New here. Working on being masturbation free.

[Olórë]

I just happened upon these boards last week while searching about wet dreams. I'm currently on day 63 of abstaining and still have yet to have a wet dream, which is somewhat frustrating. Especially when a week ago I had a pretty sexual dream where I ejaculated a LOT in dream, yet I did not really do so IRL. I've read some threads on here and from what I gather I should be around, if not past, the point of where the average person has their initial wet dream. However I've read that some have gone for quite a long while (which I hope is not the case with me).

Is there any consensus as to what might improve the chances of having a wet dream? I would very much like to have some release and possibly move toward more regular ones. Blue balls are not my friends.

[redant]

Hey

Well done on the abstinence. If you read enough on these forums, you will see that the science behind WD is still very much uncharted territory. From what I can tell after reading plenty - just like dreams itself, wet dreams are very much still a mystery to us. Hence there is no real formula that you can follow to make it happen.

In my case, I simply understand that my body keeps on producing sperm which is stored, until the storage space is full, and then it overflows. I thought that would be the case for most, but it seems not to be. And even if it is, your body might be producing sperm at slower rate or something like that.

I think a healthy body is important and might contribute to a potential WD. I highly recommend you get to a gym or some sort of exercising, drink that 8 glasses of water, and follow a simple diet of less sugar and fat.

Hang in there and keep us posted.
Red

[Olórë]

Interesting about the exercise. My gf and I have been trying to run more often, though we've yet to get into a set routine of doing so. Also at the very least I want to start being regular with doing push-ups and crunches, etc... So maybe that will give me more incentive to do so.

As for the amount of sperm produced, I guess that could be a factor. I know I went for an extended period of time where I abstained back in the Spring and it was probably around 2 months, and other times it was around a month/month and a half. I don't really have that many times to go off of since I discovered MB very shortly after my WD's started.

[Skillz92]

Having been a regular masturbater for my teen years (I'm 18) this year starting at the end of June I went 112 days mb free. At day 90 I had a wet dream. A stereotype would generalise as "teenagers will get them quickly". So it seems that it does take time especially if it's been a long time since you had wet dreams while having a past of masturbating a lot, or even never had one.
You've just got to keep walking down the "wet dream path" and before you know it you will be in "wet dream territory"

[Jamie]

Wow Skillz92, 120 days??? I think that might be a record of no mb or wd! Now that you say that I wonder if the wet dream you told me about was more intense than it sounded. Was there at least an amount that seemed like a 4 month build-up? I can only compare my 2-week build ups.