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 Post subject: Re: PlainsMustang's WD Log
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ENTRY #17
Date of Entry: Tuesday, July 29, 2008 10:30am
Date of WD: About 5am, same day
Days since Last WD: 4
Mood the Day Before: Relaxed; tired
Sleepwear: Nude

This dream was unusual in that there was a lot of normal dreaming before the “wet” part. After a while of various and unrelated things happening, I was in a car going to a gas station. I got there and it was closed, and everyone was surprised because they were supposed to be open. So I went home, and a bunch of cars started following me there. About ten or so cars in all parked along the road right in front of my house, and people started getting out. I suddenly realized that it was almost entirely beautiful, college-aged women getting out of the vehicles. The two who got out of the car next to me were wearing nothing but a t-shirt and skimpy underwear. The one, who had long blonde hair and was wearing a white t-shirt and black bikini-briefs, suddenly started doing stretching or exercises or something. She was laying down, bending over backwards, and other things, and she was having trouble keeping her underwear covering her genitals, which were frequently flashing at me. I was extremely horny at this point and could feel that my penis was rock hard. I’m not sure what happened in the next 10 seconds, but I suddenly felt the “point of no return” and started ejaculating. The first pulse woke me and I was fully awake for the next 3-4. Probably an 8.5-9 on the pleasure scale. I find it interesting that I don’t remember what I was dreaming when I had the orgasm. I was on my back when I came.

(No pics because I have printed sheets on and you can't see the stain at all.)

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 Post subject: Re: PlainsMustang's WD Log
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Congratulations on another WD! Is there anything that you are doing differently that may account for the higher WD rate? I'm starting to wonder if there may be a correlation between regular exercise and a high WD rate. Shadow-15 claimed to exercise every day, at least in part to get WD's. Our new member _FrankieD_, who got his first WD after abstaining for 7 days, exercises every day and watches his diet. I know that at times you were exercising regularly.

Do you see a correlation between your exercise frequency or intensity and WD's? Do you see a correlation with diet or even body fat percentage and your WD rate?


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PostPosted: Wed Jul 30, 2008 6:18 pm 
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Congrats PlainsMustang! :) I guess you're back on track at this point. Only 5 days left till the dreaded 34 day mark though. :shock: lol. Good luck and stay strong!

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damn... I am insanely jealous!

I am desperate enough to consider starting exercising .. and that's saying a lot!


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ENTRY #18

Date of Entry: Tuesday, August 5, 2008 10:15am
Date of WD: Sunday, August 3; about 5am
Days since Last WD: 5
Mood the Day Before: Restive; calm
Sleepwear: Nude

Not much to report, as I don’t remember the dream or orgasm. Had a decent amount of ejaculate, which is to be expected being the 5th day since my last. I was in my “usual position” of half-way between my right side and stomach.


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ENTRY #19

Date of Entry: Tuesday, August 5, 2008 10:30am
Date of WD: Monday, August 4; about 5:30am
Days since Last WD: 1
Mood the Day Before: Stressed; tired
Sleepwear: Nude

I really believe this one was stress-induced. I was very stressed out Sunday afternoon, and went to bed looking forward to a new day to start over again. It was a “miniWD,” if I can coin a term. I don’t remember the dream or the orgasm. I woke up about 6am with a quarter-sized spot of cum on the sheets beneath me (I was on my stomach). Felt a very intense t-buzz all day, and I was very restless and irritable. I should have done my workout to release some energy, but I had to go to town before work so I didn’t have time, and as a result I was really “wired” all day.

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ENTRY #20

Date of Entry: Tuesday, August 5, 2008 10:40am
Date of WD: Same day, 8am
Days since Last WD: 1
Mood the Day Before: Tired; mentally “wired”
Sleepwear: Nude

This one might be stress-related as well, as yesterday was a bit intense. I do, however, remember the dream and woke during the orgasm. I was in a hallway, which looked a lot like the one at church that my brother and I were working on yesterday. (I should stop here and mention that my brother (he's 19) and I have a summer job refinishing and waxing the tile floors at the church, which we've been doing since mid-June. The hall was the one we were working on yesterday, I believe.) For some reason he was sitting on my lap. Unbeknownst to him, I was becoming very aroused and started to get an erection. At this point the dream became semi-lucid and I started squeezing my PC muscles and “grinding” a little. Suddenly I reached orgasm and the line between reality and the dream became nearly indistinct. The ejaculate oozed out, not with pulses as usual, and it almost felt like I wet the bed at first. It was about an 8 on the pleasure scale. I was on my back when I came, and the ejaculate ran down my right thigh. I’m really excited at having 3 WDs in a row, and to add to that, this is the dreaded “day 34” since my last MB. Also, this is about my 50th WD, by my reckoning. I’m encouraged and going strong, holding on to all the t-buzz feelings I enjoy so much. I’m still tempted to MB now and then, but I’m finding it easier and easier to resist as time goes on. I’m avoiding the situations that put me at risk of temptation and it’s working out very well.

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 Post subject: Re: PlainsMustang's WD Log
PostPosted: Tue Aug 05, 2008 9:29 pm 
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Three days in a row! Man, PM, you are a machine! Or a mustang, as it were... :-)

So, is it the dreaded Day 34 because that's how long you went before you MB'd last time? Man, 3 Xs in a row--you probably don't have that much build-up to be super horny, so I would think you'd be OK! Or are you still pretty horny?

Did the contents of your last dream, being w/your brother and all, did that wierd you out at all, or did you just say "whatever" bec it is a dream, and let's face it, WD's can be strange? You didn't mention it, so I assume it wasn't that big of a deal? I don't know how I would feel, I guess a little strange, so that's good if you didn't let it bother you.

Does your brother try to abstain from MB? Do you guys talk about that kind of thing?


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Three days in a row! Man, PM, you are a machine! Or a mustang, as it were... :-)

lol, thanks.

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So, is it the dreaded Day 34 because that's how long you went before you MB'd last time?

Twice, as a matter of fact. I think Lucid pointed that out to me a few weeks ago.

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Man, 3 Xs in a row--you probably don't have that much build-up to be super horny, so I would think you'd be OK! Or are you still pretty horny?

VERY horny, as a matter of fact. As I've described before, it's more of a "ready to go" feeling than a "hump everything in sight" feeling, but yeah, I am HORNY. lol

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Did the contents of your last dream, being w/your brother and all, did that wierd you out at all, or did you just say "whatever" bec it is a dream, and let's face it, WD's can be strange? You didn't mention it, so I assume it wasn't that big of a deal? I don't know how I would feel, I guess a little strange, so that's good if you didn't let it bother you.

I'll be honest; it really weirded me out initially. I've never had a dream with my bro in it before, and I was a little embarrassed to write about it. I've had some pretty weird dreams in the past though, so I did just take it in stride somewhat. I realize it's just a dream, and even though it grosses me out in waking thought, apparently it turned me on enough to cum last night, haha.

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Does your brother try to abstain from MB? Do you guys talk about that kind of thing?

We're really not that open about this kind of stuff. That's really why I'm on this forum in the first place, because these types of things just aren't discussed in our house, unfortunately.

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We're really not that open about this kind of stuff. That's really why I'm on this forum in the first place, because these types of things just aren't discussed in our house, unfortunately.


Yeah, that's probably pretty common for a lot of guys. Then you have guys like I think 301 where the boys shared a room and would beat off in front of each on a regular basis other like it was no big deal! Somewhere in between those two extremes I think is what most guys wish they had, so they could talk about normal guy stuff and know that they were normal. It's wierd why guys in particular tend to be like that, because from what I hear, girls, even conservative ones, are VERY open about talking about their sexuality. But as some guys have shown here, I think the culture that the particular family develops is a big part of that, it's not inherent that guys are shy about that stuff. There is another family at my church that I am close to, and they are pretty open about talking about sexual stuff (in an appropriate way), like it's no big deal, which is refreshing. And their kids still believe in sexual purity and all, so it's not like ignorance=righteousness. They just have a healthy attitude about it all.

I have two brothers but they are all way older than me (9 & 10 years), so it's not the same as when you are around the same age, but I guess having a bro your age doesn't guarantee any kind of openness, either! I have a cousin who was in a similar situation as me so one summer when we were young teens (we lived across the country, so we only saw ea other once in a blue moon for like a week at a time) I remember we talked a lot about sex n stuff and even watched ea other masturbate a few times, which actually I think was a good thing, because it answered some questions and helped us feel "normal," since we knew we weren't alone in this stuff. But that was my only experience like that, though I have had friends since then that I can talk about sexual stuff with, which is good.


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ENTRY #21

Date of Entry: Wednesday, August 06, 2008 8am
Date of WD: Same day, about 6am
Days since Last WD: 1
Mood the Day Before: Sedate; mild boredom
Sleepwear: Nude

I can’t believe it, but I’m making an entry for my fourth WD in a row. I woke up during the orgasm and fell back asleep nearly immediately after. I woke up again at 7 and forgot that I had a WD until I rolled over and landed in the stain. For a moment I couldn’t remember the dream, but then the last few seconds came back to me. I was somewhere, nude, and I started to get an erection for some reason. I remember the build-up, but I don’t remember what was stimulating me. I flexed my abs and PC muscles a few times, and then came. The orgasm was pretty good; probably a 7 or so. I was on my right side, close to the wall. These four in a row really have me scratching my head. I can’t figure out why I’ve been having so many so close together. This is definitely a new personal record. I haven’t changed my workout routine, I haven’t changed my schedule, I haven’t changed my diet. . . The only thing I can even remotely make a connection to is that I’ve had a lot of garlic and onions the last few days. I tend to think this hasn’t had an effect, but it is a possibility. Frankly I think the stress on Sunday “kick-started” this last run, where one WD contributed to the next. More than likely it will slow down and I’ll begin skipping days again. I’m very eager to see what happens now that I’m past day 34. This is the longest I’ve made it yet, and it will be interesting to see what pattern develops, if any.


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 Post subject: Re: PlainsMustang's WD Log
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Congratulations on so many WD's! It is interesting to try to figure out what may be causing this. If nothing about your daily routine or diet has changed significantly, do you notice any changes psychologically that may account for it? Changes in attitude, role, sense of control, etc?

Since you are not a 15 year old and this is indeed unusual for you, I think this basically proves beyond a doubt that WD's are for and by the brain, not (as so many believe) due to a build up of excess semen. Abstaining from MB may increase semen volume, but I think it's really the lack of orgasms that makes the brain decide to have them in WD's.

Let me 'think out loud' here, and please feel free to make comments without having to answer each specific question:

If we look for psychological connections, can you think of anything along those lines? Perhaps reaching your 34 day mark has something to do with it? If MB has very negative connotations, maybe the subconscious has finally figured a way to 'have its cake and eat it too' nad not worry about failing at 34 days again.

I think it's possible that if the brain at a subconscious level disconnects from MB and sees WD's as a good and acceptable way, one WD can trigger the next.

It would be interesting to compare how you feel after 4 consecutive days of WD's compared to how you'd feel after 4 consecutive days of MB. Is there a fundamental difference? Have you noticed any change in attitude about MB and WD's? Do you still feel a strong t-buzz and that 'ready to go' feeling after 4 WD's in a row?

One theory to explain the WD's might be that your brain has finally given up on MB as an outlet along with the guilt associated with it, and has embraced WD's as a pleasurable and guilt free outlet. If that is true, you might find that horniness and t-buzz are more separated from MB than ever, and the temptation to MB might be at an all time low.

I think we'd all like to be there: Being able to feel horniness and the t-buzz and enjoy WD after WD with no interest in MB whatsoever.

Please feel free to comment on these thoughts and questions. Maybe they can stimulate your own thoughts and observations.

Good luck in continuing your streak. Maybe the next step is two WD's in one night!


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Wow. The closest I came to that was 2 nights in a row and that happened once.

I am trying to imagine this whole thing where you say you flex your muscles. Do you do that yourself or is it an automatic sensation in your dream. In mine I TRY to stop things (remember I dream a lot of peeing and so I try to stop the flow a lot) but the whole process of feeling inevitable to when it actually starts to come out is all by itself for me.


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Congrats on 4 in a row. I never have had frequent WDs like you but did experience them 3 nights in a row in my 20s. Still don't know what I was doing to cause that to happen but I think stress had something to do with it.

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Abstaining from MB may increase semen volume, but I think it's really the lack of orgasms that makes the brain decide to have them in WD's.


It seems that I and some of the other guys that post here experience orgasms or near orgasms when sleeping while abstaining. My theory is that when this happens, the body is trying to have a WD but just hasn't been able to get all the way there. If it isn't the built up semen the body is trying to get rid of, I wonder what accounts for having most of the physical sensations of an orgasm,except the actual ejaculation, while dreaming.


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late30s wrote:
Congrats on 4 in a row. I never have had frequent WDs like you but did experience them 3 nights in a row in my 20s. Still don't know what I was doing to cause that to happen but I think stress had something to do with it.

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Abstaining from MB may increase semen volume, but I think it's really the lack of orgasms that makes the brain decide to have them in WD's.


It seems that I and some of the other guys that post here experience orgasms or near orgasms when sleeping while abstaining. My theory is that when this happens, the body is trying to have a WD but just hasn't been able to get all the way there. If it isn't the built up semen the body is trying to get rid of, I wonder what accounts for having most of the physical sensations of an orgasm,except the actual ejaculation, while dreaming.
That seems like a different issue. A guy won't have much semen built up after WD's 3 nights in a row, yet he can still have yet another WD on the 4th night. But at other times the same guy might have built up quite a lot of semen after abstaining for days or weeks and still not get any WD's at all. This simply can't be accounted for by semen build up alone. There must be other factors.

If the brain tries to get a WD at times, but doesn't quite succeed, seems like a different issue. It doesn't take away from the conclusion that WD's are not caused simply by semen build up alone, it just makes the whole WD issue even more complicated!


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Man, PM, I think you are now officially the poster boy for WD Forum! Ha ha, congrats! That's remarkable. I think it will be a while before someone beats that record!

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It would be interesting to compare how you feel after 4 consecutive days of WD's compared to how you'd feel after 4 consecutive days of MB. Is there a fundamental difference? Have you noticed any change in attitude about MB and WD's? Do you still feel a strong t-buzz and that 'ready to go' feeling after 4 WD's in a row?


Yeah, that's a great question, Texanguy. I know for me personally, I feel like crap after 4 days of MB. Definitely no sexual energy or much energy of any kind. Recently, I went through a streak where I MB'd several days in a row, sometimes more than once a day. (Don't worry, I'm on day 8 of abstinence since then--I just need to stop edging!) After a while, types of touch that would normally be sexually stimulating just weren't anymore. I wasn't sore or in pain or anything, but say a soft touch to my penis or a stroke or even my nipples (!) weren't sensitive any more. I could feel those types of touches, they just wouldn't give me any pleasure or turn me on. So it seems like after a while, the body gets its fill of a certain type of stimulation, and since there is no more semen build-up or prehaps bec one is "orgasmed out," your body won't respond in the same way. Has anybody else noticed this before? You could pound your meat till the cows come home and nothing. It's almost annoying then more than anything.

I wonder what the correlation is then w/wet dreams? You are still cumming and still feeling an orgasm. But as we all know, there is no post-O let down like w/MB. But after a while, you'd still run out of fluid or whatever so it seems like your body would loose "reason" to WD after a few times in a row, until it can "recuperate."

It will be interesting in the next few days, PM, to see how you feel & what happens next!


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Dude 4 WD in a row :shock:. I wish I could have some thing like that too but I keep messing up. Oh well can't give up. 8)

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ENTRY #22
Date of Entry: Sunday, August 10, 2008 6:45pm
Date of WD: About 5am, same day
Days since Last WD: 4
Mood the Day Before: Bored; sedate; laid-back
Sleepwear: Boxers

The first thing of note for this WD is the change in sleepwear: I decided to change things up and wear boxers last night just for the fun of it. Second, is that this is the most lucid dream I can ever remember. I was at some kind of camp in the woods somewhere. There was a house and a pond together near each other in a secluded area. It started out with me at the pond along with three teens that I didn’t recognize. Two were about 16-17, and the other was about 14-15. One of the older teens had brown shoulder-length hair, very similar to me. I remember feeling close to him, as if he were my best friend of many years. The teens and I were all in bathing suits and we were playing around the pond with rocks, mud, etc. After a short wile I went into the house to get some food. After a few minutes, I went back out to the pond. I remember talking with the teen who I thought was my best friend, though I don’t remember what we talked about. I do recall telling him that he needed to drink some water because he was probably dehydrated (?). I also remember putting my arm around him and hugging him several times. After more playing around the pond, I got out to pee in a nearby bush. When I pulled the front of my swim trunks down, I started to get an erection. I then noticed that I was uncircumcised. As I became erect, my foreskin started to pull back. I pulled it back all the way and I suddenly felt a cool breeze on my glans. Almost as suddenly, I climaxed and immediately awoke. I was able to enjoy the entire orgasm while fully awake; all 5-6 pulses. One thing I love about WD ejaculations is the way the ejaculate seems to “ooze out” with each pulse, rather than “shoot out” when I MB. It’s a very unique and satisfying feeling. I was flat on my stomach when I came, and I was about 40% erect, which is about normal. I don’t want to get too excited just yet, but it seems that my “regular interval” is about 4-5 days between WDs. I seem to remember that when I was younger it was more like 2 weeks between, but this may have been due to sporadic MB and periods of abstinence. This dream was very satisfying and comforting on many levels. It left me with a warm, fuzzy feeling all day and an aching desire for a friend like I had in the dream, which I’ve never had.

(The third pic below shows the stain on my sheets from the ejaculate leaking through the boxers)


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Dude, PM, that's awesome, man! It looks like your perseverance is paying off! Yeah, that would be awesome (and a great encouragement to the rest of us!) if you started getting 'em at 4-5 day intervals. That would be pretty ideal, I think! I think If I could pick how often I would have them, every 4 or 5 days would be nice. More frequently, in the long run, would probably get annoying, and less might get frustrating over the long haul, but who knows? I'll have to wait till I get to that place myself!

That sounds like a very cool dream. You mentioned having a foreskin in the dream, and I thought you had commented before on that topic, so I looked it up, and you mentioned that you were trying to restore yours. Are you still doing that? Were you able to grow any new skin? If so, how much, and over what period of time. Do you have a long ways to go before you are satisfied w/what you want with that, or have you been progressing at a steady rate?

I hear you on wanting a good friend. There are so many guys out there who could say the same thing. Someone like that is a great blessing, and I feel like it has to be God that brings important people like that into our lives! I will pray that God blesses you in that way, that is a very legitimate request. I have lots of friends, but I was thinking the other day that I don't have too many right now that I am really close to. I have a few that live farther away from me that I am very close to, and we still share that deep, brotherly connection, but we don't get to see ea other as much as I'd like! So I guess you could pray that for me, too!


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Congratulations on yet another WD!

PlainsMustang wrote:
I remember talking with the teen who I thought was my best friend........
It left me with a warm, fuzzy feeling all day and an aching desire for a friend like I had in the dream, which I’ve never had.
It's a fact of life that such friends are the exception rather than the rule. Young kids are too immature for deeper relationships, and in the teen years hormones, the pursuit of the opposite sex, and conformity to the 'rules' of adolescent culture all conspire to make such relationships quite rare.

Good evidence that this is true is that for most people the friends and relationships that they had during their high school years don't survive for very long after high school ends. For better or worse your experience is typical, at least in the US, so don't feel too deprived about your lack of a friend like that when you were growing up. It's normal.


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Congratulations, again, PM, and thanks for sharing the details of your dream and the pics. Your ejaculation must have been substantial for it to soak through the boxer briefs and onto the sheets.

I know what you mean by the "warm, fuzzy" feeling you have after the wet dream. When I wake up after one I feel the same way--and very much at peace, even though I usually don't remember much about the dream.

Keep the dreams and the pictures coming! (pun intended(


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Texanguy wrote:
Young kids are too immature for deeper relationships, and in the teen years hormones, the pursuit of the opposite sex, and conformity to the 'rules' of adolescent culture all conspire to make such relationships quite rare.

Good evidence that this is true is that for most people the friends and relationships that they had during their high school years don't survive for very long after high school ends. For better or worse your experience is typical, at least in the US, so don't feel too deprived about your lack of a friend like that when you were growing up. It's normal.


I disagree. I have worked w/high school aged youth for the past 10 years, and it is very possible for teen guys to develop "deep" friendships at that age, lasting several years. Yes, it is the exception rather than the rule, but it does happen, I know of a few groups of friends at our church that would fit that bill. And the pursuit of the opposite sex doesn't get in the way of that too much, because the pursuit is more like learning a new game at that age, and the awkwardness of it all often draws guys together as they experience it together. Plus, guys tend to be more loyal to their friends than girls at that age. This generation of youth (guys in particular) is a LOT different than the one I grew up with. They are much less homophobic in the sense that they aren't as "wierd" about expressing affection or getting close to another guy--they don't automatically assume that that's "gay." Granted, I do work at a church, so our culture is a little bit different than the broader one, but not all of our kids are Christians.

I do agree, however, that few close high school friends will remain so after high school, with many going off to college in different places, etc., but of course there are exceptions. College can be different though, it is more common for people to stay in contact w/college friends it seems. My parents are still friends w/two other couples from college, and they just had their 50th college reunion!

In PM's case, though he is 23, so he is at a great age to form those life-long or at least long term friendships, because people tend to be more settled then and are usually more aware of the value of such relationships. What does sometimes happen, though, is when people get married, they become so focused on the marriage for a while that they lose touch w/their friends, and then after a few years when they are more settled in their marriage, they look around for their friends and find that they are alone. And many psychologists can point to a lot of problems that can stem from guys not having male friends, in part because it is a different type of relationship than a marriage, and fulfills different needs. That is why it is important for married couples (though girls tend to be better at this) to maintain friendships/get to know other couples, and to be intentional about it. Otherwise, they often get frustrated w/ea other because the spouse can't be everything to them. That's why men's small groups are great for starting that journey. The one I'm in has both single and married guys in it, and we get along great.


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Post catch-up time! And it looks like this will be a big one. Oh well, here goes:

Texanguy wrote:
Since you are not a 15 year old and this is indeed unusual for you, I think this basically proves beyond a doubt that WD's are for and by the brain, not (as so many believe) due to a build up of excess semen. Abstaining from MB may increase semen volume, but I think it's really the lack of orgasms that makes the brain decide to have them in WD's.
. . .
It would be interesting to compare how you feel after 4 consecutive days of WD's compared to how you'd feel after 4 consecutive days of MB. Is there a fundamental difference? Have you noticed any change in attitude about MB and WD's? Do you still feel a strong t-buzz and that 'ready to go' feeling after 4 WD's in a row?

WDs are without a doubt psychological. There is no "need" for the male body to ejaculate at any given interval. The body simply reabsorbs any unused sperm after a certain period of time while continuously producing new sperm. Not to mention that sperm is actually a relatively small part of ejaculate, which mostly contains prostate fluid and Cowper's gland secretions, among other things. Think of men who have had vasectomies: the sperm have no outlet whatsoever, and yet there are no problems with "needing to ejaculate." No, the "need to ejaculate," or more correctly the need for an orgasm, is purely of the mind.

Regarding the feelings after 4 days of WDs versus 4 days of MB: night and day. 4 straight days of MB (if I could even manage it!) would leave me totally wasted, depressed, and irritable. The fourth WD left me just a little tired (wouldn't you be after four ejaculations?) but emotionally high. On day three I was as horny as anything, and although it was tempered a bit on day four from being a little tired, I was still pretty horny. And yeah, "ready to go."

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I am trying to imagine this whole thing where you say you flex your muscles. Do you do that yourself or is it an automatic sensation in your dream[?]

I do it in my dream, as sort of a semi-lucid response to the stimulation. The best I can describe it is when you're MBing (which you better not be doing!) and you "flex your penis" as you're stroking. It's almost a whole-body thing: it involves your abs, your glutes, your PC muscles, and your thighs. Sort of a "grinding" motion. It's all in my dreams, mind you. The only time I actually do anything physically is if I wake up during the orgasm, where I sometimes do the "muscle flexing thing," almost as an automatic response. Hope that answers your question. Ask again if it didn't.

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I wonder what the correlation is then w/wet dreams? You are still cumming and still feeling an orgasm. But as we all know, there is no post-O let down like w/MB. But after a while, you'd still run out of fluid or whatever so it seems like your body would loose "reason" to WD after a few times in a row, until it can "recuperate."

You're on the right track in one sense; that is, after 4 WDs my "fluid reserves" were lowered, and therefore there was less physical "need" for WDs in the days following. This may (or may not) have affected my "mental need" for WDs, and thus the 4 day break until my next WD. The idea is that physical factors have MUCH less affect on WDs than mental factors, and that if physical factors do affect WDs, it would appear that it is in a negative way. (That is, after MBing or a series of WDs, the body says "ok, slow down; I need a break here.")

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You mentioned having a foreskin in the dream, and I thought you had commented before on that topic, so I looked it up, and you mentioned that you were trying to restore yours. Are you still doing that? Were you able to grow any new skin? If so, how much, and over what period of time. Do you have a long ways to go before you are satisfied w/what you want with that, or have you been progressing at a steady rate?

I hear you on wanting a good friend. There are so many guys out there who could say the same thing. Someone like that is a great blessing, and I feel like it has to be God that brings important people like that into our lives! I will pray that God blesses you in that way, that is a very legitimate request. I have lots of friends, but I was thinking the other day that I don't have too many right now that I am really close to. I have a few that live farther away from me that I am very close to, and we still share that deep, brotherly connection, but we don't get to see ea other as much as I'd like! So I guess you could pray that for me, too!

I am still restoring, and I am progressing. Of course, not as fast as I want to, but nonetheless, I am making progress. And yes, I am a far way off from my goal. I've only been restoring faithfully for a total of about 6-8 months, so it's going to be a while. At this point I basically have a bunch of loose skin while flaccid. Occasional rollover when I sit just right, but that's rare. I don't notice much of a difference when erect.

Thank you for your prayers Re: a good friend. I will indeed be praying to that same end for you. Growing up I was always "mature" for my age (not to toot my own horn), and that coupled with the fact that I'm rather "geek-like" in my interests and abilities made me a sort of social outcast. While all the rest of the teens at church enjoyed playing basketball and soccer and "talking about nothing" I was sort of by myself longing for a deep, one-on-one relationship with someone who cared about me and wanted to spend time with me. There are other, deeper issues at play here, and I really don't have the time or inclination to go into them all. Suffice to say that I was in a situation (and still am) where I didn't have the opportunity to meet someone else like me, who desired a deep friendship and "quality rather than quantity" regarding friendship.

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