantly being woken by my erections, and pre cum flows continuously,
And I feel like this might ruin my chance of a wd.

Only you can make that call. I can tell you, I've had very similar experiences and no such luck. Never 1 wet dream. I've gone 40-60 days as well. Being married, after about 60 days, when the opportunity presents itself, you just can't say no. I've actually gotten some pretty serious blue ball pain in the process of trying to hold out. With my age, weight, and other things, I've decided it wasn't in the cards for me. But that don't let that discourage you. Others have succeeded. For me, it's a "lack of control" fetish, and that's about it. I have other means to enjoy that desire.

all i can say is I had been on the site for over a year at the most going around 20-21 days not mb and ab, and yet randomly, with only 3 days since i last mb to ejac i got my first wet dream, and it had been over 11 years since my first and only wet dream...that first wet dream motivated me to not mb for over 150 days and i got over 8 or so wet dreams in that period....

have that in your head, patience will be rewarded....

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WD #12.....First Wet Dream in over 7 months...and WHAT A BIG LOAD IT WAS....wish me luck on getting to my next and 150 days of not mb....

I agree with relover. I had similar experience. I mostly abstained for about 6 months... and had gone up to about 60 days with nothing. Then after a slip up and only abstaining 14 days. I got my first adult WD. Then about a week later I got a second one!

I think getting wd's has more to do with really infrequent MB'g than how many days someone has gone in a row abstaining. And I think once a guys mind figures out how to have the first one that then next ones happen quicker. At least based on my experience.

TG

I would encourage you to keep trying and get your mind thinking about WD's.
Maybe vary your sleeping pattern to create more REM sleep too. I find being on chat and reading this website sometimes leads to me having a WD too.

Hope you have some success soon!

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The key to WD is no PMO!

You could start practicing lucid dreaming,which I have recently started. Lucid dreaming can lead onto lucid sex dreaming, where you're capable of having sex dreams that you can control.

Having this replacement for MB and porn may fill the void and make waiting for wet dreams less painful, because you could potentially be experiencing something sexual in-between wetdreams. It's also been shown on here that lucid wet dreams are possible i.e. almost forcing a wet dream to happen as a result of inducing a sexual dream.

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Last time I masturbated= 12/4/15
Days without masturbating=17

You could start practicing lucid dreaming,which I have recently started. Lucid dreaming can lead onto lucid sex dreaming, where you're capable of having sex dreams that you can control.

Having this replacement for MB and porn may fill the void and make waiting for wet dreams less painful, because you could potentially be experiencing something sexual in-between wetdreams. It's also been shown on here that lucid wet dreams are possible i.e. almost forcing a wet dream to happen as a result of inducing a sexual dream.

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Last time I masturbated= 12/4/15
Days without masturbating=17