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| late30s |
| Posted: Oct 18 2007, 09:02 PM |
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I need some opinions from any of the guys out there that have experienced this. I’ve been abstaining for 21 days now and have been good about keeping strict hands off policy and not edging but my experience this morning made me think, WTF?
I’ll try and not make this too gross but here’s the deal. So this morning I was sitting on the toilet doing my business and semen started flowing out of my penis. I was completely soft and it wasn’t like an ejaculation, it just sort of oozed and seeped out. A fair amount of it came out but not as much as one of my normal ejaculations – maybe a little less then half as much. I kept thinking NO – I don’t want to waste it! But it continued to leak out over maybe 20 seconds or so. Then a few minutes later as I was taking a shower, again completely soft, a little more seeped out but not as much this time. I noticed at the time that my balls felt fuller or bigger then usual. Maybe I was so full, the stuff just had to come out.
I’ve never had a SE and I really don’t consider this to have been one, although maybe it was. It didn’t feel like a SE because, like I said, there weren’t really any contractions and it didn’t feel good.
So I was kind of pissed as I was thinking this might be a major setback and it didn’t even feel good! The stuff just kind of came out without any pleasurable sensation to it. So if this has happened to you did you find that it delayed you being able to get a WD? Or, on the other hand, is it a sign that you’re so close to popping that a WD is right around the corner? If it means I’m close, I’ll be more inclined to continue to hold out.
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| Texanguy |
| Posted: Oct 18 2007, 10:11 PM |
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I think that this qualifies as a kind of SE, and something similar has happened to me. I can't say for sure that it would delay a WD, since you don't have to be really 'full' for a WD. Not having orgasms while awake can make the brain turn to WD's while sleep.
Since you have been enjoying the effects of abstaining, I think you might as well continue. Who knows, memory of this SE may stimulate the brain to try a WD.
Good luck in getting a WD soon!
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| Whiz-bang |
| Posted: Oct 18 2007, 11:16 PM |
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I've never had a SE while completely limp but I guess it could happen.
I would stay on course since obviously MB will set back your WD to square one.
I don't want to sound like an alarmist but it might not be a horrible idea to check your prostate sometime. I know that if the prostate gets pressure on it you can ejaculate without an erection. |
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| late30s |
| Posted: Oct 19 2007, 05:39 AM |
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Thanks for the replies. I've decided to continue abstaining - in it too far at this point to want to start over! Also, I realize that I made a mistake when I stated yesterday that I'd been abstaining 21 days. TODAY will be 21 days of abstaining for me.
Whiz-bang, I appreciate your concern. Rest assured I got my annual physical within the last 5 - 7 months and all was well. I don't think there is a problem with my prostate because other than the situation yesterday morning, everything else seems in order. For example, no trouble starting or stopping when I have to pee.
Anyhow, I haven't had another major involuntary release since yesterday morning. I've had precum leakage here and there throughout the day but that was something that started and has continued since about one week in.
Also, still no WD.
Still if any of the other men out there had experiences similar to the one I had yesterday morning, I'd be interested in hearing whether it seemed to dealy the WD or was a sign that a WD was near, OR maybe had no significance either way. |
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| Thursday |
| Posted: Oct 19 2007, 07:20 AM |
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Something similar has happened to me too a few times, for me it wasn't semen, it was more like WD-fluid which seeped from my penis soon after I urinated or defecated. Our muscles in that area contract and relax as we use the toilet and shower etc., I think this is just another way for our bodies to release any stale or excess fluid, and keep our systems healthy. As it happens when/soon after we defecate or urinate, I see this type of emission as just another waste emission like those two. I think it will delay your next WD a little, for whatever reason our bodies choose to do this sometimes, I wouldn't worry about it.
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