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Postby Ascendancy » Fri Aug 10, 2012 12:05 pm

I've been having wet dreams frequently for about 3 years now (usually once a week or less) and I ALWAYS wake up during them, or I'm conscious enough to feel them. I feel that nowadays they aren't as pleasurable or intense as they used to be. When it started I just thought it was a one off thing, but it has gotten to the point where my wet dreams consistently aren't as strong. I started having them at around 14 and I'm now 17 (almost 18), so is this what is supposed to happen as you get older? I've tried to search for this specific problem but I've had no luck so far.
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Re: Wet dreams not as strong anymore

Postby Zach » Fri Aug 10, 2012 2:16 pm

interesting i am 17, almost 18 too and i havent said anything about it cuz i never really thought about it much until now but my WDs seem to be further apart and ive recently noticed that i would have like an exceptonal one that was totally awesome and then i would have 2 or 3 that were nowhere near as good. they used to be all really good and now it seems like im rating them. i will have to pay more attention to it.
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Re: Wet dreams not as strong anymore

Postby Alaric » Fri Aug 10, 2012 2:20 pm

Since you both have similar experiences and are approximately the same age it is possible that it’s hormonal. As you grow out of adolescence your hormones settle down, which is likely why some older men have very little luck in getting WDs at all, but the lack of as many running around may be a contributing factor to your problem. Just my 2 cents.
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Re: Wet dreams not as strong anymore

Postby traveling guy » Fri Aug 10, 2012 9:48 pm

Interesting thoughts on wd's becoming less intense. I had no wet dreams for almost 30 years. I started getting them again after finding this site and abstaining. The first adult wd for me was VERY intense. To the point that contractions were slightly painful (no pain on later wd's). So based on my experience, wd's may seem lest intense just because body has become used to experience. No need to worry about WD's losing there intensity as one ages from what I can tell.

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Re: Wet dreams not as strong anymore

Postby Alaric » Sat Aug 11, 2012 9:55 am

traveling guy wrote:Interesting thoughts on wd's becoming less intense. I had no wet dreams for almost 30 years. I started getting them again after finding this site and abstaining. The first adult wd for me was VERY intense. To the point that contractions were slightly painful (no pain on later wd's). So based on my experience, wd's may seem lest intense just because body has become used to experience. No need to worry about WD's losing there intensity as one ages from what I can tell.

TG

I kinda second the familiarity thing, not having one in 30 yrs would make anything seem amazing, i think it’s a hard to call, but i think familiarity prolly plays into it heavily.
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Re: Wet dreams not as strong anymore

Postby Ascendancy » Sat Aug 11, 2012 10:03 am

traveling guy wrote:Interesting thoughts on wd's becoming less intense. I had no wet dreams for almost 30 years. I started getting them again after finding this site and abstaining. The first adult wd for me was VERY intense. To the point that contractions were slightly painful (no pain on later wd's). So based on my experience, wd's may seem lest intense just because body has become used to experience. No need to worry about WD's losing there intensity as one ages from what I can tell.

TG


Ah yes, you're probably right about my body becoming familiar with them. It's a shame, back when they first started happening they were so awesome :(

Cheers for the replies.
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Re: Wet dreams not as strong anymore

Postby seqiro » Thu Sep 06, 2012 5:34 pm

Maybe cycle on and off. WD for a period of time, maybe 2-3 months, and then MB for a few weeks or something, just to keep the "new" from becomeing the "usual".
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Re: Wet dreams not as strong anymore

Postby shadow_flare » Sat Sep 08, 2012 12:38 pm

It is hormonal. Testosterone levels are higher in your teens and remain high for some time after that. But as you get older it diminishes as puberty ends. You will still have Wds, but probably not at the frequency... but also keep in mind that hormones has nothing to do with it.
In some ways it is very mental too. You yourself controls your wds and how often you have them. That is how a few on this site can get them consistently since the amount of semen has nothing to do with wds. I have had them when I mbed 2-4 times the day before.
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Re: Wet dreams not as strong anymore

Postby commandokid » Sun Sep 16, 2012 5:16 pm

Don't fret over this guys I have had many in my thirties and they were plenty awesome. I'm 46 had one 8 months ago when my wife was gone for a few days and it was totaly awesome. I had to shower to clean my self up. So age has nothing to do with it. It may have more to do with how rested you are at the time of the wd. This wd was about my friends wife so maybe that is why it was so good. Lol. None the less keep dreaming and they will cum. Hahaha
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