Wet Dream Forum

Looking at how long some guys on here have been ab without having a wet dream makes me certain that it's almost irrelevant as to if youll have a wet dream or not.
Of course the more time without ejaculating means there will be a release at some point but usually it's during waking hours,and only half cumming not an actual wet dream.
I've not ever had to abstain from mb to have wet dreams when there's a girl I really lust over (even without meeting her) the most amazing experience I've had was when I first met an amazing fantasy I can't stop think of,for about seven years I've chatted to the hottest girl I've ever seen but just online and still get amazingly aroused by her when we chat.
I've been having wet dreams over her from the beginning and was cheeky enough to tell her which probably was a bit scary for her to hear from a random guy who'd only seen her on eBay of all places! She's the sexiest lingerie model I've ever seen but also a really lovely person,thankfully she wasn't too horrified but I'm certainly not the first guy she's made cum in his pants.
Anyway when I am lucky enough to chat to her I get so horny I've had pretty much countless wet dreams over her but simply because she just turns me on so much not because I've abstained at all.
So I think the whole abstaining thing is not going to make it happen for those who want to have what is always better than actual sex in my book
Basically the abstaining has never been a factor, just being totally in love with the painfully un available
Which I've now had twice but with quite a long gap inbetween, from my school English teacher to the most erotic celestialendeavour girl who I still love to chat to. So lucky to get that turned on I know but she gives me wet dreams by just seeing her in her sexy lingerie she sells!
Being teased will always get the result over self denial in my opinion. Definitely worked for me.

Interesting take. I can see why this makes sense from a psychological standpoint allowing yourself to have sex that much a part of your thoughts and it comes out in the subconscious, thus the dreams.

If you take that to it's logical step then it makes sense why some of these guys that struggle and deny themselves have WD's too. They're always thinking about not doing it, thus they're always thinking about it. Goes up in the subconscious and pops out in the dreams.

Also, I remember times when I wasn't thinking about anything sexual during the week, really just completely turned off. and suddenly a WD.

So you might be right about not denying yourself so much. I'm interested to see if we can get some more data on that.