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Guys I have tried hard on 2 occasions to stimulate myself with mental thoughts with a view to achieving a spontaneous ejaculation but did not succeed.

What i do is I lay still in bed with my underwear on. I entertain sexual thoughts and mentally fantasise about sex. I soon get a hard on and my penis begins to strain in my underwear as I park it pointing downwards. This restricts it from growing to a full erection but at the same time with the mental excitement it leaks quite some precum.

This process goes on for well over an hour and at times I feel that my penis straining in my underwear will soon ejaculate semen like while masturbating. But so far I have not succeeded, only precum is released.

Mental stimulation can be quite tiresome to sustain for long. I plan to do the same with visual stimulation where in I watch some porn and hope that I will ejaculate in my underwear just watching the hot stuff.

Any thoughts / suggestions?

Perhaps try different positions. Like you, I keep my briefs on and pointed down but I find it difficult to achieve an SE laying down. Sitting and even standing works for me but usually sitting.

Depends on your own body a little bit, but I find that my penis in the pointing straight down feels pretty constraining, in fact it feels like it really restricts blood flow which probably isn't good. I've used a rolled up sock or something to slightly elevate my penis. Provided you have underwear that is loose enough to allow this I find it works pretty well.

Thanks guys, so you mean it is possible to get a SE with this mental stimulation. Have you got it and how often ?

I've only seen this happen in videos and i always though it was super interesting. I feel like I want to try to do it but I feel like it's even harder with a vagina lol. :p

Yes it is definitely possible. I've been able to do it on a number of occasions, however it took some time to figure out just how to get myself past the PONR. It obviously helps if you can AB for awhile and make yourself really horny. I am also a "minute man" and really sensitive so that helps me as well. Don't give up though...it will take many tries and a lot of time but if you put your mind to it it will happen. Don't get frustrated, just go into it being comfortable with it not happening, and if it doesn't try again later. You don't want to pile on the pressure. Good luck!

Slush132 that is really encouraging because I have tried mental stimulation 3 times and each session lasts some hours but haven't been successful. All that happens is that I get an erection in my underwear with my penis pointing downward and I leak pre cum but never ejaculated.

Do you think watching porn will be better as plain mental stimulation can be tiring as I remain awake at night to do it. Also when it happens does the ejaculation feel similar like when masturbating? Also I am hoping I am doing the right thing by wearing my underwear?

I agree you need to be really horny and abstain which I am doing.

You could certainly try using porn to help out at first. What I have done when I was learning is use porn to "warm me up" but then switching it off and mentally picturing a hot scene. What this allows you to do is train yourself to focus on mentally getting you over the edge. You could work up to that by intermittently switching porn off/on to keep you stimulated and then gradually decrease your reliance on it. With the porn off, try to focus on your body. This might sound strange but imagine "pushing energy" to your penis. Give a rhythm to your breathing and breath deeply. Trick your body into thinking that you are "feeling" stimulation. You would be surprised at the power of your mind to control your body. It's an exciting exercise and in my mind a very healthy endeavor.

As for the underwear I would say to experiment with and without and different positions. I found that I like it better with underwear on and my penis poking out through the fly or naked but with something supporting my penis in a particular position.

Done it easily with briefs on. In fact I stay away from briefs coz they make me cum if I happen to have thoughts that make me horny

Thats some good advice from Slush132!

I think porn probably wont help overall.
The pulsing energy focus is definitely something I have found really helps. Read my 'Waking wet dream' log for more details.

For me a couple of hours of amazing feelings and dry orgasms is worth the effort.

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No problem! I agree it's worth the effort

Hey guys,

i was just wondering, is this solely mental stimulation or is there a hint of physical i.e. friction from tight boxers or even kegel exercises? i happened to come across ejaculation by nipple stimulation but again this is physical... Any thoughts?

Zac

Hey Zac, I've done it both with light touching and without. Main difference is how much patience you have and how horny you are. My nips don't have any sensitivity at all so it doesn't do anything for me, but I've heard a lot of guys say it definitely has an effect on them. For me light touching is maybe a little rubbing of my balls and/or my inner thighs which can sometimes get me going. Just have to experiment.