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Just wanted to ask if it is normal for straight guys to have wet dreams of having sex with another man?

I am 100% straight yet have a gay wet dream at least once every couple of months...sometimes it feels so real that it's scary! and weirdly feels kinds nice at the same time...

anyone ever experienced this? how did it feel?

many guys have experienced this. You can explain how your sub concious works and u should not read anything into it.

Yep, had them even when I was happily married.

Its funny though, I don't recall any dreams in which I was the "female", and in the dreams where there was actual sex, I never inserted my penis into his anus, but always between his thighs so that my head pushed into the base of his ball bag. Not being gay, and never having tried it in real life, I don't know if it is possible to touch his ball bag from behind.

Also had WD's where I saw guys getting hard in the sauna or showers after a gym session. No actual contact but just what I saw in the dream. Although I did see a few hardons in the sauna and showers, in real life, but in all cases the guys (including me) always tried to hide it. Some just did not do it so well.

yeah a lot of my early dreams were gay and every now and then i still have a gay one though not as often as when i was 12-13 yo. i never really thought about it before until i read AGTs post above but i was always pitching and never catching in my dreams too. i dont specifically remember any anal either but if i was having gay sex i guess it would have to be anal but in my dreams it was like having sex with a girl, they felt no different in my dream.

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Is there any actual sexual activity, or are the women just there in the background?

Same. I had a dream about a close friend of mine.

But I also had a dream about my 25 year old English teacher, but I'd never fuck her.

In other words. You have dreams of people you would never do anything with in real life.

It's no big deal.

All of mine were hetero. I still think fondly about some of the females who appeared in my wet dreams, even though I wasn't crazy about some of them IRL.

I consider myself a 5 on the Kinsey scale but I'd say about 30 to 40 percent of the sex dreams I have are about having sex with women.

I had one about myself. In the dream i was checking myself out in a mirror whike i was wearing a speedo and my mirror image stepped out of the mirror and we or I started making out with the image . we got naked and started doing oral stuff and then we did frotage ( i think thats what it is) we were rubbing our parts against each other and we both EJed at same time. I woke up after i really EJed in my sleep.

This is my favorite topic, so sorry if I get poetic on it.
It was very upsetting to me that I had dreams about guys at 12-13. I mean, they were wonderful, but I felt totally cut off from being a part of the sexy conversations other people were having, because I knew you weren't supposed to talk about that.

So later on, after years of study (Jung, etc) I figured out that such dreams have to do with ABSTRACT qualities of masculinity that your unconscious thinks you should be interested in. I have since taken up the vocation of heroic poetry, so I get so sing about great big heroic guys all the time. So it all works out. It's a role-model thing. When you can't explore certain masculine potentials in real life, they come back at you in dreams.

One thing I love is that even guys who are "100% straight" sometimes get dreams about other guys, even when they don't want to! This amuses me mightily.

---Didaskalos

Yes, I Had. I can't remember the dream cleary but I had an huge ejaculation after that.

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Had once. I was 16 and I felt a bit scared after it. I was never thinking about homosexuality, also I was dating with a girl but my subconscious did this to me.

It's so normal. I made a little search on internet and saw that most of the guys had this kind of WDs.

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It's good to hear that it is normal...

Although most of my wet dreams I am actually involved in sexual activity whether it be with male or female.

In reality I have had offers from men, and even though I am not gay I once did end up having sex with my best friend....went on holiday....he had an arguement with his gf, came to have a chat with me in my room one night, talked most of the night so he asked if it would be ok for him to sleep in my room that night as he was too tired to go to his room. I didn't have a problem with it, I went and took a shower and was going to bed when he was already half asleep, both of us were in our boxers only. so we slept as normal and before you know it he came onto me...he is not gay either I guess it was just the closeness we shared, initially I was a bit taken aback and pushed him off. But I felt sorry for him so obliged in the end. It was a very different experience, he knew I would never allow anything up me so he offered to receive and I gave.
Later we just laughed about it and thought nothing of it.
I guess maybe some of my gay WD's stem from that experience...i dnt know...

Yes I've had wet dreams about my brother feeling me over, after he did stuff like that in real life.

I rarely have homo wet dreams. This is what I recall from most homo dream. So basically I was walking on a trail and at the side of the trail there was a dark brick building. I went in and there were 2 naked sweaty men beating it. And they werent just beating it, they were trying to rip it off. Then they shot their load at the same time and I had a wet dream.

I had about 100 wet dreams but never one involving another male.

Wow, josh123, that's rough!
Have you had any that were nicer?
----Didaskalos

Then again, if your subconscious likes big sweaty guys doing violent things to each other, you would probably love Homer's ILIAD. . . .
---D

That's pretty strange for sure... I am honestly not sure what to think of that man

I think that it's normal cum when in a dream there is cum.. it's the subconscious that tell you that you have come XD

I have, but it might me a stretch to call them "homo" since in some cases a male is simply present or seen when it happens, much like when women are there. Sometimes nobody is there!

That said, I have had a couple somewhat realistic erotic dreams involving guys, but like those involving girls that are realistic sex, they are rarely wet dreams. My wet dreams were always a bit more ambiguous or elusive with the dream content, which seemed to be more focused on pure sensations.

The first one I had was a short wet dream in which I was walking in a hospital (?) with nobody there, like after a zombie take-over. It was dark and there were many beds on wheels. Laying on one of them was a guy I knew from school - how I knew it was him I am not sure because I never saw his face. The only part I remember seeing was his torso and legs. He was wearing blue sweatpants and I suddenly noticed that he had a bulge from an erection. At that instant I felt myself get an erections and BOOM had a quick ejaculation, too fast to react to. When I woke up my hand was laying over my penis (but I had shorts on) and I thought for a while that what caused the dream was the fact that I felt myself get erect with my hand and that in turn triggered my dream about seeing the erection on someone else. Like I was projecting the sensation I felt onto a dream character.

There were others, though. Like the one where I was standing by a shed in a large field that seemed to be used as a high school playground. There was a fire drill and thousands of students came pouring out in unrealistically neat and orderly formations and standing in silent attention. The row near me must have been in a gym class and I noticed one guy and had the realization "he is gay" (with no information to prove this) and when i spotted a bulge in his shorts, BOOM, I came and woke up. Again, it was instant, like reflex.

These dreams kind of bothered me at the time, and there were a few others, but years later one of the more disturbing ones happened. I was away from home and so on an uncomfortable futon, and had a headache so I took an aspirin. That night I had a wet dream, very quick. Right before I woke up I dreamed that a male body emerged from under the sheets and was on top of me - all I saw was the chest and genitals. His penis briefly touched mine and for a second I felt a slippery tingling and then BOOM I came and woke up.

All of these were very quick and like a reflex. Not long and slow like my other wet dreams, including those with girls. So who knows what it means.

Thanks Jamie. VERY interested to hear about the contrast between WD about females (normal, full sex experience) and males (odd, abrupt, mysterious.)
---Didaskalos

My WDs now are about 50/50 between men and women. When I was a teenager, 90/10 between women and men. Those few about men when I was a teen disturbed me. Not any more.

I don't often recall dreams but this one, long ago, has always bothered and stayed with me. It wasn't a wet dream but I think the account fits here.

I dreamed I was present when two guys anally raped a fourth guy. It wasn't violent but I somehow dream-knew it wasn't consensual. When they finished and were gone I felt horrible for the guy but as I struggled with indecision he insisted that the damage was done so I should have my turn. I remember it felt real as I entered him, then the dream was over.

In real life I did once try anal sex with a girlfriend but even lubed and going very slow, as soon as I was fully in she said she found it painful so I stopped. I assume that's why the part of it feeling real entered the dream and since it ended that way with her it ended after entry in the dream as well. I am heterosexual, gay friendly and I have never forced sex on anyone so no clue on why those themes at all. But then sometimes a cigar ....

Most of my dreams have been. Some of those dreams were more intense and vivid than others. I think that even though, as erotic as those dreams have been, have not changed that I am straight.

I have had several. In fact last night had one where i was kissing a guy, took off his shirt, and we started grinding. I woke up before any ejac. could happen. It was odd, as I've never done anything like that with a guy in real life. Like others have said, maybe a subconscious recognition of the masculine in general vs. an actual sex partner.

I am still trying for my first WD. However, I think I have had a few near misses (given intensity of dream, though I woke up before). I think it can be less a problem with having a gay wet dream, and more a problem with a dream about relations with a person or with persons you would NEVER want to have relations with in actual life. I found it REALLY bothersome. (Particularly if you then wake up hard.) Anyone else had this problem? Am I the only freak?

Ardent, I have had that happen. WD or otherwise erotic dreams associated with coworkers for example. People I would never be attracted to in the waking world. But I think that's the mind's way of associating a face or characteristics to "fill in the blanks" of what we're dreaming about.

That is right, the subconcious is hard to understand. When I was 14, I fantasized about girls when MB but had regular WDs of male teachers, policemen, my stepdad... Always when I woke up I felt guilty and ashamed and afraid this could mean I am turning gay. Ten years later I was.

But still: Dreaming of Co-workers still feels strange and might be bisexual in both ways. I once dreamed I watched a female collegue, she is a cougar and I get along with her very well, buying an escort and getting f**d senseless by him, she had multiple orgasms and I saw her big breasts and between her legs her big lips and her throbbing clit. And I orgasmed in my sleep and woke up, completely disturbed. The next day I could hardly look her in the eyes...

Another dream was about a collegue of mine, I secretly watched him MB through a window. I orgasmed at the same time he did and I woke up with wet boxers...

In real life I would not want to have sex with either one of them. At all. But the WDs were nice though.

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I didn't think that was normal but judging from everyone else's replies it's totally normal to have the odd homo wet dream. Useful to know