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 Post subject: de-lurking
PostPosted: Thu Jul 24, 2008 8:12 am 
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Date that you last masturbated to ejaculation: 17 Jul 2008
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Hi all & great to hookup with guys that are not into mb'ing.

Besides lurking around here a lot I've tried hundreds of times to stop MB, partly due to some religious belief but mainly because it bugs me. I've abused mb for all sorts of reasons (to sleep, to wake up, feeling down, bored, horny) and often mb'd even though I was not horny. I've missed out on sex opps because I'd mb'd to much beforehand. The most I ever made without mb is 20 days & I went totally mental then.

I've changed my mindset from "I want to cum but need to hold out for xx more days" to regarding stopping MB as a process similar to drug withdrawl, a non-option & that WD will sort the pressure out. Previously I edged a lot which didn't help, it just put me in a state of frenzied sexual frustration. This time I've been completely hands-off and it's been a easier.

I'm on day seven now and it's been ok'ish. I've had insanely horny days where I've spent a lot of time hiding boners until I could move on and some chilled days too. Today is chilled. I must be getting full because I've started getting sperm leakage (not pre-cum) - my underwear is completely stained wheras before I'd only have a few precum marks.

Besides hands-off I'll be staying away from porn. Yesterday I looked at porn, all it did was give me a throbbing boner & more frustration. Even though I didn't edge the porn arousal led to me having VERY painfull balls for a few hours, haha nature's way of saying porn is not good ;)

I wish you all luck & I can't wait to experience my first wd, bring it on! (quickly please ;)


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 Post subject: Re: de-lurking
PostPosted: Thu Jul 24, 2008 1:48 pm 
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Welcome, and good luck!


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 Post subject: Re: de-lurking
PostPosted: Fri Jul 25, 2008 7:37 pm 
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Date that you last masturbated to ejaculation: 20 Jul 2008
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Hey-- welcome man! I've also found out (the hard way!) that porn and edging aren't compatible with quitting MBing. I think staying clear of these things and keeping yourself really busy are two major keys to success. Anyhow, congrats on making it over a week now and good luck!


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 Post subject: Re: de-lurking
PostPosted: Sat Jul 26, 2008 3:08 pm 
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If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 6-7 hours
Date that you last masturbated to ejaculation: 02 Jul 2008
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Welcome welcome.
The best approach, I think you'll find, is the hands-off, no porn approach. Some people have a strong enough will to just say "I'm quitting" and then do it. Most others, however, need to put the MBing behind them and look to something as a goal to help them quit.
My advice would be to try getting busy. Just start being more physically active and keep your mind busy. The distraction will go a long way toward helping you achieve your goal.
Keep us posted with your progress, and remember: the only stupid question is the one unasked. :mrgreen:

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 Post subject: TEN days!
PostPosted: Sun Jul 27, 2008 10:45 pm 
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Thanks for the welcome guys.

yes! I've hit double digits. 10 days.

It's not been plain sailing tho. I spent two days edging BECAUSE I looked at porn, gah I know better but I figured I had to direct the sexual frustration somewhere ... and boy did that not work out well for me, it just made it worse. But at least no orgasm, just a bit of spillage which I reckon doesn't count? I'm trying to get back into the "chilled" mode of accepting & enjoying a sexual state instead of consciously working it up even more.

Anycase halfway to 20 days and learning as I go along to live with this as being normal so I can get start getting wd's!!

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 Post subject: Re: de-lurking
PostPosted: Mon Aug 04, 2008 5:56 pm 
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Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
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Date that you last masturbated to ejaculation: 17 Jul 2008
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Day 18 here .... does anyone else also get grumpy ... I just *know* mb will sort this out ...


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 Post subject: Re: de-lurking
PostPosted: Mon Aug 04, 2008 10:18 pm 
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Average time to ejaculation when masturbating normally: 5
Underwear during wet dreams: Boxers
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 6-7 hours
Date that you last masturbated to ejaculation: 30 Jul 2008
Sex: Male
Ha ha, yeah, masturbation will help w/your frustration in the short-term, but as with making any new change to your physical routine, your body will take a period of adjusting to new things, in this case, not "releasing" itself on a regular basis via your right hand! It will adapt, but you will have to soldier up and endure the discomfort for a little while longer, then you'll be fine, soldier boy.


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 Post subject: Re: de-lurking
PostPosted: Tue Aug 05, 2008 4:32 am 
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Average time to ejaculation when masturbating normally: 7
Underwear during wet dreams: N/A - never had a wet dream
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: N/A - Had a wet dream, but never woke up to see the time.
Date that you last masturbated to ejaculation: 17 Jul 2008
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Thanks for the encouragment Squeeze, it's definitely going to be a soldiering on day today. It's only 5am and once again I'm wide awake from being horny... I can already tell today is going to be hard & concentrating not easy. I hope my brain is getting the message, damnit brain have a wetdream, pleeease!!


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 Post subject: Re: de-lurking
PostPosted: Wed Aug 06, 2008 6:55 pm 
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Average time to ejaculation when masturbating normally: 20
Underwear during wet dreams: Boxers
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 5-6 hours
Date that you last masturbated to ejaculation: 20 Jul 2008
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Hey man-- I hear you on the grumpy thing. I'm on day 17 and I'm pissed as hell for no reason :evil: ! Usually, weights help me deal with the anger and aggression, and running (or pretty much any cardio) helps with anxiety/frustration etc. Anyhow, stick with it and stay strong! You've gone this far and put this much effort into it, it would suck to give up now.


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 Post subject: Three Weeks
PostPosted: Thu Aug 07, 2008 7:29 am 
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Average time to ejaculation when masturbating normally: 7
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Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
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Date that you last masturbated to ejaculation: 17 Jul 2008
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I've hit three three weeks. Yaaay! But no WD :roll:

Day 18/19/20 were mind bendingly intense, fun in some ways but a heck of a lot to deal with. I'm looking back now wondering wtf was that about!?? It was as though I was possessed lol. :twisted: Admittedly I edged so maybe that's what set it off.

I've always cracked around day 20. This time I came close to deciding it's ok to MB just for some peace & relief (I was very achy). But as Cokie81 said it would suck to give in again and so I decided to accept my natural sexuality and to get that WD instead of MB.

I can tell today is going to be a lot easier, phew. Hopefully I'm in for a few easy days now. Amazing how these cycles work, I wonder if it's mental or hormonal.


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 Post subject: Re: de-lurking
PostPosted: Fri Aug 08, 2008 12:23 pm 
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Average time to ejaculation when masturbating normally: 5
Underwear during wet dreams: Boxers
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: yes
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 4-5 hours
Date that you last masturbated to ejaculation: 06 Aug 2008
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Dude I can't even make it to day 20. I can barely even make it to day 6 :oops:. Oh well I just gotta keep telling myself that WD are much better then MB. But the whole thing is the waiting. So I gotta just concentrate on other things like excersising. 8)

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 Post subject: Re: de-lurking
PostPosted: Sat Aug 09, 2008 7:48 pm 
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Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 5-6 hours
Date that you last masturbated to ejaculation: 22 Jul 2008
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Hihiii...
I remember my last time when i tried WD's, there was a little funny incident. Like i said in other topic i have always had to wait few months to get WD's. And on that time period i had been keep saying to myself: "i cant masturbate, i have to stay without masturbation, gotta stay calm, gotta wait WD's and so on...". And then one night i had very good arousal, ready to action. But then... i said to myself the same damn things in my dreams which i had repeat all the time i had fought against masturbation urge on day time xD Damn! And of course i did not understand that i was sleeping so i believed what i said and stopped the sex things... Uh oh :) I were little bit angry to myself when i woke up :mrgreen:


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 Post subject: Re: de-lurking
PostPosted: Sat Aug 09, 2008 7:56 pm 
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Average time to ejaculation when masturbating normally: 7
Underwear during wet dreams: N/A - never had a wet dream
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: N/A - Had a wet dream, but never woke up to see the time.
Date that you last masturbated to ejaculation: 17 Jul 2008
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lol it sux when u stop urself from cummin in a dream. I know. Damn I know.


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 Post subject: Caved
PostPosted: Sun Aug 10, 2008 10:05 am 
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Date that you last masturbated to ejaculation: 17 Jul 2008
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Damn, here I go again
Last night I caved and MB. DAMN DAMN DAMN! It didn't even feel good, about a 1/10. So not worth it. I'm fairly sure 23 days is a new record but I feel rottten about it.

Day 1 again. I'm not messin about this time.


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 Post subject: Re: de-lurking
PostPosted: Sun Aug 10, 2008 11:41 am 
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Date that you last masturbated to ejaculation: 06 Aug 2008
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Hey no worries man. 23 days is pretty good. This time just try to beat the 23 day point then keep going from there. If you did it once you can do it again. Stay strong. 8)

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 Post subject: Re: Caved
PostPosted: Sun Aug 10, 2008 1:00 pm 
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If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 7-8 hours
Date that you last masturbated to ejaculation: 21 Jul 2008
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HereWeGoAgain wrote:
Damn, here I go again
Last night I caved and MB. DAMN DAMN DAMN! It didn't even feel good, about a 1/10. So not worth it. I'm fairly sure 23 days is a new record but I feel rottten about it.

Day 1 again. I'm not messin about this time.



If your length of abstaining is continuing to increase, you are at least making progress. Next time when you are tempted, think about how unsatisfying the last experience of MB was and how much better a WD will be.

Really, if you've never had a WD, you owe it to yourself to experience one.


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 Post subject: Re: de-lurking
PostPosted: Sun Aug 10, 2008 6:04 pm 
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Average time to ejaculation when masturbating normally: 20
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Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 5-6 hours
Date that you last masturbated to ejaculation: 20 Jul 2008
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Hey man-- 23 days is still quite an accomplishment. And the things you learn when you mess up can only help you on your next try. Just keep at it :)


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 Post subject: Re: de-lurking
PostPosted: Wed Aug 13, 2008 2:06 am 
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Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 5-6 hours
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herewegoagain - 23 days is excellent. congratulations on that. but for me the key was taking it one day at a time, especially when a streak would end. so start again and just concentrate on today.


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