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[XRyanq]

So it has been a while since I was active on the forums. I used to abstain and go for wet dreams, but I got tired of that. I stopped posting and abbed as much as could, without overdoing it. My all-time record was 50ish days, and I went to around every 2 weeks I would give in. As far as wet dreams go, they almost always occur 7-10 days of ab, and I finally had 2 in a row with no mb in between. I do enjoy wd a lot. I feel great for armrest a day after. One time I tried mb just after the wd before the refractory period set in, but I wasn't completely awake and had no motivation to try something like that. After so much time off, I feel as if I found a balance in my life of mb. I try to mb at most once a day, and at least every 3 weeks. Only a few times have I mb one day after the other. One day I tried mb a lot, and after 3 times, had enough and proceeded for a long ab. Also with a girlfriend, it is hard to ab, but in the past month I have had her join in with me, but she is pretty bad and I outlast her. With motivation, I can go for however long I want, but with a lack of wd, i just crave a nice orgasm. I have yet to have a se, but have been interested nonetheless.

Dreams: mostly uneventful or stressful dreams with no chance of erotic stuff, but occassionally erotic dreams which I enjoy. I have been working on lucid dreaming, but more importantly sleep peralisis. I got close one time but chickened out. I think if I keep my wits, I may try to force a wd while in sleep peralasis.
Feel free to ask questions or post comments.

[Zach]

hahaha my gf has joined me too and she cant last at all either i think 7 days is her best.

[XRyanq]

Girls I think are different than guys. They don't get used to ab. It continually builds, and the farther they go, the more it shows the determination. As for guys, we can get into the groove of things after a week, and really settle after 3.

Update: So my sick cousin kept me up last night from 3am till 6, then my dad got up and was loud for a while. I tuned it out. Sometime later that morning, I tried sleep paralysis, with success. Ive only tried and got close once before. I felt a tingly heaviness, the noise changed. Then my uncle sat on my legs in the dream and I slowly pulled myself out of it. He wasn't even awake yet. I went back to sleep and within 10 seconds was reparalyzing. I thought nevermind so then changed my sleeping position from my back to my side and went to sleep. Woke up somewhat horny. Very pleasant. Today I was a weird tired. The kind when you have energy from staying up soo late, but know you should be asleep. Tea helped.
Tonight.. er today I shall try forcing lucid dream, maybe starting thru some sketchy paralysis. I will be around for s bit more probably...

[gavonreno]

I definitely get in the groove after a while. I don't necessarily lose my sex drive, but I lose the need to MB all the time and express that energy through other things, like exercise or focusing on school or work. Being busy definitely makes it easier to AB, but right now I don't have much going on haha

[XRyanq]

Getting in the groove is nice. More energy, and focus. If I'm abbing and not in the grove it makes everything very difficult to focus. Instead of homework I just get distracted. During school I think I'll try getting in the grove. I always give up when I am bored with nothing else to do.

Progress update. Good dreams, but gave in. Was worth it though. I now have a two week period where my gf is gone, so I'll see how I am when she gets back.. she claims she never mb really before we dated. And still rarely does. I call bullcrap:)

[Zach]

G...she claims she never mb really before we dated. And still rarely does. I call bullcrap:)

yeah i agree hahaha girls lie about it more than boys do

[XRyanq]

It is so true..

No update. Was hoping to sleep a bit more after waking up to get wd but had no time. Then realized work started later, so I had an hour to kill. Ended up riding my bike for an hour, and still had energy the rest of the day. Anyone send me a link for the music to cause wet dreams or lucid dreams would be appreciated. Music mp3 or mp4 only please.

[XRyanq]

So the relatives took off. Enjoying my ab. The past two days I have been motivated somehow to be productive. I haven't watched tv or been on my phone much at all. I had some trouble this morning resisting the urge, but I do have goal. Ab till September 14 or so. I'll reevaluate then.
No good dreams, but each morning I wake up slightly more horny. And I feel better each day. Since mountain bike racing season is coming up, I am going to watch what I eat for the purpose of eliminating excess sugars. I don't weigh much in the first place, but I can avoid eating shifty food for a month or so, and hopefully mb. I am extremely tired so imma try sleep peralasis tonight. Wish me luck.

[Jamie]

Wait, you WANT to have sleep paralysis? Even before I knew what that was I used to get it as a kid (before age 10) really bad. They were hands down the scariest dreams ever and it was by persistence and pure force of will that I managed to fight them off and finally conquer them.

I think I mentioned these before, but these are the dreams where you start having a regular nightmare but then realize you are asleep and all you have to do is wake up to escape the scary plot. But then you realize you can't move. Or breathe. Or scream for help. Or in my case even open my eyes. You get the feeling of the worst terror you ever experienced and how helpless you are to fight it, and fighting it only makes it worse for a while. You also feel heavy, or like some force is holding you down or pressing on your chest, or that the bed is sucking you into it like a magnet or vacuum and you sink into it, and you feel vibrations or electricity going through you. AND there would be a terrible loud buzzing sound for some reason. When you heard that you knew you were in deep trouble! And especially the first few times it happened you believe you are dying and WILL die unless you can wake up, which of course is impossible. Somehow it would be more scary, intense, loud and harder and longer to break free from if I was sleeping on my back rather than my stomach.

Eventually you do snap out of it, but once I made the mistake of closing my eyes again too soon and the who episode began again and sucked me into the same vortex of helpless terror...

Yes, wet dreams are 180 degrees from this experience, and I am forever glad to get those instead of the sleep paralysis!