Waking Up at Night with Raging Boners?

[blue4]

Hello everyone,

I am wondering if any of you have had similar experiences to mine and/or you can offer any incite into what it could mean.

I have never had a WD and am on nearly 3 weeks of AB and consistently, probably about 2-3 nights a week, I wake up with a huge boner in the middle of the night (probably about 3-4 hours after I fall asleep). In the past, I usually liked to masturbate/edge by humping the bed or rubbing up against the covers (never touching my dick with my hands) with hope that when I fell asleep again I would have a wet dream, but I realized about a week ago that that is basically masturbation and that it probably isn't helping my chances of getting a wet dream any sooner.

Last night was one of those nights. I decided to sleep nude and I went to bed at around 1:30 am. At 3:00 am, I woke up with some faint memories from my dream about some weapon named "X" and had one of the hardest boners that I can ever remember having. It is SO DIFFICULT to not masturbate/edge in some way because my body wants that release so bad, but I managed to first lay on my stomach, which helped the boner go away after a while, and then something sort of weird happened. I decided to grab a pair of briefs I had on the ground and put them on with the thought that maybe if there was some resistance/tension on my dick that I would have a wet dream when I fell asleep. As soon as I thought that, though, the whole weapon "X" idea/dream vanished from my head and when I put the briefs on I went soft real quick.

So, have you had any similar experiences? Every time I wake up I feel that I am in some way being cheated of a WD. Had this happened to you and you had a WD a few days/weeks later? Any answers to those questions or additional thoughts would be much appreciated. Thanks guys.

-blue

[Eleazar]

It has happened to me too - many times actually. But, back then I was sleeping clothed so the only way I could relieve the tension besides mb was to strip and wait for the boner to go away.

Waking up with boners in the middle of the night is quite normal. We usually sprout wood during our sleep (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nocturnal_ ... tumescence). Waking up with a boner and feeling the urge to mb is normal too. You were most probably having a sex dream which you couldn't recall of which the tension was still in your body. I wouldn't worry too much about it.

Also try not to rush a wd so much. It will come when it comes.

Good luck, blue4.

[blue4]

Also try not to rush a wd so much. It will come when it comes.

I know, I know. I try not to think about it so much. I've decided to stop MB'ing for purity reasons. Before I quit, I MB'ed almost every night and thus got my body used to and addicted to having that release/orgasm quite often, not to mention all the "feel good" drugs that the body releases during orgasm. I am really hoping that getting wet dreams (and thus letting the body regulate itself) will take the edge off and curb those feelings to get that release and make my purity battle a little easier.

Anyway, its not so much that I think all these wake-up boners are a problem, I'm just ready to be done with the whole waiting game. I appreciate your input though Eleazar. Thanks!

-blue