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I can have dry orgasms by concentrating on my body's feeling...they are so intense that my body starts shaking and I have terrible hardons, I leak tons of precum but I've never come

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They are far better and they last longer than an usual orgasm (they're the same body dry orgasm you can achieve with a prostate stimulator)..now I can have them easily..you only need to learn and then you can have that whenever you want! (once you learned to "hear" your body's feeling all the rest depends on how comfortable the place where you are is and how relaxed you are).

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I have never been able to ejaculate without physical stimulation, but during AB streaks I have experienced dry orgasms similar to what ethrik describes. They usually happen when I am completely relaxed and trying to fall asleep. For me, it is different than a regular orgasm, definitely a more intense 'whole body' feeling. If I concentrate on the feelings, I can keep the pleasure waves coming much longer since there is no refractory period. The downside: as a dry orgasm you miss out on the feeling that ejaculation adds to orgasm and the PC muscle contractions are not as intense.

I often have dry orgasms, but only with physical stimulation. Sometimes when watching porn I can hold off until just my underwear can set me off. Does underwear count? It shouldn't. Thoughts can be very powerful, and are definitely more than half the battle for me.

I managed to do this. I woke up very aroused, then tried everything to stop the arousal (went to the toilet etc), went back to bed, pulled my pants down to make sure my penis wouldn't rub against it, became horny again, then finally "finished off" by having some erotic thoughts, and came.

I don't know what you mean by the first question, but the orgasm was very enjoyable, and it's been the only time I had an orgasm with no physical stimulation whatsoever (not counting WDs, of course).

Aha. I had abstained for 10 days, but the last time I had "really" masturbated had been 30 days. (I had some hands-free sessions in between that I counted as MB, but which might not have taken that much sexual energy.)

I get really close but never feel an orgasm but I'm sure that if one waits long enough it could happen

i had one once but cant get another one to happen it was a great feeling

Yesterday I was doing some kegels and blew a load in my drawers with a massive SE. I got that Uh-oh feeling down below like I knew it was going to shoot, and despite trying to relax, I felt myself getting a little bit harder (hardish?) and then blasting off.
So you don't need physical stimulation, porn or even the desire to have an ejaculation. I don't think I'll be doing any of these again.

I went to a tantric workshop once where accomplishing this was the focus. We learned meditation tricks. I think the key to doing this is completely clearing your mind of all of the things that DON'T arouse you, and replacing them with only thoughts that do arouse you. Completely clearing your mind isn't the key because then you will become unaroused. Your mind must be focused on achieving the orgasm. I've accomplished this a couple of times. Next time you're hard and want to cum, try lying down and focusing on erotic thoughts (or anything that makes you aroused) while also squeezing your PC muscle from time to time to keep your penis engaged. If you focus, and do this long enough, it should happen for you. It also works if you touch other areas on your body that are sensitive (ie. nipples) but do NOT touch your dick.

I feel like if I really tried to do this I could, but this is where my confusion comes into play about SE. Do you guys consider this type of orgasm with ejaculation a SE or is this just another form of MB like prostate milking. I am on the fence about if I came should I reset my AB counter back to zero. I'm just curious what you guys think about this?

I guess if I had to categorize what I think reset the counter:

AB counter not affected if:
a) Wet dream occurs
b) Ejaculation without trying during the day (What I think of when I hear SE)

AB counter affected if:
a) Physical masturbation
b) Milk your prostate till ejaculation

Unknown
a) trying to ejaculation without physically toughing yourself and succeeding

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Started AB: Nov 7, 2012 | Start of current AB: Dec 31, 2014 10:30pm EST | WD: 0 | MB: 0 | AB record: Current (27 days)

I feel like if I really tried to do this I could, but this is where my confusion comes into play about SE. Do you guys consider this type of orgasm with ejaculation a SE or is this just another form of MB like prostate milking. I am on the fence about if I came should I reset my AB counter back to zero. I'm just curious what you guys think about this?

I guess if I had to categorize what I think reset the counter:

AB counter not affected if:
a) Wet dream occurs
b) Ejaculation without trying during the day (What I think of when I hear SE)

AB counter affected if:
a) Physical masturbation
b) Milk your prostate till ejaculation

Unknown
a) trying to ejaculation without physically toughing yourself and succeeding

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Started AB: Nov 7, 2012 | Start of current AB: Dec 31, 2014 10:30pm EST | WD: 0 | MB: 0 | AB record: Current (27 days)

You know, I'm really not sure on that. There are reasons why it should count, and reasons why it shouldn't.

It counts as masturbation, reset the timer:
-You're intentionally giving a release. You have control.
-You're ejaculating, so you're emptying yourself. Less likely to achieve a WD.
-By bringing on the release yourself, are you training your body to expect that? Thus, decreasing frequency of WDs?

It doesn't count as masturbation, but rather an SE:
-You're not physically stimulating yourself
-Your body is experiencing pleasure without the need to touch. Is your body learning how to release on its own? Will your body replicate this during sleep, making WDs come faster or more often?

I don't know man. I've tried pretty hard for a hands-free orgasm by watching porn and such, but I just can't do it. Every time I get close, I'm distracted by the fact that I'm getting close, and lose focus on what's actually turning me on :/

This is something I've been trying for a long while now without success. My so far failed technique is to lie in bed with my eyes closed and and think of sexual thoughts, eventually my penis begins to jump or contract but it frustratingly doesn't go further. Simply staring at porn doesn't work for me either, I'm never that engrossed in it. I wish I knew a better technique or could let go of my load a lot easier.

I have been able to do this, usually after about 2 weeks of no MB @ age 39. Visual stimulation helps, or audio. For me, its a relaxing outlet, and better than hands-on, but that might be because I abstain first. I don't actually "try" to have one - it just sometimes works out that way. I think if I had to work at it - I'd have performance anxiety!

I never have it before.. but I did try to MB just before the not-returning point and let go to have some 'dry orgasm'. It's not intense and last for only a few seconds.

Depends on what you mean by no physical stimulation.
Women can do it with ab crunches (http://news.discovery.com/human/health/ ... 120319.htm)
As a pre-teen male, it would occur for me when climbing, without any direct stimulus to the groin area. Somehow, non genital nerve input to the spinal cord and brain can mimic the cascade of signals for orgasm.

I've tried this, sort of unintentionally when ABing. I'll wake up, lie in bed, manage to avoid touching myself but not being able to avoid thinking about it. I can cause a whole range of pleasure sensations, but I cant ejaculate or orgasm. It kind of felt like edging, and like edging has probably led to me breaking my AB...

It would be really interesting to succeed, but if I had to pick between SE or WD, tough choice...

Managed this several times now. Only when abstaining and very aroused. :-)

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08/01/14: Orgasm from mental mb
10/01/14: Wet Dream

Could you (or anyone else who's been able to do this) describe what sort of kegels you were doing? Like, was it the quick "flex & release", or flexing and holding for a longer period, or what exactly? Really curious to know, since I'd love to try this myself!

Ditto for me. Anyone who has done it please post how.

SUCCESS!!

I have just managed to have a complete no-touch orgasm. Nothing touched my penis at all from flaccid to finish and I didn't do any Kegels either. It took mental focus, sexy-time breathing, and an AB period of 7 days.

The feelings leading up to climax were different than a normal MB, sharp almost, and they came in waves. Lots of involuntary penis twitching and erection loss/growth. I had a full orgasm from a full and hard erection which didn't feel as good as usual and produced slightly less semen than I would have expected from a week of AB. I do have afterglow, feeling pleasantly drained down there. Start to finish I would guess that it took 5-7 minutes, but I didnt look at a clock at all so I really don't know exactly how long it took. Didn't feel like a long time, shorter than MB (though my MB sessions typically last around an hour to an hour and a half so again my perceptions could be warped).

I guess this means I'll need to reset my AB counter, but to succeed at this is well worth it. Now I just need to learn the inverse so I can make sure not to cum to soon with a partner.

Well done!

I'm still attempting to induce one, quite challenging.

I will attempt to do this type of stimulation after Lent. I too had failed a several times. At times I was close. Hopefully with enough focus and patience it will happen.

That's exactly my problem.. can get SEs easily but also cum wayyy too soon with my partner.

It was the quick clench & release. A couple minutes of that and I lost it.
That was some time ago. I'm not checking too frequently on the WDF

I am able to achieve orgasm without physical stimulation. The 1st time it happened as an adult was purely by accident. With years of practice it has become my preferred method. The orgasm is more intense and the volume of fluid is much greater.

That was over a year ago now & I recall that I would hold the clenching of the K-thingee muscle with a short, partial relax in between. The rhythm seems to have matched the slow thrusting rhythm of my regular intercourse and started the pulsating...etc. So maybe if I didn't clench/release with that pattern, it would be OK.

When I watch porn, I get very hard and almost orgasm without touching. But my hand automatically moves down to my penis and I end up stroking until I orgasm. But, I have also orgasm-ed without touching my penis or even thinking about sex. I have posted about this before, but I thought I would post it again since it relates to this topic.

I always wear briefs because I like the feeling of having everything contained, but I also wear boxer-briefs, as last minute underwear, when I don't have briefs available. But whenever I wear them, since everything is free flowing, one little touch of wind, or brush against something gets me really hard and I ejaculate. And it's not like I don't masturbate often. I do it 3 times a week and this happens sometimes the next day after masturbating. I feel myself get hard and then I ejaculate but I don't moan or anything like that. Sometimes, I don't even get hard and didn't know I ejaculate until I go to the bathroom and see dried semen on my underwear. Then, I try to remember if I got hard that day or felt anything and I don't. Why does this happen if I'm a frequent masturbator? I would like any explanation or solution to this problem? Thanks.

I would like more information on how you achieve this please!
I have been trying this on and off for years and can get very far - dry orgasm, spilling precum everywhere, crazy erect spasms and lot of great experiences, but no orgasm. I normally lie down naked on the bed and completly relax, after about 15 minuts, I start going through cycles of erections and spasms, and this can continue for as long as I have time (1-2hours) but just don'lt seem to be able to get over the edge!
Any advice is much apprecaited.

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