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PostPosted: Sat Jan 25, 2014 5:52 am 
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Number of wet dreams you've experienced: 100
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Precum Production: Little Precum (1-2 drops before ejaculation)
Average time to ejaculation normally: 6
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Briefs
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: yes
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 1-2 hours
Date that you last had an ejaculation: 14 Jan 2014
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Ive always been plagued by wet dreams/nocturnal emissions. I really hate them as it leaves me feeling so exhausted the next day. I dont have a MB habit as such. At most 6 times a year. Ive never before had sex. I was wondering if anyone here as the following experiences:

1) Sometimes ejaculating twice a night. Getting out from bed in the morning would be sheer hell.

2)WD 3 consecutive days. Then about 2-3 weeks of peace.

3)No dream but would awaken by penile contractions/ejaculation

4)No dream or orgasm but would awaken to find a wet sticky patch on my briefs - seems to be a leakage problem here

5)Dreaming of very urgently needing to pee. Once finding a toilet or quiet place I would pee in the dream. But in reality Im ejaculating in my briefs. The funny thing is I can on ocassion dream of needing to poop but theres nothing in my briefs if i awake.

6)I can dream of seeing a naked woman & would instantly ejaculate in the dream. But in reality when my ex finally agreed to let me see her nude, I didnt ejaculate (thankfully). I had also dreamed of my gf mounting me & I ejaculated the moment she put it inside her. Instant ejaculation also when I dreamed of my colleague playing footsie with me. Im very concerned that this could be a very big sign of premature ejaculation.

7)No orgasm but semen would force its way out in 1 big 'explosion'

8)I awoke because of a WD & proceeded to MB. I came VERY quickly. Why?? I would have thought the 1st ejaculation would have 'deadened' things somewhat.

Is there a cure for all this or is there a health problem with me?


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PostPosted: Sat Jan 25, 2014 8:38 pm 
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Age: 39
Number of wet dreams you've experienced: 100
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Precum Production: Some Precum (2-4 drops before ejaculation)
Average time to ejaculation normally: 15
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Boxer briefs
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 4-5 hours
Date that you last had an ejaculation: 21 Oct 2014
Sex: Male
Personally I can identify with nearly all your points at some stage in m life (excluding 5&7).
WD's in my experience normally have some element of very quick/ premature ejaculation, but I think that's because there is only a loose connection between the dream and what's going on in your body. Your penis had probably been throbbing for a long time before anything happens in the dream. Which is also why you can have a WD with no dream and a sexy dream with no WD.

How often are you having WD's?

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PostPosted: Sun Jan 26, 2014 12:20 am 
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Precum Production: Little Precum (1-2 drops before ejaculation)
Average time to ejaculation normally: 15
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Boxers
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: yes
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 6-7 hours
Date that you last had an ejaculation: 28 Jan 2014
Sex: Male
I can identify with 3, 4 and 5.

#3 - has happened to me a few times but it is not common.

#4 - rarely I find I have ejaculated but don't remember the dream, which I normally do, quite vividly.

#5 - often in my WD's I am desperately needing to pee but am unable to do so when suddenly the urge to pee turns into extreme urge to cum and subsequently turns into a WD.

Monkeymagic wrote:
Personally I can identify with nearly all your points at some stage in m life (excluding 5&7).
WD's in my experience normally have some element of very quick/ premature ejaculation, but I think that's because there is only a loose connection between the dream and what's going on in your body. Your penis had probably been throbbing for a long time before anything happens in the dream. Which is also why you can have a WD with no dream and a sexy dream with no WD.

How often are you having WD's?


I agree with this bolded part completely, this is the same for me in most of my WD's.


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PostPosted: Mon Jan 27, 2014 3:35 am 
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Average time to ejaculation normally: 6
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Briefs
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: yes
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 1-2 hours
Date that you last had an ejaculation: 14 Jan 2014
Sex: Male
Monkeymagic wrote:
Personally I can identify with nearly all your points at some stage in m life (excluding 5&7).
WD's in my experience normally have some element of very quick/ premature ejaculation, but I think that's because there is only a loose connection between the dream and what's going on in your body. Your penis had probably been throbbing for a long time before anything happens in the dream. Which is also why you can have a WD with no dream and a sexy dream with no WD.

How often are you having WD's?


I cant really answer your question accurately as there is no fixed pattern, say like a woman's period for example. Ive been trying over the years to chart out some kind of frequency chart & look for a pattern to no avail - They are just too random.

There can be times where it will be once a week. There will be certain weeks where i can have 2. If I have a WD for 3 consecutive days, then I can have maybe about 3 weeks of 'peace' at night. But once I passed my 40th birthday, the frequency is more like once in 2-3 weeks. But I can still be plagued by seminal leaks every now & again especially if I have a full bladder. But Ive also found out an empty bladder doesnt necessarily mean a leakage or WD will not happen. Its just that a full bladder seems to increase the probability of 1.

I also think that the notion that we have WDs is that the body is providing an 'overflow' mechanism when our ducts & glands are too full is BS. Reason being - I initially believed in that theory so when I did awake from a WD, I would immediately MB just to squeeze out every single drop of semen remaining inside me in a desperate attempt to not be bothered by anymore WDs for at least another week. But alas, I would get another 2 days later.

But im rather mystified by some of my friends - not sexually active & dont MB but yet no WD at all. I envy them so!!


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PostPosted: Mon Jan 27, 2014 5:27 am 
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Average time to ejaculation normally: 5
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Boxers
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 3-4 hours
Date that you last had an ejaculation: 17 Jan 2014
Sex: Male
desperatedawg wrote:
I also think that the notion that we have WDs is that the body is providing an 'overflow' mechanism when our ducts & glands are too full is BS. Reason being - I initially believed in that theory so when I did awake from a WD, I would immediately MB just to squeeze out every single drop of semen remaining inside me in a desperate attempt to not be bothered by anymore WDs for at least another week. But alas, I would get another 2 days later.


I agree with you that it's not an overflow mechanism, but even after you mbed after your wd you were still basically abing. Guys who mb regularly would generally consider not mbing for a few days to be "saving up" and they'd get a noticeably bigger load. After two days you'll have already built up more than you would normally have. If you really want to see if mbing can stop your wds, you'd want to mb every night before going to bed. :)

But even if mbing reduces the wds, what you're describing doesn't sound normal and you should talk to a doctor about it. Not only the wds, but that you normally don't mb, and that having a wd leaves you feeling exhausted, even hours after it happened. Normally orgasms make your body feel good afterwards (5-20 minutes? I don't know), and after that you feel completely normal as if nothing happened.


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PostPosted: Mon Jan 27, 2014 6:05 am 
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Number of wet dreams you've experienced: 100
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Precum Production: Little Precum (1-2 drops before ejaculation)
Average time to ejaculation normally: 6
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Briefs
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: yes
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 1-2 hours
Date that you last had an ejaculation: 14 Jan 2014
Sex: Male
Qubely,

Yes I feel exhausted. Think broken sleep. WD mostly happens in the 1st 1-2 hours after I lie down. Wd causes me to awake immediately. I spend some time to clean up & sometimes it takes time to fall back asleep again. So from that time to the time i awake 4 hours later - im totally pooped. I dont feel refreshed at all. I have about 5-6 hours sleep typically. So having a WD means I end up sleeping less than 5 hours. There had been occasions where it took me 2 hours just to fall back asleep. Worse still if I happen to have 2 WD in 1 night.

I think there is some truth in the chinese medicine/taoist view. Ejaculation = loss of vital energy. Thats why the taoists developed methods where a man can orgasm but yet not ejaculate during sex, so he does not lose that vital energy. I had also been told that a TaiChi pugilist cant MB as the loss of vital energy means he cant fully harness the full power of his chi. My exhaustion experience does seem to prove this paragraph to be true.


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PostPosted: Mon Jan 27, 2014 7:53 am 
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Average time to ejaculation normally: 15
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Boxer briefs
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 4-5 hours
Date that you last had an ejaculation: 21 Oct 2014
Sex: Male
Hey desperatedawg,

Sounds like you might want to try changing your sleeping pattern - as WD's normally happen at a certain stage of sleep, your seem to happen early in your night's sleep, this making it harder to get back to sleep again. Mine normally happen 5hrs plus into sleep and I normally get back over quickly.
You don't seem to sleep for very long at nights. Any particular reason?

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PostPosted: Mon Feb 17, 2014 10:15 pm 
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Number of wet dreams you've experienced: 100
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Precum Production: Little Precum (1-2 drops before ejaculation)
Average time to ejaculation normally: 6
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Briefs
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: yes
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 1-2 hours
Date that you last had an ejaculation: 14 Jan 2014
Sex: Male
Monkeymagic wrote:
Hey desperatedawg,

Sounds like you might want to try changing your sleeping pattern - as WD's normally happen at a certain stage of sleep, your seem to happen early in your night's sleep, this making it harder to get back to sleep again. Mine normally happen 5hrs plus into sleep and I normally get back over quickly.
You don't seem to sleep for very long at nights. Any particular reason?


Perhaps all this internet addiction, apart from long working hours is causing my current sleep patterns. I can reach home from work at about 1130pm & i seem to need at least 2-3 hours of internet time - music, documentaries, sports, news etc or any other subject which seems to arouse my curiosity at the time.

Also theres this thing about me that if some problem is unresolved i would be mulling about it until I get it solved. Maybe its a work related problem, so time spent doing research on the internet or my textbooks. Or perhaps something not quite right with my laptop & I would spending hours trying to fix the problem. I can then sleep easy once everythings resolved. Otherwise there will always be this thing at the back of my mind which doesnt go away. Similarly at work, If im not quite done with something, I just cant seem to drop it & go for lunch. I must complete the whatever it is 1st before going for lunch otherwise my mind isnt easy while eating.

ya, I cant seem to explain why WDs happen within the 1st 2 hours of sleep. It can also happen within the 1st 1-2 hours of an afternoon nap. Its like it happens on the onset of REM sleep, since all dreams occur during REM sleep. There were some instances where I did not have any WDs during the night. When I awoke, was feeling a bit lethargic & decided to sleep in a bit more. The WD happened then.

A friend of mine proposed that my frequent WDs is due to high sexual tension/frustration within me given that I dont have a MB habit. But I dont think its simple as that. I can have days where im not horny or experienced any sexual stimuli from without & yet have 1. There had been periods where I can be feeling quite horny & yet not have 1.


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