I need help!

[ripperhf]

Ok guys I'm new to this forum and all.I registered because I need help.I have spontaneous ejaculations.And most of my ejaculations are spontaneous. I never masturbated and had around 6 wet dreams and really want to get back to wet dreams but this spontaneous ejaculation ruins it.
I admit that I see porn sometimes and that's what causes it after a long time of no ejaculation but also many of my ejaculations were because of fantasies.I really want to stop this.Please help

[harry17]

Ok guys I'm new to this forum and all.I registered because I need help.I have spontaneous ejaculations.And most of my ejaculations are spontaneous. I never masturbated and had around 6 wet dreams and really want to get back to wet dreams but this spontaneous ejaculation ruins it.
I admit that I see porn sometimes and that's what causes it after a long time of no ejaculation but also many of my ejaculations were because of fantasies.I really want to stop this.Please help

Are you sure that you are not just having a lot of precum?

I know that when I get horny by having a nice fantasy thought session, I have huge amounts of precum. And I mean a LOT of pre!!
I will admit that I like the way I get very hard when I indulge in a little fantasizing. It seems that harder I get the more I precum.

[ripperhf]

Ok guys I'm new to this forum and all.I registered because I need help.I have spontaneous ejaculations.And most of my ejaculations are spontaneous. I never masturbated and had around 6 wet dreams and really want to get back to wet dreams but this spontaneous ejaculation ruins it.
I admit that I see porn sometimes and that's what causes it after a long time of no ejaculation but also many of my ejaculations were because of fantasies.I really want to stop this.Please help

Are you sure that you are not just having a lot of precum?

I know that when I get horny by having a nice fantasy thought session, I have huge amounts of precum. And I mean a LOT of pre!!
I will admit that I like the way I get very hard when I indulge in a little fantasizing. It seems that harder I get the more I precum.

No.I get little precum.And the orgasm is too much LOL.It's the same feeling as a wet dream and it's semen on my pants.I'm sure of it.I really have to fix this.Am I the only one with this? If I don't fix this i'll never have a wet dream

[Texanguy]

The obvious answer for your spontaneous ejaculations is to start masturbating(MB), but that would also probably stop the wet dreams. What is the reason that MB doesn't seem to be an option? Is it that you don't want to do that and become addicted to it, or perhaps you are opposed to it on religious or other grounds, or perhaps you are not 'wired' to enjoy MB and/or would prefer wet dreams (WDs) instead? Or might it be some combination of these?

That being said, if you really don't want to start MBing, you might try to reduce fantasizing at the wrong times. One way to help that may be to intentionally fantasize at better times, such as at night either before or after going to bed, or before getting up in the morning. Nighttime fantasies might help bring on WDs, which should reduce the SEs. Maybe you can fantasize having a good wet dream before going to sleep.

How often do the SEs happen? They might just go away on their own. Meanwhile, try the fantasies at more appropriate times. Or maybe someone else will post some other ideas.

[ripperhf]

The obvious answer for your spontaneous ejaculations is to start masturbating(MB), but that would also probably stop the wet dreams. What is the reason that MB doesn't seem to be an option? Is it that you don't want to do that and become addicted to it, or perhaps you are opposed to it on religious or other grounds, or perhaps you are not 'wired' to enjoy MB and/or would prefer wet dreams (WDs) instead? Or might it be some combination of these?

That being said, if you really don't want to start MBing, you might try to reduce fantasizing at the wrong times. One way to help that may be to intentionally fantasize at better times, such as at night either before or after going to bed, or before getting up in the morning. Nighttime fantasies might help bring on WDs, which should reduce the SEs. Maybe you can fantasize having a good wet dream before going to sleep.

How often do the SEs happen? They might just go away on their own. Meanwhile, try the fantasies at more appropriate times. Or maybe someone else will post some other ideas.

Thanks for replying.First I'm opposed to MB due to religious backgrounds however I do not want to argue that.It's as in my religion.As far as I know it's allowed to sin if the only solution to your problem was a sin but then you have to ask a specialized doctor or something.Like if a doctor tells me I have to MB to fix myself then I would do so.And I also don't want to get addicted to that stuff.
And the problem is there's nothing such as fantasizing at right times unfortunately.If I fantasize I get a SE . If I fantasize then probably I won't be going to sleep until I ejaculate.And they happen whenever I fantasize or watch porn .
And they don't seem to be going away.On the contrary they're increasing.They first happened when I was interested in what hentai is and saw it.And then it happened every month or so.Now at max I'm holding it for 8 days.But thanks anyways

[Texanguy]

I would suggest trying to control your fantasies before they go too far. Imagine how much better it's going to feel in really great wet dream than just settling for an SE. Give it time, and good luck!

[ripperhf]

I would suggest trying to control your fantasies before they go too far. Imagine how much better it's going to feel in really great wet dream than just settling for an SE. Give it time, and good luck!

Well you have a point but after holding it for a week it gets hard to control your mind
Anyways thanks for the advice.You gave me more motivation.I'll try
And the SE feels great as heck BTW :p.It's just that I don't like it for no obvious reason

[harry17]

I would suggest trying to control your fantasies before they go too far. Imagine how much better it's going to feel in really great wet dream than just settling for an SE. Give it time, and good luck!

Well you have a point but after holding it for a week it gets hard to control your mind
Anyways thanks for the advice.You gave me more motivation.I'll try
And the SE feels great as heck BTW :p.It's just that I don't like it for no obvious reason

Yes, what you should do is to try to control when you have these SE's.
It sounds like you are able to have a wonderful hands free orgasm!
I wish I could do that just by fantasing. WOW I am hard now just thinking about it.
Maybe you could post a few pics of your SE's?

[ripperhf]

I would suggest trying to control your fantasies before they go too far. Imagine how much better it's going to feel in really great wet dream than just settling for an SE. Give it time, and good luck!

Well you have a point but after holding it for a week it gets hard to control your mind
Anyways thanks for the advice.You gave me more motivation.I'll try
And the SE feels great as heck BTW :p.It's just that I don't like it for no obvious reason

Yes, what you should do is to try to control when you have these SE's.
It sounds like you are able to have a wonderful hands free orgasm!
I wish I could do that just by fantasing. WOW I am hard now just thinking about it.
Maybe you could post a few pics of your SE's?

Sorry sorry.I really can't do that .
And seriously it's not that wonderful when you can't control it.For me it's fantasize while relaxing and it happens.I really want it to stop.And I heard this was this jackpot free no hands something which can make you do that hand free orgasm

[ray1996]

I agree with Harry. You should really work on controlling when you fantasise.
I would give almost anything to be able to lay back and fantasise for a few minutes and then have a great feeling SE. I once did achieve a hands free by thinking/fantasising, I did not touch at all and after a long time I blew my load. What a fantastic feeling it was. I have tried, but I have never managed to do it again. I have only had a few WD's, but I can now tell you wxactly what a WD looks and feels like. You are so lucky.


I also sent you a PM with some questions.

[ripperhf]

I agree with Harry. You should really work on controlling when you fantasise.
I would give almost anything to be able to lay back and fantasise for a few minutes and then have a great feeling SE. I once did achieve a hands free by thinking/fantasising, I did not touch at all and after a long time I blew my load. What a fantastic feeling it was. I have tried, but I have never managed to do it again. I have only had a few WD's, but I can now tell you wxactly what a WD looks and feels like. You are so lucky.


I also sent you a PM with some questions.

HAHAY.I never imagined I would be lucky.And I think that I need to stop seeing porn at all.I don't see a lot but I do sometimes and this seems to be a problem.I'll stop I guess.

[Eleazar]

Technically, rippen, what you're experiencing aren't SEs, they're MB of the non-tactile kind. SEs occur spontaneously without any sort of mental or physical stimulation. Ejaculating from watching porn is similar to WDs but the difference is with WDs you have no control over it. While with mental MB you are consciously choosing to continue to watch porn or fantasise until you cum. You've done it many times before so you should know the signs of an iminant or a looming ejaculation and therefore be able to stop the stimulation and subsequent ejaculation....

[AGT]

Technically, rippen, what you're experiencing aren't SEs, they're MB of the non-tactile kind. SEs occur spontaneously without any sort of mental or physical stimulation. Ejaculating from watching porn is similar to WDs but the difference is with WDs you have no control over it. While with mental MB you are consciously choosing to continue to watch porn or fantasise until you cum. You've done it many times before so you should know the signs of an iminant or a looming ejaculation and therefore be able to stop the stimulation and subsequent ejaculation....

Yeah, I agree......... it is commonly called a "hands free", which is still a form of masturbation as it is initiated by the person who acitvely choses to watch porn or indulge in a little fantasy.

[ripperhf]

Technically, rippen, what you're experiencing aren't SEs, they're MB of the non-tactile kind. SEs occur spontaneously without any sort of mental or physical stimulation. Ejaculating from watching porn is similar to WDs but the difference is with WDs you have no control over it. While with mental MB you are consciously choosing to continue to watch porn or fantasise until you cum. You've done it many times before so you should know the signs of an iminant or a looming ejaculation and therefore be able to stop the stimulation and subsequent ejaculation....

Oh well I think I have to stop it.And you know it's hard to stop watching stuff
If this persists then I'll like never have sex since I'll ejaculate before getting to do anything
And some people recommended kegel exercises.I have to try that out

[iroselyem]

IMO, a true SE doesn't happen while watching porn; it happens with no stimulation.

It seems to me that your junk is just trigger-happy. Maybe you're simply extra-sensitive, and it will work itself out in time, and you can try WDs later. When I was a teenager, I couldn't MB enough, and it really bugged me that I needed to so much, or I would WD constantly. Now that I'm in my late 20s, it's slowed down, and I can have a normal day without constantly thinking about getting off.

If you still want to try WDs, you should stop watching porn altogether and avoid fantasizing about anything. Even if you're not touching yourself, I think you're still technically MB, because your physiology makes it easy for you to orgasm without touching yourself, and porn is your 'trigger'. But that's my opinion; I'm neither a doctor nor a theologist/priest.
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[ripperhf]

IMO, a true SE doesn't happen while watching porn; it happens with no stimulation.

It seems to me that your junk is just trigger-happy. Maybe you're simply extra-sensitive, and it will work itself out in time, and you can try WDs later. When I was a teenager, I couldn't MB enough, and it really bugged me that I needed to so much, or I would WD constantly. Now that I'm in my late 20s, it's slowed down, and I can have a normal day without constantly thinking about getting off.

If you still want to try WDs, you should stop watching porn altogether and avoid fantasizing about anything. Even if you're not touching yourself, I think you're still technically MB, because your physiology makes it easy for you to orgasm without touching yourself, and porn is your 'trigger'. But that's my opinion; I'm neither a doctor nor a theologist/priest.
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Yeah you're right but I'm having a hard time controlling porn.I installed parental control stuff to stop myself.I just want to be remembered everyday to not watch that shit.Damn
But I think I'll try as much as I can.
But then I still want to know why many of my friends(well I moved so they're old friends) used to watch long porn and get excited and won't drop anything until they masturbate while here watching anything interesting I ejaculate even if I want to stop it.

[okgo]

They probably MB so have trained some control over if and when they ejaculate.

[ivanmanveru]

Try installing some 'accountability software' that will monitor your internet usage and notify a contact person that you nominate, someone that you fully trust and will support you with your struggle against PMO's...