WHAT IS THE CONNECTION BETWEEN YOU, AB AND THIS FORUM?

[mymind]

How did you find out:

about abstaining?
about wet dreams?
about this forum?

I just have question marks inside me trying to understand this whole really new thing to me.

Was it a simple decision for you to put an end to MB and experience WD?

In this case, how did you get to know about existence of WD?

I mean, I didn't ever know about the existence of WDs, the only thing I knew was basic info from school years that everybody goes through puberty and guys may find a wet spot in their pants after sleep, that's all. Didn't ever happen to me and didn't ever bother me. Haven't ever had any sexual dreams either.

Anyway, a couple of times before in my life I've went for about 30 days without MB. This time I've went for longer. On 55th day of abstinence I felt an orgasm in my sleep. It was pretty intense. I don't even remember whether I had any sexy dream on my mind, but since I've never ever had such fantasies, don't think I did (unlike some of the stories read here).

The possibility of feeling an orgasm while abstaining STROKE me.

About 40 days later, another orgasm during sleep. This time I'm lying on my back, so not much cheating, although my bladder was kind of full I think. Didn't pay attention to those details at the time, but once I stumbled upon this website, I'm pointing them out. By the way, the first time I was kind of laying on my stomach when I started to experience an orgasm.

So, strike number two and I'm starting googling about "wet dreams". Came across this forum.

So, WD's appeared to be not just a wet spot, but.. an orgasm itself? Is this what WD is?

I wonder if any of you are monks, or something? Why are you into this WD thing?.. The blur picture I got, is most of the people here want to experience orgasm [during sleep], and AB basically in order to reach that goal. Am I right about this?

[robbiel]

Hi mate
I think there's lots of ways to answer this...
I DID know about wet dreams during puberty, but because I was a late starter, I never had my first until I was 16. I did cheat to have one though by stopping wanking for 8 days. I deliberately wanted one cos I wanted to go through a typical puberty experience - especially as all my schoolmates were having them whilst I was around 12 and didn't have even a pubic hair on my body.
I wanted one on a school trip shortly afterwards and deliberately left wanking for a few days to have one - but my room mates in our hotel wanted a wanking competition instead which kinda turned me on more.
I also wanted them again but the older you get the less you have. Although finding this site has helped retune my body in to having more of them. Although I tend to have them shortly after I've masturbated after a week or so's absence of cumming. So it's less about abstaining and more about cutting down.
I've had amazing orgasms in my dreams - I've also woken up not knowing I've even had a wet dream and just have a sticky patch of cum in my pubes instead. So they can be a very mixed bag.
Still horny as fuck though!

[timepure123454]

I didn't know anything about mbing or wds at all when I had my first wd at age 13. so yeah, my first orgasm was a wd and i had no control over it. I woke up thinking I wet the bed and ran to the bathroom only to find all this white stuff in my underwear. I was freaking out. I thought I was way too young for this stuff to be happening to me. I continued to have wds for 2 years because i didn't know how to mb. on average back then i had 2-4 wds a week. and one time I had 3 wds in one night.

because I had so many wds i hated them. i hated waking up with a big mess down there. And what really ticked me off the most was that I had no control over it. as soon as I figured out how to mb, the wds slowed down. they completely stopped at age 17 where up to this day i have maybe 1 a year. unless im abing off course. that's how i found this forum. everyone here wants the one thing i used to hate so much. i've realized that wds are natural and that i shouldn't have hated them back then.

now if only I had never figured out how to mb. Perhaps I'd still me having 2-4 wds a week

[Muz]

I was a MBer from age 10 (I think). I remember getting errections often and not really knowing what to do with it, didnt know how sex worked or how to MB.
I ended up squeezing my dick and playing with it till I noticed some white gooey stuff come out (no orgasm at this point). I knew that this stuff was supposed to come out, but also that it was supposed to feel good... I kept playing with myself another night and managed to reach orgasm! I was blown away with how it felt! And from then on did it as often as I could! Sometimes saving myself for a couple of nights to make the orgasm stronger.

When I was 18 or 19 I read something about a wet dream, and it clicked that I'd never had one. With a bunch of Internet searching I stumbled across this forum, joined up and read further. I abstained for about 18 days and got my first ever WD! Then the next took more like a month.

I'm back at age 24! After a few of years (using a different name as I'd lost the old email address) I'm abstaining again for other reasons, don't know if I would be able to if not for knowing this forum beforehand!

[LuvsCurvy]

It's a good question to ask why people come here. It makes me think about it and re-evaluate things.

I found out about wet dreams at intermediate school (age 11-13) during the focus on changes at puberty. It's part of the syllabus to study every two years. We were taught that wet dreams happened to boys and what they were. I remember being terrified of them at the time. I was always afraid of anything 'new' when I was younger.

I found out about this forum through searching for information about wet dreams. I came here and saw the posts and quickly realised it was a forum used by people who try to achieve a wet dream. Having not had one in my life, I became quite fixated by the idea of being able to have one, so I decided to join.

I found out about ABing through this forum. You don't have to be here long to find out about it. After I joined I decided I would have a go at it. My sex life at the time was pathetic and i was hoping to use that as a springboard for some serious ABing, but really struggled with it initially.

Today I am here because my sex life still sucks. I'm in a marriage that still has some pretty big issues. A few things have occurred in it within the past year that have destabilised it somewhat (it hadn't been great for years, it's now a lot better but still no sex) and I am ABing as a personal challenge. I'm thinking of once again aiming for the elusive wet dream. I could do that without the forum, but I find seeing the struggles and successes of others is good motivation to stay focussed.

I feel like one of the older members of the forum, and I'm certainly not a typical user here in being married. But I guess I am living proof that there is something in AB for most walks of life.