I keep having spontaneous ejaculation (SE) and dry orgams

[Buddy]

I have not MB in 28 days! This is an all time record me. However, I have had three spontaneouse ejaculations. The first two were right after working out after I urinated and the third time was after going to the beach and urinating. The emission is yellow and clumpy. I tend to feel heaviness in my balls and sometimes tingly. At times, I have to pull over while driving because I feel the sensation of an orgasm and I start moving my torso because it feels fo good. It even happend in the shower. I orgasmed (with all the bells and whistles.. eye rolling, screaming, spasms and everything but did not get an ejaculation. Is this normal? Has anyone else experience this out there?

[shadow_flare]

Rather the predicament you got there man. I know a few people on this site who would be envious of that... but to be honest, I never heard of anything in terms of se like that.

[Buddy]

Its a great feeling to have these SEs. Today, I felt some semen moving through my tubes in my balls and it felt fantastic. I just opened my legs and enjoyed it. The tingly sensation is great. Today is day 29 without MB. I really hoping to have a WD soon b/c I'm about to explode.

[georgiaboy]

Yeah I find that spreading my legs allows maximum freedom for various sensations downstairs. 29 days is great, man! Hope you get your WD soon.

[Buddy]

Thanks man! The hardest stage for me was the first 2 weeks. Now I dont see myself MBing anymore. Its just driving me crazy all these feelings of just grabing the first girl I find in the street and doing her. lol

[Buddy]

Its been 33 days without any NE. Yesterday, I had leakage when I did #2 on the toilet. Not a lot thank God! but semen did come out and accumulated on the toilet. Does anyone know if this will prolong my chances of detting a WD soon?

[shadow_flare]

Yeah, leaking sometimes happens... It can slightly reduce your chances depending on how often it occurs.

Try to make sure your stool is easy passing and that you are not erect too often. That will reduce the leaking issue.

[dgeunuch]

Yeah, that's a good sign. You might try giving your self a suggestion before your go to sleep "i am going to have a wet dream tonight" and visualize your self cumming. Don't pound the idea into your head or keep repeating it, just make it a direct statement to yourself before you go to bed. Works for me.

[Buddy]

There does not seem to be a definite method of obtaining a WD faster is it? Some people say mental edge, some say to say to themselves "I will have a WD tonight" and others say it will happen when you least think about it. If the last one is correct then we should not be on this forum as this forum makes us think more about it. I've done the first two methods with no success. I'm going to forget about having a WD and stay off this forum for a while without MB to see what happends.

[dgeunuch]

I was kinda thinking that too Buddy, seems obsessive to even be on this forum, thinking about out it all the time (because no one can give you a magic bullet or word or image or technique to make it happen tonight), but I've had some great success on my WD program, and i want to share that and help others to achieve it. I thought I was really whacked even trying to have a WD at 45 but now that i'm having them regularly and have found this forum, I know others can do it. Its a fact and a natural biological process built into all of us (even girls). You just have to re-route your brain to do this, which is hard. Make your brain remember how to do this, and convince your brain that you are not going to give in -- which can be a titanic struggle at first. Once your mind gets it, its a lot easier.

I'm thinking what's important here (and yes I'm violating this idea) is to push back all conscious thoughts of sex, MB, ejaculation, etc., to your subconscious mind (called "sublimation"). But when you do that you'll see it comes out in all kinds of wacky behaviors, so be careful. Keep pushing it in the back of your mind. It really takes some "mind over matter" concentration do get started on this but is much easier later. Its still hard for me, and thought i was going nuts at first, I was so excited and aroused all the time. Now its far easier, seems my body keeps me from getting to horny now via WD. Sigmund Freud used to say that all bad behaviors are caused by suppressing the desire to have sex, but I disagree wholeheartedly -- there is a natural process you can tap in to that will relieve you on a regular basis in a wondrous way. I used to feel guilty and depressed after MB and now I feel proud and have self-esteem.

So seems that getting started is the hardest part. Your mind is so programmed that you will relieve yourself via MB or Sex at first. Its almost as if there's a battle between your subconscious and conscious mind to see who can win -- subconscious is the WD, conscious is the MB. So keep working on it, the results are worth it. If I can do at 45, anyone can. You can win this.

[Buddy]

So here I am on day 60 without any success of WDs. I don't even desire MB anymore. I'm still having SEs like every 3-5 days. Is there anyway I can avoid these SEs and/or turn them in WDs? What am I doing wrong?

[crawlsinshadows]

There does not seem to be a definite method of obtaining a WD faster is it? Some people say mental edge, some say to say to themselves "I will have a WD tonight" and others say it will happen when you least think about it. If the last one is correct then we should not be on this forum as this forum makes us think more about it. I've done the first two methods with no success. I'm going to forget about having a WD and stay off this forum for a while without MB to see what happends.

Im not sure about others but most of the time I find mental edging can lead to SE if you go over the top or it makes it hard to sleep

[thiago19]

Once i was in the bus, and i dont know why, maybe b/c of its vibrations, i became erect and started feeling something really good in my prostate going trough my penis.. i wonder if i hadnt left the bus that moment, i'd have had an amazing orgasm in public, and that'd be really embarassing.
Can you describe these SE's you usually have every week? Are they still followed by dry orgasms?

[Buddy]

The SEs are usually after exercise, bowl movements and most of the time after urinating. They feels good when I SE but I wouldnt say its an orgams. The dry orgasm (DO) are usually after urinating on non SE days. I feel like Im gonna burst but I dont and just have a DO. I don't SE when I have a DO.

But I ejaculated last night through sex so this will set me back. The load was extremely large, and the orgasm was both plesurable and painful in a good way.

[Buddy]

LOL. ok. thanks.

[focus]

the orgasm was both plesurable and painful in a good way.

I have found the sng a condom and was wondering if that had something to do with it. I tried to leave enough airspace at the tip for what I figured would be a large load. That helped a little but it was still somewhat painful. I am thinking of switching to a different kind of condom that is not form-fitting, such as the Trojan Magnum .Does anyone have any experience with this kind of condom?

Yes, I do. The Magnum works great for exactly what you're talking about. The pain while ejaculating isn't so much from lack of space in the tip for the cum, but more from the condom being too tight, and restricting the urethra along the underside. I find the Magnum gives just enough more room to prevent the restriction on the urethra, and makes cumming in the condom more comfortable and pleasurable. Just make sure the Magnum isn't too loose on your penis, or it might slip off during sex. They say its for larger penises, but it should fit Ok for average size too - its only a little bigger than most condoms.

[CoHo]

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I have a problem with the MB video, because carried to its logical conclusion, having a wet dream, SE, NE (and probably just generating pre-cum) makes one unclean. This is a crock, because these are natural bodily functions. Is it a sin to have a bowel movement. Using their logic - it is. People that CHOOSE to AB are to be commended, those who chose NOT to AB, should not be condemned. Didnt we learn anything from the message Jesus gave to those wanting to stone the woman taken in adultery (?) - and BTW what about the guy she was screwing, did he get off scott free!?

And another point, what makes these three women experts about male sexuality. They have no credibility with me. I would rather go with what Dr James Dobson has said about masturbation. He is a Christian and a Doctor - and he says, not a big deal!!!!!

A suggestion, start over with a credible panel and do a program with a New Testament perspective, because we are not under the Law. If there were enough scripture in the whole bible to have a discussion on MB, believe me, it would have been done thousands of years ago, and there would be no ambiguity about it today!

[focus]

Well, focus, I finally had a chance to see if what you said was true. And was it ever! I don't know whether it was due to the lack of pain at the time of orgasm or something about the condom itself (or maybe just the length of my AB) but it was one of the best orgasms of my life!

I'm glad to hear it!

I'm throwing all my other condoms away and will never buy anything else.

LOL - well, there is another condom you may be interested in if you liked the Magnum. It's called the Trojan Ecstacy. It's a much looser fit, especially at the top, and it's actually designed to move around your penis, rather than stay snuggly attached to it. It kind of looks strange too, as there is no reservoir tip (no need for it because there is so much room for the cum anyway). I'm not sure I like them though, because its so different from regular condoms - it's almost like wearing a large balloon or something. It does feel better, but one of them broke during sex, and I ended up cumming inside my gf because I didn't know it had broken. With some luck and the "Plan B" pill, she didn't get pregnant. I think it broke because my gf got dry, and there was too much friction - use lube, and it shouldn't be a problem. Still, I'm nervous about using another Ecstacy condom after that episode. BTW, they do make the Ecstacy in Magnum size too, although I haven't tried it. Oh, and they also have a Magnum XL, but that condom is HUGE - I wouldn't recommend that one unless you have a John Holmes style porn star penis of at least a 6.5" or 7"+ girth, because it will slip off otherwise.

You can check them out here: http://www.trojancondoms.com

I think the way that they compensate for the larger size is by providing a tighter fit at the base. I had a little bit of trouble putting in on (almost made me cum putting it on, it was so tight),

No, the base of the Magnum is a bit larger than regular condoms. I've actually measured the diameter of both, and the Magnum is definitely larger at the base, although only by about 10-15%.

The interesting thing I've found is there is a large variation in size of regular condoms, even within the same brand. For example, the Trojan Twisted Pleasure regular size condom is much larger than the Trojan Shared Pleasure regular size condom. Don't know why, but they definitely are.