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A MATTER OF SIZE - A BASIC TRUTH OR A CONCEALED LIE

I've seen many posts about the size of our penises. And your gonna say, oh, this is another penis size comparison chart and whatsoever. Not my point. Just want to debate a bit, the notion, that we, as man, have, as what is the right size for the penis.

To say the thruth, we, as man, take much time considering of if our lovely tool has it's perfect size to please either your girl, your boy or yourself. Even without noticing it, we are always comparing our tools with the other guys. Maybe it's while we're peeing in the urinol, and we watch over the nest guy shoulders and try to see his cock, and compare to ours, or in the lockers rooms where you, discreetly search for the guy naked, and try do sized him up. There's nothing wrong with that and nothing gay about it also, as some might advocate. It's a normal thing. As a specie, any one of us is programmed to try to be e best, to beat the competition and to fathered the next generation of people on earth - yes my boys, we still got that animal instinct on us to populate the earth and prolong our genes so they became dominant over the others.

Going back to the penis size issue itself, In porn, the directors of the movies always search for the ones with enormous penis, and so, when you watch it, you might get the impression that the girls will only like you and you only will suffice them if you have the biggest tool ever, because the guy in the movie had such an amazing cock that all the chicks fell beneath him and wanted to have sex with him (the analogy works also for gay people - same analogy, hope you don't feel put apart, don't wanna discriminate no one). This is very similar to the way the marketeers make their's announcements to promote a new product that you might not even need. In the commercial you see a dummy guy, not that hor that gets the attention of the pretty, normally half naked girl, just because he has the best perfum in the market, let's say as an example. Your brain, will aquite that information and even you know what the commercial is suppose to make you feel, unconsciently, you'll feel the desire of also having the product and see if it increases you're way with the ladies.
That's the idea that porn, and many guys have promoted.
Is really that way?
Not gonna say the size of my penis does not troubles me. Sometimes I wonder, is it right? Is it small? Is it big enough? Well, when erected, which is the correct way to determine the overall size of the penis, I'm 6,3 inches. I believe I'm an average guy with an avarege penis. Am I happy with that, when I'm not debating if it's good enough. Well, let me see:

one of the functions of the penis is to be the conduit of urine to the outside and so the body is free of harmful toxins: yes, it does that pretty good
The other primary function of the penis is to copulate. For that it must get erected - also works.
For a penis to be working correctly it must respond to stimuli, like to touch, cold, hot and also to arouse. Normally the most wanted answer is and erection but in the case of cold it's normally a slight retraction of it .
So everything of the above works. That means I have a normal penis. Fact that I'm uncut and that makes me different from someone that is cut, but no more. That's the same difference that exist between me being white and other guy black. We are both humans, just with different skin color.

So, after this, I don't even now if interesting reading or if everything makes sense, is your penis normal?
I would tend to say: HELL YEAH. you might have a small penis or a large one, but it works right? So, it's the ideal penis for you, it's the penis that your genes makes you have, so be grateful for that and don't spend so much time thinking, why can't I have a bigger penis. This is also for me.

The most important, truly, is not the size of it. But what you do with it.
Kinda know this is a WD forum, but think, when you ejaculate, either by mb or an WD doesn't it feel nice? How's the orgasm? Isn't an awesome sensation? That does not have anything to do with the size of it, but how you used it.
And while having sex? Well, I'm a virgin so forgive me if a say something not that right. But, the vagina is not that long, maybe, on max, 12-14 cm, and some of the penis status out of ti, but, did you want to reach the end of it? For what point? The G spot? Well, true thar girls can take more time to reach orgasm, but to sastified them you don't need a bigger penis, just need to please them more, prior to intercourse, like while kissing, and so on.
And the gay tell, and us? Well, the prostate stimulated by the penis inserted in the anus is not that far in the intestinal tube (makes no sense what I said... I know the prostate is not on the intestine, but it localization collides with the one of the gut, and presses on it creating a bulge on the intestine, that, when stimulated generates a great deal of pleasure, for what I've heard). So, again, you don't need a that much big penis. It's the overal stimulation that will lead to a great orgasm and a great sensation, not the size of it.

Also not having a huge penis has it's advantages.
First you'll not scare no one.
Also, the biggest the penis, the higher amount of blood that needs to rush to it to make it harder, for erection. Big flaccid Penises don't grow much and also, the erection are poorly maintained due the extreme amount of blood stored in stored in the penis. P
And please, never compare flaccid penis. There's no correlation between the size of your flaccid penis with the size of it when erected. Smaller penis will grow more then bigger flaccid penis.

So yeah, boys will be boys and we will ever compare boners, even me. that does not mean we cannot think on what is the truth. The penis size doesn't matter (ok, we're not talking about micropenis, those are really small, and sometimes do not work that welll, and again, that's the point), it's what you do with it, that matters, it's the full extension of ways you use to make yourself feel pleasure and to others.

So, what you think? Would like to share your thoughts? Are you happy with your penis size? Any nice bad experience would like to share? Have you ever made anything to make your penis grow bigger? Tell us your story.

Yours truly,
futureWDmer

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Thanks for this WDmer, this is certainly a topic that gets a lot of talk and not a lot of authenticity.

I like what you said about the functionality of one's penis. Because we are an "over-sexualized" culture, so much value is placed on a man as a whole based on the size of his dick. Whereas, as you said, as long as your penis functions properly size is just another piece of what makes you you. It's no different than having different shoe sizes, skin colors, or primary handedness.

It took me a while to realize this, in my early twenties I became deluded with the idea that I could and should attempt to increase the size of my penis, even subscribing to on of the plethora of sites which will "guarantee" you success in increasing your length, girth, and vitality. Needless to say, it didn't work, and I spent hours and hours that could've been spent much better chasing a wild goose. What's even worse is that my penis is perfectly fine, 6.25 inches, couldn't be more average, but it's a mind game that society plays on us to make us think that we need to be taller or have a bigger penis, or be better at sports, etc. etc. etc. to make us a better man.

The more effective we can be at confronting these issues in society, as well as a host of others surrounding male sexuality (i.e. porn, MB, objectification of others, sexual conquests and counts of sexual partners etc.), the more effective we'd be in helping to restore true masculinity to western culture.

For the record, in large part due to abstinence, I now couldn't be happier with my size and vitality.

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Couldn't agree more with you!

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Hey Sleepydreamer,

You are a wise man. Masculinity is so much more than the side of your dick. That said, as competitive sexual animals, the size of your penis has probably been part of the competitive male human psyche since the beginning of time, long before we wore loin cloths and cloths.

Don't think this prejudice will leave our society easily. What we do know is that women want a lot more than a big cock and as I have posted elsewhere on this forum, my experience is that the penis is not the primary object in female sexual satisfaction.

You know what, we all know this to be true as well, but it doesn't change anything. Paying a lot of attention to a lady with other parts of our anatomy often lead to great things for our sexual partners, but the dick size thing is competitive between us guys and programmed over thousands of years.
After all, despite our civilisation and achievements, we are still dumb animals by instinct.

Just to reinforce my theory guys most of the men on this forum have larger than average dicks so go figure..........
That maybe a coincidence or ever so slightly competitive. You decide

I found this video on youtube, about sex education, made by BBC and shows a good diversity of penises sizes and that, everything is normal. Attention: the video contains nudity:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IGS98eSsdvw

This other video, talks a bit about the same matter, but with comparison, and without real penises images. From embarrassing bodies:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xdJtox4a54A

Hope it's useful.

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For the ones worried with size, maybe you should worry about quantity: here, in the link, an interview to man that has 2 perfectly functional penis. He pee from both, both get erections and both.
I find it interesting and disturbing at the same time!

Here's the link:
http://www.rollingstone.com/culture/new ... a-20140102

Enjoy

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Leave it to the Brit's to be able to talk with youth opening about such topics. Good post!

Its wild that society tries to standardize penises and make it "normal" to have bigger ones. That thought process is normally from porn tho.

Also you would think they would teach it better in sex ed. Many girls don't understand that a flaccid penis has no correlation to a hard penis. Some are growers while others are showers.

I think it is interesting that people constantly post sizes of 6 inches plus - is this because they are the only ones brave enough to post OR are they internet inches OR does this site only attract the above average?

I think a focus on the fact that anything above 3-4 inches is perfectly acceptable and that anything above 6 seems to be a minimum requirement set by internet inches, lol.

Just my opinion.