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 Post subject: Punishment
PostPosted: Mon Apr 02, 2012 10:58 pm 
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Age: 32
Number of wet dreams you've experienced: 25
Circumcised or Uncut?: Circumcised (Cut)
Precum Production: Lots of Precum (more than 4 drops before ejaculation)
Average time to orgasm/ejaculation normally: 15
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Briefs
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 5-6 hours
Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 02 Apr 2012
Sex: Male
Anyone ever get punished/humiliated for their WDs (either now or growing up)?


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 Post subject: Re: Punishment
PostPosted: Tue Apr 03, 2012 5:43 am 
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Joined: Sun Apr 01, 2012 1:35 am
Posts: 79
Age: 15
Number of wet dreams you've experienced: 3
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Precum Production: Lots of Precum (more than 4 drops before ejaculation)
Average time to orgasm/ejaculation normally: 10
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Boxers
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 7-8 hours
Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 20 Jun 2012
Sex: Male
Prob gonna have to start doing laundry:( maybe i can wear shorts and not get any mess on my sheets. I like clean sheets.(mb is pretty easy to keep clean except when it shoots onto your face so u have to shower right away.)


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 Post subject: Re: Punishment
PostPosted: Tue Apr 03, 2012 6:51 am 
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Joined: Mon Dec 01, 2008 6:38 am
Posts: 55
Age: 54
Number of wet dreams you've experienced: 31
Circumcised or Uncut?: Uncut (Intact)
Precum Production: Some Precum (2-4 drops before ejaculation)
Average time to orgasm/ejaculation normally: 10
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Briefs
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: yes
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 3-4 hours
Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 22 Jul 2013
Sex: Male
No parent (or anyone else) is ever going to punish you for having a WD. Everyone understands they're involountary and likly almost every dad has been there when they were in your position. Mums too as girls can and do leak too, quite regularly.


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 Post subject: Re: Punishment
PostPosted: Tue Apr 03, 2012 8:22 pm 
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Age: 32
Number of wet dreams you've experienced: 25
Circumcised or Uncut?: Circumcised (Cut)
Precum Production: Lots of Precum (more than 4 drops before ejaculation)
Average time to orgasm/ejaculation normally: 15
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Briefs
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 5-6 hours
Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 02 Apr 2012
Sex: Male
Sorry to bust your theory Activa, but I had a parent who did.
My step-dad growing up was a VERY strict, religous guy who believed firmly in corporal punishment to correct/control behavior. I got my butt set ablaze with the hairbrush on more than one occasion for having stained sheets. He said it didn't matter what any "heretic" experts might say. He was convinced the only "real" reason I had WDs was cause of a preponderence of "unclean" thoughts that I refused to fight.
And God help ya (pun intended) if you got caught MB. (Got his belt and some heavy welts for that!)


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 Post subject: Re: Punishment
PostPosted: Tue Apr 03, 2012 8:37 pm 
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Posts: 647
Location: Australia (south of Sydney)
Age: 66
Number of wet dreams you've experienced: 100
Circumcised or Uncut?: Circumcised (Cut)
Precum Production: Lots of Precum (more than 4 drops before ejaculation)
Average time to orgasm/ejaculation normally: 15
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Nude - no underwear
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 5-6 hours
Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 05 Mar 2017
Sex: Male
Activa, bad wording: you should have said 99.9999% of parents ............

Geoffotk, I would say that your step-dad falls into the 0.00001% not included above.


Just my 2 bobs worth.


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 Post subject: Re: Punishment
PostPosted: Thu Apr 05, 2012 4:56 am 
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Number of wet dreams you've experienced: 25
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Precum Production: Lots of Precum (more than 4 drops before ejaculation)
Average time to orgasm/ejaculation normally: 15
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Briefs
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 5-6 hours
Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 02 Apr 2012
Sex: Male
"2 bobs worth"? or did you mean 2 globs worth. :D
(Ha ha ha ha, Sorry AGT, couldn't resist)

Actually you're right - I'm sure he was one of a very small minority of parents who was messed-up that way. (Never had the courage to ask him, but I'll bet he's one that never had a WD himself and never had first-hand exp. to be able to empathize).


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 Post subject: Re: Punishment
PostPosted: Wed Apr 18, 2012 8:02 am 
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Location: Oklahoma
Age: 39
Number of wet dreams you've experienced: 8
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Precum Production: Lots of Precum (more than 4 drops before ejaculation)
Average time to orgasm/ejaculation normally: 5
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Boxers
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 6-7 hours
Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 16 Oct 2017
Sex: Male
geoffotk wrote:
"2 bobs worth"? or did you mean 2 globs worth. :D
(Ha ha ha ha, Sorry AGT, couldn't resist)

Actually you're right - I'm sure he was one of a very small minority of parents who was messed-up that way. (Never had the courage to ask him, but I'll bet he's one that never had a WD himself and never had first-hand exp. to be able to empathize).


Maybe, but my guess is that he was biologically normal and had WDs and MB at least some, and grew up with parents with similar views and behaviors, and he was just sustaining the cycle of ignorance and overreacting (and bad theology). Sorry to hear that. Glad you overcame those shame-based views yourself.


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 Post subject: Re: Punishment
PostPosted: Mon Oct 24, 2016 8:03 pm 
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Age: 69
Number of wet dreams you've experienced: 100
Circumcised or Uncut?: Circumcised (Cut)
Precum Production: Some Precum (2-4 drops before ejaculation)
Average time to orgasm/ejaculation normally: 5
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Shorts or pajamas with no underwear
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 3-4 hours
Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 22 Jun 2013
Sex: Male
I'm replying to the post by geoffotk and others about punishment for having wet dreams. I was punished by my parents for several years for having wet dreams. I had only recently learned what wet dreams were when a friend of mine had told me about them. His parents had given him a book that explained sex to boys. When Paul told me about wet dreams I was shocked and appalled. The idea of some mysterious fluid coming out of my penis while I slept seemed disgusting. He assured me that all boys had wet dreams. I didn't say anything to that but decided that I would never let it happen to me.
A few months later I had my first wet dream. It was about a month or two after my 13th birthday. I was a little disappointed in myself but it didn't seem like a big deal at the time. I put my pajamas in the dirty clothes hamper, took a shower and went to school. That evening my mother to my room and told me, "Daddy says, you have to wear your pajamas at least three days." My father was very rigid and sometimes he came up with some rather punitive rules and I had just learned to try to live with them. This meant when I had a wet dream I would have to don the soiled pajamas to following night and sleep in them. Also, I wasn't allowed to have clean sheets after a wet dream unless it was time to change them anyway. Understand that my parents never mentioned to me that it was because I had a wet dream. We never talked of sexual matters in the family. The message I got from my father's new rule was that what I had done was bad. I had no brothers or sisters so there was no one in the family I could confide in.
Every time I had a wet dream I felt that I had done something wrong, and it was dirty and shameful. I felt I could never tell anyone about it because it was just too shameful. I began taking longer showers in the morning. I could not talk to anyone about my problem because I was too ashamed. I started reading the Bible looking for answers. I came across that part where Jesus said something about committing adultery in one's heart. I interpreted that to mean that it was wrong to be attracted to a woman unless you were married to her. I concentrated on not being attracted to the opposite sex.
My washing behavior increased over time and when I was seventeen I was spending over an hour in the shower. Sometimes when I was about to have a wet dream I would wake up just before I climaxed. When that happened I would concentrate as hard as I could on not coming. Sometimes that worked but when it didn't I felt more disgusted with myself than ever and I would have to spend more time in the shower. My father seemed to be always angry with me and frequently said very cruel things.
They started taking me to see a psychiatrist. When he asked me why I was washing so much I would not answer. That question made me very uncomfortable because I felt I was doing something horrible and to shameful to mention. Then they started taking me to another psychiatrist and it was the same story with him. One day I went sort of crazy and drove my father's car into a river. Then they put me in a mental hospital for the better part of a year. When I was in the hospital my showering time decreased dramatically because I didn't have to sleep in semen stained pajamas. I still couldn't tell anyone why I washed so much. A couple of times a psychiatrist would say, "What about wetting the bed." I believe what they meant by that was peeing in the bed and I wasn't doing that so I felt puzzled by the question. I have come to suspect that my mother did not know about wet dreams and when she told my father that I was wetting the bed he took her at her word.
When I finished high school I still felt it was wrong to feel attracted to the opposite sex. I worked at a certain job right after high school. I used to see a girl there that was around my age sometimes. I began having fantasies about her. I imagined being alone with her and feeling of her breasts. When I was at work I seemed to be unable to stop thinking about that. I'm not sure what my reasoning was but I somehow rationalized that it was okay to have those fantasies. It was a tremendous load off my mind to be able to feel attracted to the opposite sex.
I finally learned to jack off when I was in my early 30's. I couldn't jack off before because the fantasies that intrigued me the most were those in which I was being punished by women and that seemed so perverse I tried to avoid them. When I stopped avoiding them I could jack off.
When I was in my mid forties I was finally able to tell a therapist what I have just related here. For so long I had been to terrified to tell anyone and rather suddenly it was ease. I have told a psychiatrist and two therapists this story and it was a little disappointing because they did not seem to think it was very significant. At least that is the impression I got.
I don't like sexual intercourse at all. The only women I have been able to engage in intercourse were prostitutes (and the first time I did that I was 52). That is because I would feel too guilty and ashamed to do that with someone I know socially. With a prostitute sex is nothing personal. It's just a business arrangement. I don't like blow jobs either although I find that cunnilingus is fine. That must be because I feel my penis is filthy and shameful. I know this is a warped view but that is my trap.
I found the wet dream forum when I was searching for someone who had been through what I've been through. Now I know there is at least one guy who was punished for having wet dreams. Maybe there is someone else who will reply to this.


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 Post subject: Re: Punishment
PostPosted: Sat Oct 29, 2016 3:08 pm 
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Joined: Mon Oct 12, 2009 6:54 am
Posts: 651
Age: 31
Number of wet dreams you've experienced: 22
Circumcised or Uncut?: Restored (was circumcised, now uncut)
Precum Production: Lots of Precum (more than 4 drops before ejaculation)
Average time to orgasm/ejaculation normally: 10
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Nude - no underwear
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: yes
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 1-2 hours
Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 09 Dec 2016
Sex: Male
I never had wet dreams growing up because I didn't experience them. Not a problem as an adult as I sleep clothed and it usually stays contained in my undies and shorts. Speaking of which... I don't believe I have ever had a wd in the nude...

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