Phasing out MB v.s Stopping MB abruptly

[wetdreamsareawesome]

Many of us started Abstaining by gradually letting go of masturbation (phasing out).
I was thinking though, that maybe masturbating a lot for a week or so and then cutting off masturbation completely might be a faster way to a wetdream. My logic is that if you phase MBing out, your body thinks it doesn't have to make as much semen anymore and slows production. So, if you were to masturbate a lot, your body would create a lot of semen thinking it would have to ejaculate at least 5 times a day. Then after a short time of not ejaculating it would get full and discharge on its own.
It phased MB out and after stopping completely it took a couple of months until I got a WD.
Has anyone Stopped abruptly? How long did it take for a WD?
For other people who phased out, how long it take you to get a WD?
Any other thoughts on this theory?

[misterjack]

I have a friend who phased out his MB habits over the course of several months. At first he'd reduce porn and MB to twice a week, then once a week, then every two weeks, and so on. It seems to have worked for him but frankly I can't imagine it being very helpful to those who are seriously addicted. I can't fathom a serious decade-long addict like myself doing MB twice a week when you have an urge to do so nearly every single day and have frequently MB'd multiple times a day.

Abstaining from MB means that you're committing yourself not to MB for the rest of your life. We all know it's virtually impossible to accomplish this overnight but once you develop this mentality where you rationalize the process and allow yourself to relapse once or twice a week, you're lost. At least from my experience and what I've observed in others. I've now reached a point where I MB/P about once a week. It's an improvement but it's still far from ideal. My advice - strive for abstinence even if it takes weeks, months to reach the point where not engaging in MB and/or watching porn comes naturally.

[doughs]

WDAA, my experience is very different from what you are trying to do. Instead of phasing out MB or stopping it abruptly, I stopped WD abruptly. It's true. Starting at puberty, I had a WD about once a week for 2 1/2 years, or about 100 WDs total. Then one day I found another way to release the semen. I had two more WDs that week, and then the following weekend I practiced my new way repeatedly. I have never had another WD.

[blue4]

I stopped abruptly and I got my first WD after 50 or so days. This was after MB about 7 times a week (usually before I went to bed every night) since I was 7 or 8 and I am now 22. I don't know if there is any effect on whether you phase it out or stop abruptly. I feel like phasing it out is a bad idea- then you just look forward to the times you get to MB.

-blue

[maverick]

Very interesting subject, probably the subject at the heart of this forum. Why we all communicate our thoughts here is because we all want to stop MB to get back to the natural WD mode. How we stop maybe the first question we should of asked ourselves?

In my case, i remember i first learned to MB in a camping trip with my older brother and his friends. I was so young, 11 or 12, that i had feelings doing it but my orgasm was dry because my body did'nt even produced cum yet. Boy i wish i had'nt known about MB before having my first WD. Unfortunatetly, learning to mb first led me to develop an habit that i still try to overcome.

So the question about phasing out or stopping abruptly is crucial to our journey. Trying to phase out, thats what i have been doing since 2009, does not seem to bring much results. For this reason, i would tend to believe that quitting completely is the way to go to achieve the wd mode. But how to quit completely or should i say techniques to help us quit fully is the thing we are all seeking.

If someone on this board can guide us in ways to achieve quitting abruptly the MB habit, our success is not far away.