They get better and you'll start getting more!

[Skillz92]

Ok so I've read in quite a lot of posts about wet dreams getting more pleasurable with the more you have and that the time for the next one decreases. I was reading a post by a member called ConnorWrest and he also confirms this

When I was 13 and had never MBed, I started having semi-vivid, semi-pleasurable WDs a few times a month, then as the months went by, the time between WDs began getting shorter, and the dreams more vivid and pleasurable, then I began getting them almost every day, sometimes more than once in a day, I can remember mornings where I would keep falling back asleep just so that I would have another vivid WD, and then go back to sleep again.

so it seems as if this is the case for most people who have masturbated in past and turn away from it to becoming a regular WDer and this is probably the case for teenagers going through puberty who have never masturbated.
So for any regular wet dreamers- can you also confirm this so that it can give guys motivation to continue being masturbation free. also if you know of any other comments agreeing with this, then quote them in your reply

[Skillz92]

here's another guy who confirms it by the way. shadow-15 was asked by texanguy if they get better and he says they do too

Are they starting to happen more frequently, and are they feeling better and better? Are you still sleeping nude, and do you think that might be helping you get your WD's?

Good luck in getting many more WD's!

well for now all my WD's have been about me having sex with my gf and yeah it keeps geeting better and better im still sleeping in nude and i cant tell u that it will get more wet dreams i just like sleeping nude thats all^^ and now im geeting WD's 2-3 times a week my desire to MB is absolutly gone it did take some will power to give up MB tho but as i said before its all thanks to the people here and the suport they have given me that helped me quit MB and start enjoying the WD's :mrgreen:

[Texanguy]

The thing that stands out to me is that these guys have separated their sexuality from a desire to MB. I think this allows for a certain freedom. A guy who is tempted to MB who wants a WD has to control himself and be careful not to give in and MB. But a guy for whom MB does not exist can look forward to an exciting WD while not holding anything back at all. In a way he is more 'ready' for a WD.

Shadow-15 seemed quite happy to have his desire to MB be 'abolutely gone', while at the same time looking forward to having sex yet again in more WD's.

Another example of this attitude is this guy: http://www.misterpoll.com/forums/82289/topics/124875

If I figure I'm going to have a wet dream that night,(and it's always just a guess, or I'm horny) I just slip a sock on over my pe..s. it keeps things dry and it's still comfortable, and if you shoot off in the night just dry with the sock slip it off and your'e ready to sleep nude the rest of the night.

MB simply doesn't seem to exist for him, and WD's seem to be his normal and expected outlet.

There seems to be a correlation between sleeping nude and abstaining from MB. Shadow-15 said that he would not be sleeping nude if he MB'd, and many other abstainers seem to like to start sleeping that way. I think lack of letdown hormones and expression of body enjoyment and non-MB sexuality may account for it. Some guys say it helps them get more WD's.

We have seen that people are different in how easily they get WD's and how often they occur. But it seems quite normal for the WD rate to increase after they start, even if the first one took a long time. It also appears normal for WD's to become more intense and enjoyable with time.

I think in some way all of it is tied together. There may even be a 'chicken and egg' thing where causes and effects intermingle and blur a bit.

[georgiaboy]

A very helpful post and response; thanks guys!

[Skillz92]

A very helpful post and response; thanks guys!

no problem
I think I've noticed now that it seems to make sense to look at what regular wet dreamers do by reading their posts (who were previously masturbaters) in order to increase wet dream frequency. Like texanguy has said in his last post, they all disconnect from masturbation; they don't want it anymore, they have no interest in it, they hate the letdown hormones, they know it destroys their routes to a wet dream ect. they all look and hope for the next wet dream instead. Perhaps more people need to adapt this attitude, instead of trying to resist masturbation and still having strong urges for it, resulting going back to it often. I know very well how difficult it is to not masturbate when it's a common habbit, but it seems as if you can have alternative pleasure, such as enjoying the T-buzz and using it towards more constructive things like fitness.
The point I'm getting at is I believe that more people should try and copy the attitudes of regular wet dreamers who used to masturbate by reading their posts, as opposed to having the often unsuccessful attitude of "let's see how far I can go without masturbation" and falling back into such habits. if that makes sense? :S

I know all of what I said is helpful but I've pretty much recycled what Texanguy has said in a lot of his previous posts so the credit must go to him

[Skillz92]

Wet dreams are the better version of masterbation. And just like masterbation, the more you do it the better you get. The more WD's you have, the more you forget about your masterbating past, and the more free you are to do whatever you want in the "WD fantasy world", haha. But with masterbation there's a limit to how much you can do, i think. WD's are limited only by your mind.

another quote relating to wet dreams getting better. this time by an old member called unbelievable

[Andy-80]

awsome post and very helpful. Keep this good attitude up skillz I know you can reach over 112 days this time round and I know you can get more than 1 wet dream and I betcha that you'll keep on that wet dream path. Good luck pal

[Jamie]

Ah and you can add me to that list of wet dreams getting better over times, as I think I already told you in a chat recently. Though in my case it is simply the enjoyment of the dream which has become more pleasant. They have all been in their own way "intense" but sometimes intense can describe something negative like a nightmare.