Wet Dream Forum

Well, I'm happy to report that I finally got a WD. This was probably my 4th attempt at abstaining since late last year. So it made me wonder, did you get a WD on your first attempt or did it take multiple attempts at abstaining before you got your WD? If it took multiple attemps, let us know the combined number of days involved in the attempts.

I'd estimate between my attempts, I abstained a total of about 130 days before getting the WD.

I started off as far back as 2000 abstaining from MB now and again, with no particular goal of having a WD. I remember learning in sex education that some people get WDs as they go through puberty. I never had one and didn't think about WDs at all. I had no desire to have one since the subject of WDs didn't enter my thoughts. I had no rational or faith based reason to abstain from MB, I had an intuitive desire to stop for a while. And then I'd MB again if I felt like it, the goal of WDs wasn't in my mind. What I've learnt/remembered is intuition comes before, and is important, unlike faith and reason. I would abstain for long periods and the longest was for more than one year. I'm on another period now. I don't plan to MB in the foreseeable future, or ever again, however in one or two year's time my intuition may guide me to MB again; I'll follow my soul's desire.

My first WD (that I can remember) in about 2007 (or 2006 - I can't remember exactly) came as a surprise. I found this forum by chance in 2007 and joined right away. Like most things, in my opinion, it's better to not take life so seriously, and follow your intuition. I didn't set out with a plan to not MB for a period of time in order to get WDs, to get to where I am today. I arrived at this point through following my intuition, life has led me to where I unconsciously want to be at this 'time.'