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xanthier
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 Posted: Thu May 19, 2011 8:01 am |
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Posts: 131
Age: 28
Number of wet dreams you've experienced: 2
Circumcised or Uncut?: Circumcised (Cut)
Precum Production: Little Precum (1-2 drops before ejaculation)
Average time to ejaculation normally: 5
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Boxer briefs
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 7-8 hours
Date that you last had an ejaculation: 18 Jul 2012
Sex: Male
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Is it true that the longer you abstain from anything sexually exciting or stimulating thoughts, the sooner a WD will come?
Or are those just means to avoid MB and thus increase likelihood of a WD that way. In other words, does abstaining from porn and sexual thoughts directly affect ability to have a WD or just help you not to MB?
Some people tend to say that the more worked up and hornier you are the better your chances are of a WD as long as you don't MB. So which is it, no stimulation and no MB, or stimulation is ok without MB?
I'd like to hear any thoughts or experiences with this, as well as any studies if anyone knows any.
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Zach
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Posted: Thu May 19, 2011 9:59 am |
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Joined: Thu Jan 13, 2011 6:47 am
Posts: 1905
Age: 16
Number of wet dreams you've experienced: 80
Circumcised or Uncut?: Circumcised (Cut)
Precum Production: Lots of Precum (more than 4 drops before ejaculation)
Average time to ejaculation normally: 10
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Boxers
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: yes
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 7-8 hours
Date that you last had an ejaculation: 20 Dec 2013
Sex: Male
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xanthier wrote: Is it true that the longer you abstain from anything sexually exciting or stimulating thoughts, the sooner a WD will come?
Or are those just means to avoid MB and thus increase likelihood of a WD that way. In other words, does abstaining from porn and sexual thoughts directly affect ability to have a WD or just help you not to MB?
Some people tend to say that the more worked up and hornier you are the better your chances are of a WD as long as you don't MB. So which is it, no stimulation and no MB, or stimulation is ok without MB?
I'd like to hear any thoughts or experiences with this, as well as any studies if anyone knows any. For me its the first one. I will have a wd much quicker with no stimulation, no mb, no porn etc., But i tend to be extremely horny prior to a wd. I mean i cant help it when i pop a random boner and im excited for awhile which mean im obviously stimulated haha, but they happen eventually.
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xanthier
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Posted: Thu May 19, 2011 7:51 pm |
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Joined: Wed May 04, 2011 3:08 pm
Posts: 131
Age: 28
Number of wet dreams you've experienced: 2
Circumcised or Uncut?: Circumcised (Cut)
Precum Production: Little Precum (1-2 drops before ejaculation)
Average time to ejaculation normally: 5
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Boxer briefs
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 7-8 hours
Date that you last had an ejaculation: 18 Jul 2012
Sex: Male
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they might have a point with that stay away from porn stuff. I haven't been despite not actually having had a release in over 7 days, and that avatar no longer excites me 
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Zach
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Posted: Fri May 20, 2011 8:23 am |
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Joined: Thu Jan 13, 2011 6:47 am
Posts: 1905
Age: 16
Number of wet dreams you've experienced: 80
Circumcised or Uncut?: Circumcised (Cut)
Precum Production: Lots of Precum (more than 4 drops before ejaculation)
Average time to ejaculation normally: 10
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Boxers
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: yes
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 7-8 hours
Date that you last had an ejaculation: 20 Dec 2013
Sex: Male
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ricky wrote: xanthier wrote: Is it true that the longer you abstain from anything sexually exciting or stimulating thoughts, the sooner a WD will come?
Or are those just means to avoid MB and thus increase likelihood of a WD that way. In other words, does abstaining from porn and sexual thoughts directly affect ability to have a WD or just help you not to MB?
Some people tend to say that the more worked up and hornier you are the better your chances are of a WD as long as you don't MB. So which is it, no stimulation and no MB, or stimulation is ok without MB?
I'd like to hear any thoughts or experiences with this, as well as any studies if anyone knows any. I was advised by a member on the forum (BigDog) to watch some light porn in bed just before going to sleep. His idea was to get really horny just before falling asleep, and actually have a raging hardon while falling asleep. He called it "controlled horniness", but there was a strict rule that said there was to be absolutely no touching at all. After 18 days of AB I had my first WD. I have now had 2, and I think a third is very close. Wow, how exactly do you do that cause i really would like to know. There is no fricken way im falling asleep with a raging boner, it just aint happening and i know a lot of other guys are like that too. im up for hours sometimes. The way i do it is i wait until im fading alseep, you know that half awake, half asleep state just before and then i try to think of sex. That helps me alot but if i think of sex before im fading then i end up laying in bed with a boner for a couple hours wide awake and trying not to j/o.
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confided
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Posted: Fri May 20, 2011 10:50 am |
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Joined: Sun May 08, 2011 12:26 pm
Posts: 43
Age: 18
Number of wet dreams you've experienced: 0
Circumcised or Uncut?: Circumcised (Cut)
Precum Production: Lots of Precum (more than 4 drops before ejaculation)
Average time to ejaculation normally: 6
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: N/A - never had a wet dream before
Date that you last had an ejaculation: 08 Dec 2011
Sex: Male
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vskbadcrc wrote: Well, to be perfectly honest, not enough solid data has been compiled to create a statistical standpoint on what exactly does or doesn't work. At the end of the day, wet dreams are really random, and we often fail to notice the fact that all the things we do to "induce" a wet dream, in fact, rarely, if ever work. I could spend 10 nights in a row watching porn prior to going to sleep, if it works once, it becomes a resounding success in my mind but in reality it did absolutely nothing to cause it - and I would have had a wet dream either way.
It becomes like a superstition - my team won the last baseball game because I wore a blue sock on my right foot, therefor if I wear a blue sock on my right foot my team will continue winning. It's that kind of thinking ultimately.
In the end though there's one too many variables involved, and no one really wants to record that kind of information.
Having said all that, I personally try and avoid porn. Whether or not I go to bed raging horny doesn't really seem to change anything. I doesn't increase the odds of me having a WD - but not only that, it does increase the likelihood of me caving to masturbation - which I don't want. I'll have a wet dream when my body's ready to have one. Exactly.
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ray1996
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Posted: Fri May 20, 2011 8:37 pm |
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ricky wrote: I was advised by a member on the forum (BigDog) to watch some light porn in bed just before going to sleep. His idea was to get really horny just before falling asleep, and actually have a raging hardon while falling asleep. He called it "controlled horniness", but there was a strict rule that said there was to be absolutely no touching at all.  Hhhhmmmm, this sounds like it could be a good idea. What do you consider 'light porn'? .
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wetdreamsareawesome
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Posted: Sat May 21, 2011 9:58 am |
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Joined: Fri Apr 29, 2011 1:11 pm
Posts: 68
Age: 15
Number of wet dreams you've experienced: 100
Circumcised or Uncut?: Circumcised (Cut)
Precum Production: Little Precum (1-2 drops before ejaculation)
Average time to ejaculation normally: 5
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Boxers
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: yes
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 5-6 hours
Date that you last had an ejaculation: 25 Mar 2011
Sex: Male
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I think it's just not masturbating.
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oldboy
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Posted: Sun May 22, 2011 4:24 pm |
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zachcurtis wrote: Wow, how exactly do you do that cause i really would like to know. There is no fricken way im falling asleep with a raging boner, it just aint happening and i know a lot of other guys are like that too. im up for hours sometimes. The way i do it is i wait until im fading alseep, you know that half awake, half asleep state just before and then i try to think of sex. That helps me alot but if i think of sex before im fading then i end up laying in bed with a boner for a couple hours wide awake and trying not to j/o. Sexual arousal actually sends me to sleep when on my own. But then I'm 36 years old and fall asleep at the drop of a hat anyway. As for Xanthier's pening post on this topic; from my point of view it would be contradictory as for me porn is a turn off. I don't want someone else's second hand fantasy and when I hear porn enthusiasts talking about porn it's just depressing. To me it seems like taking something passionate and joyful - sex - sucking the passion and joy out of it and turning it into low-grade slap-stick comedy. Am I sounding like a grumpy old man?! I've always felt this way. That said, it depends on your defenition of porn. I do like nude photography, especially the black and white art nude photography of the 50s and 60s. I'm interested in photograghy of other themes from that era too; it's partly an interest in the art form but the nudes are a turn on. Beautiful, dignified, no other man's fantasy being imposed on them. I also like some contempory nude colour photography if it's not trying too hard to be sexy and the women are my type, but when searching for it's usually not long before I accidently see something I really, really don't want to see! In any case, I don't climax while looking at photos, they just provide visual info for my own fantasies. I then fall asleep and WD. If I'm ready for sleep and really turned on, I can pretty much guarantee a WD if I want one.
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xanthier
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Posted: Tue May 24, 2011 10:55 am |
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Joined: Wed May 04, 2011 3:08 pm
Posts: 131
Age: 28
Number of wet dreams you've experienced: 2
Circumcised or Uncut?: Circumcised (Cut)
Precum Production: Little Precum (1-2 drops before ejaculation)
Average time to ejaculation normally: 5
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Boxer briefs
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 7-8 hours
Date that you last had an ejaculation: 18 Jul 2012
Sex: Male
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oldboy wrote: zachcurtis wrote: Wow, how exactly do you do that cause i really would like to know. There is no fricken way im falling asleep with a raging boner, it just aint happening and i know a lot of other guys are like that too. im up for hours sometimes. The way i do it is i wait until im fading alseep, you know that half awake, half asleep state just before and then i try to think of sex. That helps me alot but if i think of sex before im fading then i end up laying in bed with a boner for a couple hours wide awake and trying not to j/o. Sexual arousal actually sends me to sleep when on my own. But then I'm 36 years old and fall asleep at the drop of a hat anyway. As for Xanthier's pening post on this topic; from my point of view it would be contradictory as for me porn is a turn off. I don't want someone else's second hand fantasy and when I hear porn enthusiasts talking about porn it's just depressing. To me it seems like taking something passionate and joyful - sex - sucking the passion and joy out of it and turning it into low-grade slap-stick comedy. Am I sounding like a grumpy old man?! I've always felt this way. That said, it depends on your defenition of porn. I do like nude photography, especially the black and white art nude photography of the 50s and 60s. I'm interested in photograghy of other themes from that era too; it's partly an interest in the art form but the nudes are a turn on. Beautiful, dignified, no other man's fantasy being imposed on them. I also like some contempory nude colour photography if it's not trying too hard to be sexy and the women are my type, but when searching for it's usually not long before I accidently see something I really, really don't want to see! In any case, I don't climax while looking at photos, they just provide visual info for my own fantasies. I then fall asleep and WD. If I'm ready for sleep and really turned on, I can pretty much guarantee a WD if I want one. That totally resonates with me, I feel pretty much the same way about it. I do about the same thing too, but try to avoid the harder stuff which is sometimes right next to the other.
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