Wet Dream Forum

I have been a member of this forum for a while but have been hesitant to write my experiences with WDs. I read the description of the purpose of the forum and decided to write my experiences. Since the forum is exploring a subject that hasn’t been researched, (wet dreams), my experiences may be of use. A WD is described as an involuntary action that occurs in one’s sleep. I will begin by saying that I have never had a WD as described and photographed in the forums. Mine are quite different. As the title of my discussion thread says, my WDs can best be described as MB in my sleep. These are the only type of WDs I’ve had and the only type I have known. They happen between 1 ½ and 2 hours after going to sleep. I will wake up, MB and then go right back to sleep. Like the WDs many of you describe, mine are completely involuntary. I wake up in the morning with a fuzzy recollection of what happened, and like a dream, in a day or so the specific memory of the WD is gone. They are not preceded by arousing dreams. I can go to bed fully aroused and not have one. I can go to bed dead tired and not thinking of sex and have a WD. I will use the term WD for what I experience because that is the only way I have learned to describe it.

A little bit about me. I MB from ages 12 through about age 18. I am now 54 and haven’t MB since age 18. When I was in my teens and early 20’s I would have at least one WD each night. Bear in mind, my WD are basically MB in my sleep. At age 25 I got married and the WDs decreased to roughly 1 or 2 per week. This has continued until now. My wife will periodically nudge me when I am having one of these. This nudge is enough to wake me up and then I go directly to sleep.

I appreciate the experiences many of you have shared. You indicate that you wake up shortly before orgasm or directly after ejaculation to find your clothing or sheets wet. You get up and change and then go back to bed. With mine, I will wake up and MB until orgasm and ejaculation. After that I go right to sleep and sleep through the rest of the night. The only evidence I have are the dried stains on my under wear or sheets in the morning. The wetness does not wake me up.

I am awake enough to reach over to my night stand to grab lube if needed. I am awake enough to decide where I ejaculate (self, sheets, etc.). Sometimes I get completely undressed and awake in the morning confused as to why I am not wearing anything. I am not awake enough to get myself to stop; my WD continues until ejaculation. I have had nights where I have MB until I was very sore; however, once I ejaculated I went right back to sleep. The only thing I awoke with the next morning was a sore penis. Thankfully, these types of incidents are very rare.

My purpose in starting this thread is to see if others have experienced the same thing I experience and if so, how often. The second purpose is to broaden our discussions on the topic of WD to try and understand how my version of WD fits in. Obviously I don’t fit the “clinical diagnosis” of a WD. Yet MB in my sleep is the only type of WD I have known. As AGT points out in his post regarding the purpose of the forum, not a lot has been studied about WDs. Hopefully my experiences will add to the collective knowledge of WDs as we try and understand what happens with our bodies at night.

Thanks for the reply. If we think of a normal wet dream as being typical of most of the submissions on the forum, then mine are probably at the farther end of the wet dream spectrum. It's interesting that you are able to wake yourself up enough to stop. I have never been able to do that. I too will wake up completely undressed at times. There was another chat session that started last week talking about people waking up in various stages of undress.

I wonder how common it is to wake up and realize that you're stroking yourself?

I used to mb in my sleep a lot so much so that I feared going to bed at night because I would wake up mb'ing. And for the life of me I did not want to mb. There are certain triggers that make you sleep mb. I attached some studies that you can read. I don't sleep mb that much anymore.

The reason I started sleeping nude was because I used to wake up while I was in the process of taking off my clothes or to find my boxers lying on the ground or next to me in bed. It happened so much that I recognised that my body was telling me something. Ever since sleeping nude I have not had to wake up because of this. Lol (quite obvious)

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Cool I never heard of this.

i just did this yesterday morning. for me i think its a form of sleepwalking only i dont get up and walk around i just jerk off. I was actually in a lucid dream state because i told myself what to do in the dream and i did it. I was dreaming i was jerking off and i realized if i continued i would blow my AB and i stopped but then i told myself it was only a dream and if i continued it might result in a WD. I started jerking off again only to wake up some time later and realize i had actually jerked off.

i know ive done this before especially 2 or 3 years ago it seemed pretty common and would often wake up realizing i was jerking off but i wasnt AB then so i would just finish and go to sleep. even now it happens every so often but i usually catch myself doing it and wake myself up and stop. never stopped and then convinced myself to continue though especially by lying to myself that it was a dream when it wasnt. guess my recent dry spells are catching up to me.

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It was fun while it lasted!

I will masturbate in my sleep when I get really horny either by humping the mattress or using my hand. Many times, I wake up and notice what I'm doing and finish off. Or I'll finish in my sleep/dream. I might have an orgasm in my dream, but it's never turned out to be an actual WD.

Thanks for sharing your personal experiences and the resources. I look forward to reading them. It's nice to know that I'm not the only one. I agree, it's not really a WD but more of sleep sex or sleep MB. Yet I have never had a traditional WD. There are times when I'm also awake enough to decide where the ejaculate goes. Other times, I just wake up to the stain. My big fear is "sleep MB-ing" when others are around. Although if my wife slightly bumps me I quit and go back to sleep. It sounds like what I've been dealing with while rare, is experienced by others. I would also like to figure out how to control them so that they don't happen anymore. However they seem to be pretty unpredictable.

I can go to bed rather horney and not have any sleep MB. I can go to bed exhausted and not sleep well due to waking up with sleep MB. Other times I go to sleep turned on and wake up to sleep MB. There doesn't seem to be a consistent correlation between the "mood" at bed and what happens later in the night. Do any of have any ideas on how to "program" your brain so that you don't wake up MB-ing? I tried sleep meds for a while. They worked but I always woke up groggy. They were more trouble than they were worth.

I really appreciate those of you who have shared your experiences. It's nice to know that I'm not alone. For many, many years I thought it was just me. If you have any ideas on what you've done to control sleep MB, please share.

I did this last night. I didn't cum or reach the point of no return coz I stopped as soon as I got lucid. Sleep mb is usually preceded by sleep stripping for me. You are still lucky that it's just sleep mb some men and women go all the way and virtually rape the person sleeping next to them.

How to control sleep mb? I prayed about it and just decided not to worry about it anymore. Worrying about it wasn't helping. I think I said this before, but there are certain (emotional) triggers. For me it is anxiety and sleep stripping amongst other things.

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Great advice Eleazar. I think the best thing to do is accept it and not worry about it. Thanks.

I can remember that happening a few times myself.It's been years since,but each time I don't recall what the dream was about,only that I would either wake up MB and finish off,or wake up and notice I had already finished it,but had some recollection of wanting to MB.Oddest thing.
IIRC,certain stressors were usually the trigger.

Think I have done this once or twice, but in my experience just like wet dreams they seem to happen less or not as all if you masturbate during awake hours.

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I've been sleep MB for the past weeks, especially in the first week of October. Now, I don't do it any-more because maybe I've been tired the whole day and just sleep.

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Hey 95%, I tried something similar in April/May 2010 by binding Bible verses to my hands and even tying them before going to bed at night just to keep my hands from clutching my dick. But, it never worked. LOL

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I've been offline for a bit finishing up school. For me, my "WD" happen 2 to 3 times a week. I can wake up enough to stop them and go back to sleep. However, I will wake up later and finish up where I left off. It also sounds like it's more common than I thought it was. Thanks everyone for sharing. After reading everyone's posts I've decided to just accept what my body decides to do. Just wish I could remember them better.

This happened to me for the first time a few weeks ago. I woke up from and erotic dream and was MB irl. I was really disturbed and felt so weird about it. I forgot about it until I found this forum. Glad to hear I'm not the only one.

I think that how we WD is a pretty complicated affair. We can go from a typical WD to the type I have experienced and everything in between. This forum is helping me better understand what "normal" really means. The best way to get a WD is to stop MB and then let your body do its thing.

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DATE OF LAST ORGASM: MAR 19, 2014
DAYS SINCE LAST MB: 10 days
WD: Current 0, Lifetime Around 100
SE: Current 0, Lifetime 1
LONGEST STREAK OF AB FROM MB: 30 DAYS
LONGEST STREAK OF AB FROM ORGASM: 40 DAYS
GOAL: AWAITING INSTRUCTION FROM MASTER

Mine are pretty much involuntary. I'm sort of awake but not enough to stop myself. It's like a different part of my brain kicks in and can't stop. It's different from waking up at night to go to the bathroom. You know you need to go but roll over and go back to sleep. My WDs are different, I can't stop them and the moment I ejaculate, I go back to sleep.

Hi guys and what a first post for me. lol

This is the reason that I have come to this bored as over the past 12 months I have been doing this more and more.

It was first noticed when my partner kept waking me up as I was 'jiggling' the bed so a swift slap to my arm has enough to wake me and role me over - for a little while, lol.

Over the past 6 months I have been waking up whilst doing this. Not sure why - the pleasure? the bouncing>? who knows.

I know I am making light of this but it is now happening several times a night most nights of the week.

I just want some sleep. I wouldn't even mind waking up sticky in the morning if I could actually get a full nights sleep - anyone else suffer from this?

It makes no difference on masturbation/sex frequency as I can have a JO just before bed and by 3am I am waking myself up.

Happy to give more detail if people have any ideas that will help.

And yes I sleep nude as I just undress myself if I start dressed.

M

What an interesting post. I've heard of sleep walking and people who eat in their sleep, but I have never heard of anyone MB in their sleep. I usually MB while I'm lying in bed and I sometimes get tired as I'm doing it. My eyes begin to close, but I wake up and finish, and then go to sleep. Thanks for sharing this.

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DATE OF LAST ORGASM: MAR 19, 2014
DAYS SINCE LAST MB: 10 days
WD: Current 0, Lifetime Around 100
SE: Current 0, Lifetime 1
LONGEST STREAK OF AB FROM MB: 30 DAYS
LONGEST STREAK OF AB FROM ORGASM: 40 DAYS
GOAL: AWAITING INSTRUCTION FROM MASTER

This happens to me a lot and sometimes I wish that I understood why it happened. I have spoken to my doctor about this and taken his advice, BUT I still have this issue a couple of times a week!

When i am asleep with my pj top on i rub my underwear and then i erupt with a load of cum and i wake up feeling wet in my underwear then i go back to sleep then sometimes i cum again in the morning and feeling wet again. .

Yeah, I think this is kind of common. I was caught doing this in my sleep, once.

Awesome congrats on some nights i have a feeling to do rubbing then i release when i have stopped ( always on my back not front)

It's interesting to see how many of us have had similar experiences. I've been seeing a counselor for severe anxiety and I brought this up to her. She asked me what the problem was. I didn't really have a good answer. She said that it was part of who I am and to just accept it. That has really helped. It's weird, I seem to be fully conscious when I have a sleep MB incident, but don't remember it. The sleep MB incidents last 2 to 3 minutes from start to finish.

I understand what you mean about just wanting to get some sleep. Sometimes my wife will wake me up. That's enough to get me to stop, but I just wake back up later and finish. So after all of these years I have decided to to just "go with the flow." If my body works this way then I need to accept it and try and enjoy it. Yes it can be embarrassing but if you have an understanding partner, it's not really that bad. So if you're experiencing these same types of issues, sit back and accept the way your body has been made. I've tried to change it but cannot. The only other solution is to accept it.

Just as an FYI, I started my own WD journal. It can be found here: viewtopic.php?f=9&t=6298&p=75597#p75597

I've lived this too. I used to think I was the only one and it was weird but now I see you have experienced it too guys. I can say that I even took my clothes off being slept. Really crazy

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