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Are wet dreams caused by being abused?

Postby BigDreamer » Tue Sep 21, 2010 1:04 pm

I am considering the possibility that wet dreams are directly related to stress, oppression and suppressed/denied memories of humiliation and child abuse. I am satisfied that at least some contribution is made by these factors.

Any honest and insightful people able to contribute their relation between WD's and these factors?
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Re: Are wet dreams caused by being abused?

Postby BigDreamer » Sat Oct 30, 2010 10:58 pm

Wel, it looks like you are all too pathetic to face this issue.
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Re: Are wet dreams caused by being abused?

Postby Riakath » Thu Nov 04, 2010 5:10 am

I'll gladly reply. Hmm not sure what your saying. But I'll tell you my first wet dream if that helps you. It was more of what I call a WN or wet nightmare. I was raped by a ventriloquist dummy. I was 15(currently 20) at the time and had a fear of the Child's play series(currently embraced). I thought when my little brother got it the day he had it, was i better not have a nightmare of this, and that's what happened. Well it wasn't the best moment in my life. i mean i was told that guys dream of girls,sex, and these things that you desire, and I get my worst fear come true. What a scarring cruel sick joke of puberty. Well, looking back it was scary but now I learned to embrace your fear just try not to become it.
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Re: Are wet dreams caused by being abused?

Postby Oldwise_Version_Two » Wed Nov 10, 2010 6:54 pm

If it has any benefit to you although I have masturbated quite a lot my first wet dream at 16 contained a scene where I was under a similar or same storyline to Riaketh although nothing has ever happened like that, and definately not involving Chucky!

But to my knowledge nothing ever happened in real life, I think making the comparision is quite contraversial and I think BigDreamer maybe looking into things way too much!
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Re: Are wet dreams caused by being abused?

Postby Riakath » Thu Nov 11, 2010 6:03 am

Oldwise_Version_Two wrote:If it has any benefit to you although I have masturbated quite a lot my first wet dream at 16 contained a scene where I was under a similar or same storyline to Riaketh although nothing has ever happened like that, and definately not involving Chucky!

But to my knowledge nothing ever happened in real life, I think making the comparision is quite contraversial and I think BigDreamer maybe looking into things way too much!


True i did say i was afraid of the Child's Play series/Chucky, but it was literally a ventriloquist dummy named Charlie that raped me in my WN not Chucky.
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Re: Are wet dreams caused by being abused?

Postby ExternalMidnight » Sat Nov 13, 2010 9:27 am

I don't think they are caused by that, no. I think that wet dreams are more common than abuse, therefore abuse is unlikely the main cause of wet dreams.

Now, if you're asking the similar, but different question: Does abuse bring about wet dreams, then I really don't know. However, given that it can be more difficult for someone with sexual abuse in their past to get aroused or interested in sex, I presume it's also less harder for them to have a wet dream*.

*With wet dream meaning coinciding with nocturnal emission, not just a dream with sexual content.
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