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I don't know if there is any similar post (too lazy to search >.<). So, at what age did you first play with yourself? Did you discover it by yourself or did some friend introduce it to you?
As far as my memory can tell, I think I was about 6 or 7 years, at that age there was still no orgasm, just simple penis play. I guess my first orgasm was when I was 9 or 10 yrs old, it was still a dry orgasm. Regarding the question whether it was introduced or not, I was not introduced, just found it out by myself.

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I started at 10. My best friend introduced me, we were sitting on my porch and he kept talking about this thing called masturbation and how great it was, I didn't know what it was but he said it was when you play with your penis and it gets hard and when you're old enough white stuff called sperm comes out, but overall that it felt great to do. So I don't remember all too well when I tried it in private but I know I did at least, because I have masturbated continuously since age 10. Eventhough I couldn't ejaculate anything for 1-2 more years I still masturbated, the whole process felt great until it came time for orgasm then it hurt because my body was having forceful dry contractions as there was nothing to spit out. Because I started MBing so early, this is why I've never had a WD before.

Puberty, and I discovered it on my own.

Man, I was like 8 years old. I have older brothers (9 & 10 years older) and so they were horny high schoolers then, and unfortunately I was exposed to their porn mags as a kid, being the nosey younger brother that I was. My earliest memory of learning to masturbate specifically though was from a National Lampoon magazine that talked about it in this cartoon. I think I tried it from that, and got hooked pretty early on. I remember my friend and I would masturbate at the same time sometimes, like when I would stay at his house, and we were probably in 5th grade or so. Yeah, so I definitely started before I could ejaculate. My experience though was different than Blue's; it didn't hurt when I came, a little bit of I guess pre-cum would come out, I still remember it. It wasn't until I was 13 that I had my first real ejaculation.

I really wish I wasn't exposed to all of that stuff that early, though. And that I hadn't started to masturbate so much, because it became very habitual to me bec I would do it when I was feeling low, like if I was picked on in school. Not the best way to handle your problems. And it would have been good to be more "innocent" of sexual stuff until an older age, I believe. It's good for kids to get a basic sex ed, but not to the point of watching porn and reading their pervy articles and stuff. Not what a kid needs to be exposed to.

I had just recently turned 11. I think it was the summer between fifth and sixth grade. I had heard about MB but had no concept of the actual mechanics behind it. I had also started getting boners and kind of sorts knew it meant I was growing up but didn't understand I could actually do anything with them!

Anyhow, I was hanging out with a friend about the same age and his brother who was maybe 1 or 2 years older. They talked about jacking off and how if you rubbed your dick with your fist long enough sperm would come out. I asked why you would want to and they said it felt good. Of course I decided to see for myself when I got home. I remember it taking a long time and thinking about giving up a few times but then it happened. I must have been physically able to ejaculate for a while because I remember being suprised by the amount that came out and wasn't prepared for it to shoot out like it did. Anyhow, I quickly became an expert at it. It wasn't until about 3 years later until I has my first WD and I wonder how many more I would have had if I didn't learn to MB first.

I was 10 when I began playing with my things. At first it wasn't big deal, no orgasm or sperm. I would just get nude at night in the bed and I would touch my penis and testicles, my penis would only get hard. At that time I was more concerned with my "family jewels" than with my dick, I would pass the night touching my balls.

When I was 12-13, I started noticing that my friends talked of "of saying OK to the sky", but I didn't comprehend, although I knew it was something sexual. Then a friend of my age was taking a sex ed class and asked me if Mb was a sin. I asked what mb was, and he told me it happened when you touched your penis and testicles until semen comes out. He told me exactly that.

At 14, I was kind of pissed off at how people were so obsessed with sex, obviously I didn't knew sex ended in orgasm and pleasure. I thought that sex was putting the penis in the vagina and that semen would flow naturally. An I thought of ejaculation as urinating milk (since in sex ed it's described as "a milky white fluid"). One day a friend was saying that one should keep a little of semen when jacking off and put it in the freezer in case you became sterile. This stuck in my mind and when I got home I was certain I would discover why people loved sex so much. I sat on the toilet and started pumping, initially nothing happened, then it started feeling good, better, better, like tickle, I tried to stop, but it was too good, I continued until sperm came out like a rocket. After that I did it everyday and stopped when my foreskin broke while Mbing. Then I started again. And again.

I was about 10 turning 11 when I had a friend who was obsessed with sex and started talking all the time about ejaculation. We experimented touching, but didn't have the MB technique. I guess this got me started on liking to touch myself. At 13 one day after school I was cleaning up my room and found an old pair of briefs I had when I was 10. Fir some reason I was fascinated with the fly hole and since I never used it in those days I started to wonder what it would feel like. That lead to me pulling out my then erect dick and sticking it through the hole a few times... that lead to me discovering MB. I then got very addicted to it. However, unlike most it didn't seem to cut down my WD. At 13 I also started having isolated WD and for 14-16 I had at least 2 WD per week on top of daily or multiple daily MB.

What did your orgasms feel like when you were 10-11, apart from the pain of the contractions that you've just described? From the sound of your description, it was better before you dry-'ejaculated' and had your contractions. Would your penis remain hard at this point? B/c if someone was to ejaculate with a peak-orgasm [and contractions come with that,] there would be a release of prolactin, which causes the penis to become flaccid. How did your sexual response cycle (SRC) continue after a dry-'ejaculation' -how did your SRC differ (apart from semen being expelled?) I'm asking, to try to find out what the presence of semen to ejaculate, and ejaculating it, means as a difference. It could be that the body reacts with only the lack of semen to physically ejaculate, nothing else. OTOH this may then go on to cause no prolactin to be released, as an example - this is what I'm wondering. If this is the case, does this mean that a physical (e.g. seminal) release causes hormonal release?

Thanks for reading.

Well man they did feel better before my dry ejaculations. I can't quite remember if my dick stayed hard after but I know at some point it went down, I'm sure it went down soon after the dry orgasm. Well I think of it as this way, some adult dudes have dry ejacs from time to time, and their dircks go down right after, I imagine mine happened in the same manner in the mechanics and all of it.

The earliest that I remember having orgasms was when I was about 8 (dry, of course). I wasn't masturbating with my hand or anything, instead I'd have the dry orgasms when I lied down on my stomach and pretty much put all my weight on my penis. It felt amazing, like a really intense, pulsating wave of good feeling throughout my body. I didn't know at the time that they were orgasms, but I'd realize later on that I had the same feelings when I ejaculated as I did when I had the dry orgasms. I first ejaculated when I was 12, and all I remember is that the semen was yellowish for the first few ejaculations (meaning that I was able to cum for a while before I actually did, right?). I had known about masturbation for a while, since I was about 10 or 11. My attempts at actual masturbation (with my hand) at that age were futile as my penis was too sensitive for me to actually do anything for more than a few seconds. I really looked forward to being able to ejaculate because I thought that it would be the most amazing thing in the world, and that's exactly what it was and still is (although I'm seeing if WDs will be any better since I haven't had one yet... I'm pretty curious as to what it's like.)

Mine first experience was around 8 or 9 year. I didn't play with penis or masturbate right away, I just remember I had strong urge to fuck
So there was a big barbie doll in my home and you can just guess what I have done to her
After that came magazines like playboy and then came playing with penis, of course with dry orgasams. After them came divx than DSL, rest is history.
I don't even recall having a WD, maybe one, cause I masturbated all this years.

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I discovered MB around 8-9 years old, kinda by accident also. I was bored one night before going to bed and I decided to play around with my foreskin (kudos to my parents for leaving me intact since birth) I was moving my foreskin up and down my penis with two fingers, one finger on each side. That sensation for a 8 years old was too much to handle. I would get hard almost instantly. Here's the difficult part. I couldn't move my foreskin freely when my penis was fully hard. To overcame this, I had to wait a while and let my penis became soft and I would start the movement again. I could continue this for 5-6 times before hitting climax.

Of course, there was no cum coming out of my penis at 9. I kept MB-ing like this for about another 2-3 years. By 11 or so, I would have precum oozing out from the tip of my penis during MB. My first real ejaculation happened at around 13.

I stopped MB-ing like this after 13 or so and switched to a more standard hand grabbing method after a buddy of mine showing that to me over a summer camp.

I first learned about masturbation at a sleep-over birthday party when I was twelve. My friend and I wanted to compare our members and he ended up showing me how to masturbate (by doing it on me!)

i discovered when i was 12 years old, right after i got my 1st wet dream. I knew the cum came out from my dick, and so while bathing, started stroking my dick, and i was shocked when it became larger and my hand wasn't able to grab my whole dick at that time.

i continued stroking until, my whole body felt something tinglish, and soon spasms of orgasm came to me, and i started shooting loads of cum.

from then, i have been masturbating. But i'm determined to quit it completely in 2010.

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[color=#0000FF]Schoolboy talk was all about "tossing off". That prompted me to try it when aged 11-12, achieving dry orgasms after much effort. Suppose I got tired of that, but I was still fascinated by signs of advancing puberty...sparse pubes...balls down...peniis larger...all the usual stuff, and was doing no more than sitting on lav seat playing with myself, 14 by this time. Carelessly forgot to bolt door and got a real scare when it opened and my older brother walked in. He was past 15. To cut the story short, he bolted the door and did it for me there and then. I think it took about 10 minutes before I ejaculated. Some of it hit him, the rest went on my belly. I didn't know what was happening, just that it felt like nothing else. I asked him some questions and that was how I heard several new words like 'come' & 'spunk'. After that, I was really into masturbation for a couple of years. That's it.

It's kinda cool to have the older brother to give you pointers and stuffs. However, I think in your case, he basically gave you a handjob and that was a bit weird.

I've started at 10. And from that time I am doing that periodically!

Hi there, Uteuss, read your comment, and just need to add a few thoughts to clear this up.

Mebbe a bit weird, like you wrote, but Rick (my brother) & me were always good friends after we got over that stage of fighting with each other. If you've got brothers, you know what I mean about the fighting, and our folks gave both of us a hard time when we were caught fighting.

When Rick walked in on me like that, I got a bad scare. After that, he offered to do that, and I wanted him to do it. It wasn't like he forced me, and he took a lot of care, asking me if I was OK, and did I want him to stop. Of course I didn't want him to stop. Yes, you could say just a hand job, but no way was it a bad experience and I think of it as something he did for me not to me. I was kind of grateful, and I said something like that when he was wiping some of that off me. He laughed.

Wow JohnJo that's great story. You are very lucky to have brother like that! I envy you. To me that is completely natural, it's not just about wacking, it's about trust and connection, in this case it's strong bond expelled via sexuality and I don't think it weird.

I must have been about 10 or 11 when I discovered it. I will never forget it though, I was in the bathroom hiding while playing 'hide-and-go-seek' with my sister. I was rocking back and forth laughing because I knew she would never catch me. Thank goodness she didn't hahaha! Well, I remember it started feeling really good so I forgot about the game and kept rocking back and forth in the same position until I had a dry orgasm, it was great. I started ejaculating at 12

I was pre-school - about 6 years old and my brother just older than me (I'm the youngest of 4) took me with him once when he and his friends went swimming. We lived on the edge of the town and the swimming was in a dam on a farm about 30 minutes walk / 5 minutes cycling distance. We went to the dam on our bicycles and I played under the trees while the big boys swam butt naked for a while, when one of brother's friends naturally suggested, "kom ons trek draad!" which is translated, "let's ----insert any euphimism for MB in here----!" (Literally it means, let's pull the wire!).

Of course I had to ask what's that, and my brother responded by showing me - in fact, by doing it to me. My little dick went rock hard, so much so that it hurt, and I asked him to stop, which he did, but the erection stayed until I got home half an hour later. He did tell me though that it's supposed to feel really really good, and this got me going, and I eventually MB'ed daily, even more than once a day at times. A few years later, but still before I had wet orgasms, I remember my mom waiting in the car for me once, and I decided a quick MB in my room was OK while she waited to take me to school. And then I did it a second time to dry orgasm while she blared the car's hooter!

It took me many years before I had my first WD - I was 19 or so, and only after a longish period (a few weeks) of abstinence.

When I was about five or six years old, I noticed that while out playing I would occasionally get a "nice feeling" there, and I would stop and enjoy it. Little did I think that there would be any physical effect upon me, but yes, inevitably it happened that this came upon me while I was on the toilet, and that's how I discovered my erections and was fascinated by them, mainly because I couldn't control them directly.

Being the scientific type, naturally I wondered, what did bring them on. Over the next couple of years I gradually narrowed it down to what I happened to be thinking about or imagining. "It likes me to think about it" was my first conclusion, but that was too restrictive, and it turned out that various trains of thought would bring it on, all of which (looking back from many years later) could be grouped under the heading "body pleasure" - enjoying my own body and admiring other people's. I had tried playing with it directly; that had little effect as far as erections were concerned, but it felt nice in its own way and I was soon hooked. No hint of ejaculation or even contractions at that age (8 or 9 by then).

So the matter remained until the age of about 12, when "whiskers" had started growing around it, that suddenly the contractions began while I was playing with it. I let go, the contractions continued and next thing I knew it was stuck to the bedclothes. Panic! For a while I left off playing with it, but I would still get these mysterious contractions from time to time, and what I later recognised as an immature form of semen (very thick and slightly yellow in colour) would ooze out. At some point a reassuring talk from my father assured me that all this was normal, I was not to worry about it. I soon began to experience - and enjoy - proper WD's but after successfully MB'ing a few times, by age 15 I was unfortunately hooked on that too.

Currently trying yet another abstention through Lent, having lapsed back on previous occasions. No WD yet but I've been highly aroused several times over the last two weeks, on one occasion to the point of having (dry) contractions.


Update 28/2/10: Thinking about what I wrote above, and reminiscing on how things were when I was a kid, was rewarded with a most satisfying SE last night. So there's life in the old equipment yet, and yes it still likes me to think about it!

Update 1/3/10: The return of another long-lost pleasure - erection while shaving.

Wow that is young, but I have a buddy on another site that learned at 5.

Hm, well I used to play with myself a lot when I was younger... playing with my loose skin around 8,9 and 10... but I didn't figure out masturbation until I was 14... basically learned it on my own without help. Didn't have a dry orgasm my first time as I was producing semen when I first started.

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I really don't remember exactly when I first discovered masturbation. Mainly because, like someone else up thread, it just kinda happened one day. Must have been about 8 years old... I was lying face down on the bed and kept 'bouncing' around a bit and all of a sudden I got this tickly sensation down below that I really liked.

What I do remember well was that after this point my life turned into a quest to try to repeat that experience. As it happened lying face down in bed, that was the only way I tried to do it again. Sometimes I could do it, sometimes not. It took me a few months after that to work out it had something to do with my penis, and something to do with the pressure I put on it.

I failed more often than I succeeded. I would even physically pull myself up and down the bed using the little bars on the headboard! Little did I know at the time that the difference was probably between me being hard or not. But back then, I had no conscious control over it.

It would take another year or so before I could do it every time without fail. I don't actually remember "getting hard", but I assume I was, and it happened automatically while I thrusted myself against whatever I was lying on. I guess I didn't notice the feeling of "hardness" amongst the pressure I was putting on myself.

It was at least another year, maybe by the age of 10, before I started noticing myself getting erections in other circumstances. From there I figured out the rest, playing with myself by squeezing the tip of my penis until it felt good.

The weirdest part to me, as someone who didn't ever have a chat with his parents, or any proper sex-ed, was when one night, must have been about 11, I was doing this in bed and this horrible sticky stuff came out. I honestly thought I'd broken something!

It's my experience, learning about masturbation in the wrong way (I could have damaged something), and then the shock of what happened to me (I seriously thought I had AIDS or something) that makes me think we need to be more open about sexuality and education as a culture.

But what the right age to do it is I really don't know.

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This is basically exactly my experience as well, and I've never had WD either because of it. The only difference is even when I was young it still never hurt when I had dry orgasms...

it had to be about 1961, Like a goodmany boys it was usually with a friend...at the time I was 13 and our neighbor was 12.
we used to change into our swim suits to go swimming..I had just begun developing 'peach fuzz' in my pubic area and underarms..He was 12 and had a full bush and under arm hair..anyway while changing he siad watch this and he started masturbating in front of me..All i remember is he started shooting his white stuff all over the basement floor. I was intrigued by what it was..then during that summer, we would go into the woods and i would drop my trousers and he would masturbate on the crack of my ass. the follwoing summer of 1962 he came over and we slept outside in sleeping bags..well one thing led to another and we started masturbating each other..All of a sudden I felt this most pleasurable sensation coming from my groin area..the pleasure was so intense i wanted him to stop..I reached under to grab his hand which was in my underwear. but it was too late..as i removed my hand I felt a thick wetness in my jockies..i was scared and went into the house to the bathroom..I turned on the light and dropped them and noticed they were stainned and soaked with the same white fluid i had seen coming from his dick...from then on as a typical teen male i was inducing these pleasure sendtions two sometimes three times a day. I.ve been married for 35 years and I still find pleasure not only in vaginal sex but masturbtionalry sex...I have a male neighbor in his 50's who comes down on occassion and we will drop our trousers and masturbate each other to porn...which we enjoy..

interesting.... to think that you are your friend are actually still doing it together at this age. Your friendship must be very valuable.

'grats....

Scorkin21

I remeber someone told me about just using your hands then some friends said you can use objects to get you off.
So I looked around my house one day and I found my sisters old stripper 6'' high heels.So I put my cock in them and just start to MB, it felt amazing.
Since then i've never used my hands for it.

When I was 12 I used to play with myself in the shower. One day I put a lot of soap on my dick and started rubbing it and eventually had an orgasm. After that I masturbated frequently. My orgasms were dry for the first couple months until one day one drop came out. New masturbation sessions would all have more drops of semen until I eventually reached my normal amount.