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I have Excessive WD's (need help please)

Postby Vincent » Thu Sep 30, 2010 6:01 pm

im 19 and have been having wet dreams every night since i was like 15. in the past 4 years though i have tried finding ways of preventing them including meditation and sleeping positions and semi-awareness during sleep to prevent them while in the subconscious mind by disciplined and restricted thought but none have worked well so far and have become useless after a while.

it almost seems like the more you dont want them the more you have them and the more you want them you dont have any like most people here i mean some people have only 10 or so in 20 years? that is amazing to me since i have them every night unless i try prevent them somehow which always seems to fail. i have probably had over 1000 WD's in total by now.

anyway i finally started searching for info about wet dreams and i found this forum. first of all i dont enjoy them at all anymore since im so tired of them, i have too many, practically every single night and sometimes even 2-3 in 1 night but thats quite rare especially 3.

i cant even remember them AT ALL anymore, and i just get woken up whenever it happens. there seems to be no way to counter them. also, my WD's tend to happen in waking hours just as i wake up and they have been happening solely in waking hours lately so i get less sleep and i dont shower in the morning so it messes up my clothes all the time when i need to piss in the morning.

i also have no libido because of this excessive nocturnal emmission thing i have. i have MB'ed to see if it stops WD's but it doesn't do shit and i dont really enjoy MBing much either.

can anyone help? if i had a choice, i'd definitely choose to never have a WD ever again, seriously. i respect your opinions on WD's but i have been made to hate WD's and i still get them like crazy.

any advanced info will be greatly appreciated, thanks.
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Re: I have Excessive WD's (need help please)

Postby focus » Fri Oct 01, 2010 11:15 am

Wow, I don't think I've ever heard of anyone getting THAT many WD's so frequently before. Stupid question, but are you sure it's semen that is making your underwear wet in the morning? Is it alot, or just a drop or two?
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Re: I have Excessive WD's (need help please)

Postby Vincent » Fri Oct 01, 2010 2:04 pm

focus wrote:Wow, I don't think I've ever heard of anyone getting THAT many WD's so frequently before. Stupid question, but are you sure it's semen that is making your underwear wet in the morning? Is it alot, or just a drop or two?

yes im sure its semen, quite alot sometimes but it can vary.

trusexaholic wrote:That sounds like a very difficult problem. I had a somewhat similar problem with nighttime erections that woke me up almost every night. They woke me up almost every hour and, since I was abstaining from MB, I couldn't MB to make them go away. I tried all sorts of ways to control my penis during my sleep but they all made it worse. It was driving me crazy. Then I decided to let go of my concern and just accept them when they happened. Every time I was awoken by an erection, I would just accept it. I wouldn't get angry or try to figure out what to do about it. I was just use deep breathing until it went away. After doing that for a while, they pretty much stopped. It still happens from time to time but I don't panic any more and the problem goes away.

I realize that is easier to do with an erection than with a WD but I thought it might be helpful. In any case, if you haven't done so already you should definitely see your doctor to rule out any medical cause. And don't be embarrassed to discuss it with him. They see/hear all sorts of things and it's nothing to be ashamed of. Good luck.

i have nighttime erections also but they tend to not bother me, especially after i initially fall asleep. its hard to fall asleep at first with it though.

i think excessive WD's is a mental problem rather than physical because it doesnt feel like anything is wrong with me physically and my subconscious mind seems to be obsessed with sex or something lol. i also see no link to a physical illness that can cause excessive WD's. i was brought up very differently to most people with no sexual education whatsoever which might be another cause. i only found out about MB at 14 or 15 i think.

i was hoping someone would have extensive knowledge on this subject and know the root cause of WD's and their prevention because most explanations i've read about so far seem completely ridiculous, like excessive semen buildup.
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Re: I have Excessive WD's (need help please)

Postby Vincent » Sat Oct 02, 2010 1:49 am

trusexaholic wrote:
Vincent wrote:i think excessive WD's is a mental problem rather than physical because it doesnt feel like anything is wrong with me physically and my subconscious mind seems to be obsessed with sex or something lol. i also see no link to a physical illness that can cause excessive WD's. i was brought up very differently to most people with no sexual education whatsoever which might be another cause. i only found out about MB at 14 or 15 i think.

i was hoping someone would have extensive knowledge on this subject and know the root cause of WD's and their prevention because most explanations i've read about so far seem completely ridiculous, like excessive semen buildup.


As far as I have read, excess semen gets absorbed back into the body. I have never heard of any surefire way to prevent WD's. I agree that it may very well be a mental problem rather than physical. It's just usually good practice to rule out any physical possibilities. One that comes to mind is something to do with the prostate or Cowper's gland but I have no medical training so I have no idea. I can, however, offer some suggestions on the mental side.

You mentioned that you might subconsciously be obsessed with sex. That is a real possibility - I know I was. It would be hard for me to say if that's your problem without knowing you better. Not sure I can offer any more help but let me know if you want to chat about it.

any suggestions are welcome. im not going to get angry at anything i happen to disagree with, so let me know any theories or possibilities you may have about my problem. im concerned with solving this problem in any way i can.
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Re: I have Excessive WD's (need help please)

Postby GreyBeard » Sat Oct 02, 2010 3:57 am

There are some medicines which have as a side effect the delaying of orgasms and ejaculation, and sometimes preventing them all together. An example is Paroxetine which is a Selective Serotonin Reuptake Inhibitor ( a well known drug in this class is Prozac). It would be interesting to find out what effect such drugs have on the frequency of wet dreams.
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Re: I have Excessive WD's (need help please)

Postby Vincent » Sat Oct 02, 2010 4:26 am

GreyBeard wrote:There are some medicines which have as a side effect the delaying of orgasms and ejaculation, and sometimes preventing them all together. An example is Paroxetine which is a Selective Serotonin Reuptake Inhibitor ( a well known drug in this class is Prozac). It would be interesting to find out what effect such drugs have on the frequency of wet dreams.

im not really into medicine but yeah that would be interesting to know, but alot of people i have heard about who took prozac went insane and killed themself. it has some serious side effects.
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Re: I have Excessive WD's (need help please)

Postby crawlsinshadows » Sat Oct 02, 2010 6:01 am

I dont like to say this but perhaps surgery. Im aware they can cut things out that might make most of the discharge (I wont say what). That could make your dreams dry but I have no clue if it would fix the problem as in spasms, just rid the mess.

All I know fur sure is that 75% of all human problems can usually be cured by attuning ones self to their ancesteral linkage. We live on what we have grown accustomed to over generations, defy that and there will be a backfire.
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Re: I have Excessive WD's (need help please)

Postby Vincent » Sat Oct 02, 2010 2:09 pm

im not gona be considering surgery lol. anyway thanks for the second tip, though i dont really know what ancestral linkage is.
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Re: I have Excessive WD's (need help please)

Postby Ronald » Sat Oct 02, 2010 2:41 pm

Yes I was taking Paroxetine, and it totally stopped my wet dreams, which was why I was glad to get off of it. But yes, it helps to stop them.
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Re: I have Excessive WD's (need help please)

Postby Vincent » Sun Oct 03, 2010 5:30 am

i have concluded that the best way to fix my problem is to deal with it myself. i have read all the information pages on this site.

thanks for reading my post.
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Re: I have Excessive WD's (need help please)

Postby hachiroku » Wed Oct 20, 2010 12:08 am

Vincent wrote:i have concluded that the best way to fix my problem is to deal with it myself. i have read all the information pages on this site.

thanks for reading my post.


well vin, i also have had very similar problems to you,i used to get them up to 4/5 times a night. every night. since i was about 15 as well im 28 now,
even after sex id still have this problem.

some tips...

dont sleep in heavy blankets, i found that if you keep you your nuts cool they will sub sidefor a few nights at a time and if your brave enough dont sleep in any under ware, after 10 years i have tought myself to wake up before it happenes by shaking your head in your sleep, and if its too late grab the base of your mickey under your nuts very tight the cum will not come out(parden the pun)

your the first person ive found with the similar problem to mine
hopes this helps... :D
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